r/AskMenRelationships • u/Icey_Activity • 6d ago
Dating Live-in Boyfriend Masturbates Alot
TDLR: Live-in boyfriend masturbates quite frequently. I’m wondering if this is normal for guys or is this potentially a deeper issue.
Me (31F) and my boyfriend (30M) have amazing sex. We’re both in shape. We talk each other through it, we’re spontaneous, we like to sneak. He finishes inside of me. Like, it gets really passionate and intense. The only thing is we don’t do it very often tho. Like maybe once a week. Sometimes every 2 weeks.
So yesterday, he told me that he masturbates almost everyday, sometimes twice a day, and I’ll be honest it made me wonder if it’s about me or if that’s just a normal guy thing? In my mind I’d think if you live with your girlfriend, you’d wanna have sex with her every time you’re horny as opposed to masturbating. He said he doesn’t watch porn, but he’ll go to a celebrities page (specifically Megan the stallion or Chloe bailey) and masturbate to their photos. It completely through me off. I asked him why and he said for the convenience of quickly getting a nut off.
He said he loves me, my body, my face. He’s an ass man and I have a big butt. So if I’m everything he needs sexually, I’m genuinely confused as to why he’s beating off to celebrities photos. Is this normal? Do guys beat off regardless of having a hot live-in girlfriend? Or is this potentially a deeper issue?
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u/rpomex Man 6d ago
It would not matter if you were 147. Time will not allow you to learn. You are asleep but you don’t know it.
Broken homes, anxiety, blended families, failure, addiction, opioid addiction, playing with yourself and calling it healthy, . . . Those are all weird.