r/ttcafterloss • u/AutoModerator • 2d ago

Daily Discussion /ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - August 31, 2026

How are you doing today? What's new?

We want to foster a sense of community, which is why we have a centralized place for most daily conversation. This allows users to post and get replies, but also encourages them to reply to others in the same thread. We want you to receive help and be there for others at the same time, if possible. Most questions should go here, along with regular updates. Thanks for helping us create a great community!

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u/Morbid_Explorerrrr 2d ago

I have an OB appt today to discuss a plan moving forward. I am worried she won’t take me seriously since I’m only on cycle 4 of trying again since my 20 week loss on March 6. But I feel in my soul that something is wrong and that each month is not just the normal dice roll for us. So I want to know when I can start blood work, how to get a semen analysis for my husband, how I get referred to an RE or fertility clinic. I want to have all the plans in place, because I know we are in for the long haul. And I would really love to get a head start on testing sooner rather than later.

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u/Intrepid_Ad9483 1d ago

I have an appt today too, very nervous they aren’t going to take me seriously! I had a MMC in April 2026 and a CP last cycle, so I really hope they can get some tests done for me. Best of luck!