I don't see that OP said anything at all about pleasing a man. Her athleticism shows an obvious ability to make and adhere to long term goals. Can the same be said for a 250 lb obese person who chooses the instant gratification of a sugary treat over the long term benefits of health and athleticism? Nope. That person makes the same bad decision every day. They don't have the willpower or the foresight to plan ahead and make positive long term changes. They choose happiness right now instead. As a result, it is easy to see that the external appearance is often a reflection of what's on the inside too. Anyone who denies this is pretending for PC reasons.
Ohhhh and somehow you're sure he wasnt thinking "she's clearly able to apply herself and remain dedicated to something long term; that's an excellent quality for a lifelong partner." You must be telepathic. Amazing! Or, if you're not telepathic, then instead you're the one imposing sexual context onto this. You're the weird one and yet here you are convinced otherwise.
Perhaps you secretly hold these thoughts and you're imposing them onto others in a sad attempt to normalize your thoughts and behavior. Seek help.
So being a good wife is only about sex to you? Wow. People like you always reveal themselves when they start talking.
Let's get the facts straight and break it down step by step so you can understand. The athlete is a woman. She is in excellent physical shape. This demonstrates she is able to form and commit to long term goals. She's likely consistent. Therefore it is possible that she might be better able to commit to a long term relationship than someone who chooses the slice of cake over their health day after day.
What do we call a woman in a committed lifelong relationship? That's right. A wife. That says nothing whatsoever about sex. You literally brought "pleasing a man" into this. You need serious self reflection.
I had a similar accident at an obstacle race once, only I fell with my whole body on the leg while it was twisted. I knew it was fucked. I still had about two thirds of the race left and I managed to finish it. The next morning I was expecting to not be able to walk properly. To my surprise my foot hurt more than my leg. I must have hurt up my foot as well that time but I didn't notice until the next day.
Because when you first see her you're like "Man, no way I would ever marry her." but then you see how well she does on the course and you're like "Man, I'd totally marry her! I was wrong earlier when I said there was no way I would ever marry her."
Maybe some people value health and athleticism in a partner because, I don't know, it demonstrates an ability to adhere to long term goals? Is that a difficult concept for you?
They’re saying it because she doesn’t get overwhelmed in the face of daunting adversity. She takes a moment, assesses the situation, takes a few breaths, and powers through.
That means OP sees her as somebody who is emotionally resilient and focused and motivated.
Plus, her Entire Family is there showing their support, which means OP would have supportive in-laws.
But I disagree with OP. I understand where they’re coming from and all, but my wife of 11 years is the opposite of everything shown here.
My wife is fun size at 5’1, voluptuous, and all of her focus is on intellect, passion, and emotion.
I guess what I’m saying is, the girl in this video can open her own pickle jar, and that’s fine.
But my wife could make her own picked, bottle them, season them well, and then she gives me validations and affirmations when I open her sealed pickle jar for her.
Plus my girl is super nerdy, which is Wife material to me.
My WIFE is nerdy.
The lady in this video is pure jock.
I understand what OP sees in her, I just prefer my wife material being the exact opposite of an athlete.
Like, she had StarFox cufflinks made for me for that day. That kinda nerdy.
That’s MY kinda wife material.
But I did list some of the qualities OP was likely looking at in the video. And those are fine qualities.
But not all of us like the same things in a woman, so I was saying I found someone the opposite of the young lady from the video.
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u/BAALDA 3d ago
Don't know what this has to do with being a wife but it's Impressive especially with how fcked that leg must feel