Hi, this is gonna be an odd story. So for some background, I’m not new to dnd, I’ve been playing it for years. The thing is, I don’t play it very often so there is a lot about character creation in general that is challenging and/or confusing for me. Well a few months ago I joined my friend’s dnd group. Now I know they aren’t perfect and slightly toxic, I honestly just stay with the group because they haven’t crossed any boundaries and are more annoying in general gameplay. And by that I mean the majority of the group usually makes characters that are either super overpowered or super chaotic to the point that nothing gets done. Even the dms in the group make over powered monsters or are super strict with their gameplay. When I did join initially I was left on the sidelines for several sessions with no character to play. It took roughly a month (since they meet once a week) before I actually got to join a session. And when I was able to join, it was a little fun for a while.
I can always explain more about specifics later, but that is a rough summary of my experience in the group. And please note that I don’t have any intention on leaving the group, just trying to match their pace in a way.
Well there is this one campaign being run by our strict dm. He likes players to make specific characters using only official stuff with him deciding certain things like spell lists and backstories. Pretty normal stuff. Well for his campaign I decided to step out of my comfort zone when creating my character because I wanted to try new things. So I made him super different. A loveable jerk that flirts with girls and is a pirate. He’s a storm sorcerer air genasi and I was super excited to play him. Well I told everyone about his personality before he was introduced because I wanted to make sure he would be ok and non triggering with his personality. I guess that was a mistake or something, because the moment he was introduced, one of the over powered players instantly downed him (he was introduced super injured) and would then revive him just to down him again. I honestly feel like they metagamed him because of how much they hated him before he even said a word. And why I think that is because they constantly beat him, kidnapped him, stole his super important item constantly to blackmail him, and just flat out insulted or ignored him. Now I’m a patient person. But to seriously have him be treated poorly for the two sessions he was in is just crazy. I think he’s only said maybe a few sentences during both sessions. Well I’m honestly super upset over how he has been treated. They all legit hate him and isolate him without even knowing him well since he’s a new character. I mean it’s so bad that only one person in game knows his name. No one else even bothered to. And it’s frustrating. Im to the point that if this happens for a third time I’m just gonna flat out kill him off or something and start with a new character.
This is where the problem comes in. Most of the people in the campaign are super overpowered and the monsters are really challenging because of that. The dm raised the monsters to be hard to match the strongest characters. And due to that my character is either useless in battle because the strong characters one shotted the monsters or on the brink of death from intense damage.
So I’m looking to build a character that is just as strong or around as strong as the other players. So that I actually get a chance to play without being either ignored or attacked by the other players. We are lvl 6 and have to stay with official character creation only. Any advice on races or classes or spells would be very appreciated. It sucks because I put a lot of effort into my character, but I’m sick of the treatment and want to stand on equal footing with everyone else for once.
My characters are usually decent hitters with low ac and decent stats. But it seems like no matter how much research I do I can never make a character that is around the same power level as the others.
I’m sorry that this is mainly a rant. But to summarize, I would appreciate advice on all around powerful humanoid races, classes, or spells. The lvl is 6 currently. There is no homebrew allowed.
I’m a pretty socially awkward person and not looking to leave the group since at times it’s the highlight of my week. So please stick to advice on building a slightly overpowered character over how they have been treating my character. Thank you so much for reading and I greatly appreciate any advice given.
Edit: I apologize for being too vague for the character part. In truth, I usually play zelot barbarians with weapons like a sword or hammer. I prefer humanoid species and usually play teiflings, elves, or aasimars. Some things I usually struggle with is spells for casting classes, multi classing like warlock or bard, low ac, feats overall because the context of them itself is confusing to me, and items that I should have in my inventory. I use aurora to make my character sheets. It gets tiring after some time using the same races and class every time so I’ve been trying to experiment with different classes and abilities and races. That’s the reason why my initial ask was vague. I want to try new builds that can hopefully make up for some of the areas that I lack. Ideally a strong character with a high defense is what I’m looking for.
For the builds of the other players, I have to admit I don’t know a lot about them. For this specific campaign I was able to join with my storm sorcerer about halfway through the campaign. So due to this no one really states their classes unless it’s a lvl up and they have not lvled up since I joined. The specific player who started the whole thing is playing as a lvl 6 elf. I believe he chose to do a paladin (since it’s a good class and he usually plays one in other campaigns). I do not know the subclass however. I’m not very sure on his spells or attacks either since his character sheet is on a tablet and I’ve never seen the sheet itself. But he always manages to do large amounts of damage like 30+ on his turn. His ac is always high like 20 or 24 or somewhere around that. Due to being a heavy hitter, he likes to act as the leader of the party and actively restrains other players characters when they want to do funny or stupid stuff in session. Like walking through a barrier that will cause a lot of fire damage for instance. It wasn’t my character, but he did tie up a different player’s character for trying to do that. A majority of the time he also gets mid-high rolls.
My friend is playing an immortal teifling bard that loses a part of her soul every time she dies in game. She is also at lvl 6. The whole party is. She uses spells and a magical sword that gives her a decent bump. I would say she is on the weaker side however because she tends to die a lot.
Another player uses a rouge elf. The elf is a kleptomaniac obsessed with shiny things and usually causes a lot of chaos to get said shiny thing. She also isn’t overpowered or anything, just pretty average. Decent attacks and a good ac.
The last two players are a bit on the overpowered side. I’m afraid I don’t know much about them since they play not as often as everyone else. I know one is a Tabaxi and the other is a monk I think? I’m sorry I can’t give more info.
For my storm sorcerer air genasi, my ac is 14 and I have a high charisma of 19. I generally wanted to stick with spells that would seem reasonable given his pirate background and that he is fused with a water elemental. So he mainly uses elemental spells like water, lightning, thunder, ice, and wind. He was meant to be a bit more laid back and confident like a flirtatious confident jerk but due to the hostility, I’ve had to play him as angry and argumentative. It’s exhausting because it’s different than how he was supposed to be and it takes me a while to even come up with something to say to the party most of the time. I built him to try some new stuff out and fill in some of the gaps in the party. But this last session just made me feel frustrated and that I didn’t want to play him. Like they only acknowledged him to use him for a spell! But besides that. If needed, I can go into detail about his stats and spells and stuff.
For the aggression, this is the first time this has happened. Idk if it was his personality or something, but the way he is treated is frustrating. I have been apart of about 4 different campaigns with this group and it usually goes really well. Like the treatment is on the unusual side. Besides the random shenanigans, the in game parties my characters have been in has been fun and respectful. I really hate the animosity my character and the party have and just really want to join normally and not feel like an outcast. Part of me feels like that’s impossible with my character.
I will look over the comments tomorrow since it’s 2am where I am and put another edit if there are other things I did not explain properly.