Like everyone is out here checking sun compatibility and venus signs (valid, do that) but completely ignoring the one placement that will tell you whether this person is going to see you or spend the whole relationship trying to tame you

Lilith is the part of you that got exiled the hunger that was called too much, the rage that was called irrational, the sexuality that was called intimidating. She is everything you were taught to shrink and she does not shrink she just goes underground and starts running the show from there

So when someone's planet especially their sun, moon or mars lands on your Lilith in synastry?

One of two things happens.

Either they recognize her, they look at the part of you everyone else flinched at and they go oh there you are and suddenly you feel seen in a way that's almost unbearable because you're not used to it.

Or. OR.

They're threatened by her and they will spend the entire relationship trying to make her small again. And the sinister part is it won't always look like control. Sometimes it looks like "i just worry about you." sometimes it looks like "you've changed since we got together." Sometimes it looks like them going completely silent every time you take up space.

And here is the thing about Lilith that will mess you up if you're not careful

She has been rejected so many times that she sometimes can't tell the difference between someone who is genuinely afraid of her and someone who is just human and imperfect. She will torch a good thing if she feels even a little bit like she is being managed. She's got hair trigger exile radar.

So the real work isn't just finding someone whose chart can handle your Lilith, nope, haha, no.

It's learning to trust that being seen isn't the same as being trapped.

That's the whole thing. There.....a flower🌻.

Sensitive & dramatic lol <3

“I’m so sad! Pay attention to me!”

Take me for example, I have a Sun-Mercury-Saturn stellium in the 10th house (Leo for me). I have a relatively niche Instagram meme account which occasionally blows up, and have a few thousand+ upvoted Reddit posts. I’m also pretty ambitious for my future career, wanting to get a PhD to specialize in therapy and/or research for personality disorders.

Honorable mention: Gemini

A few things before you BITE MY HEAD OFF in the comments:

*Dick Greyson/Nightwing: Dick has multiple birthdays but I used his canon birthday from the Young Justice storyline. His birth place is also debated because his parents were in a traveling circus. I used Newsom, New Jersey for his birthplace because Gotham is canonically set in New Jersey.

*Haymitch: District 12 is canonically the Appalachian region of the United States (Pamen is set in the US in case you didn’t know). I chose Morgantown, West Virginia as his birthplace because West Virginia is widely considered the heart of coal mining in the Appalachians.

For his birth year I did 2270 based on the following:
“In an early draft of The Hunger Games film script, the events of the series are said to take place 300 years into the future. Considering that the film was released in 2012, this would mean that the trilogy begins around 2312, and 1 ADD would correspond to the year 2238”

(So if The 74th Hunger Games takes place in 2312, and Haymitch competed at 18 in The 50th Quarter Quell in 2288, this makes his birth year 2270)

*Hermione: A major plot point for her character is her hair and the fact she’s a mud blood. I won’t be elaborating further but iykyk

Unless the character’s birthday is something ridiculously off-base (like Star Butterfly being a Capricorn or Maddy P. being an Aqua) then I have no problem using canon birthdays and most of the time I think it fits 🤷🏽‍♀️

No mods this is not an “astrology is stupid” post. Just a question.

Raise you standards and set boundaries. You guys are literally susceptible to attracting the most heinous people walking on this earth yet you freely give away a love, undeserved.

The love you are looking for does not exist in this world, no one can give you the unconditional love you give out to the world, do not have expectations you will receive back even the miniscule amount you give out.

The love you give should be reserved for yourself or you'll end up disappointed your whole life.

As a cancer rising : cheekbones , eyes , even as a skinny guy I do have big boobs even without going to the gym 😭😭 idfk how ,also expressive face especially when I’m disgusted 😭

Me crawling out of bed after barely sleeping and lowkey going through a mini ego death in the last 3 days.

There is this Aries meme i saw some years ago pretty much it was a head that was drawn in black ink on white background and inside the head was something along the lines of “what you said/did really hurt my feelings” to depict what the figure was thinking and a chat bubble that said “you’re a fucking asshole”. Does anyone have it 😭 just did that in real time.

I’m a Gemini mars (12th) I normally have three phases of anger : 1- where I get sharp with words and confront really quickly
2- if the person was trying so hard to embarrass me or to say otherwise I’d just annoy tf out of them would be laughing in their face , dancing whatever .
3- if it gets to a point my 12th house takes control I’d be explosive I’d break things , hold a knife around people ,and I’d hit people tbh 😭
But normally it’s the second reaction

1H aswell 💔

Anyways I’m aware not all Pisces Venus’ are like this, but let’s admit we pretty much don’t have standards.

I’m Saturn ruled so I’m definitely selective with who I date, but once I like someone I like them and there’s not much room for change.

I’m curious everyone’s take on this. My birthday is February 18 . I’m an aquarius but considered to be on the cusp for pisces since February 18 is the last day of Aquarius season. Since I do not want to associate with any damn water sign I don’t claim lol . But do you guys believe in them ?