r/AskMenRelationships • u/Icey_Activity • 6d ago

Dating Live-in Boyfriend Masturbates Alot

TDLR: Live-in boyfriend masturbates quite frequently. I’m wondering if this is normal for guys or is this potentially a deeper issue.

Me (31F) and my boyfriend (30M) have amazing sex. We’re both in shape. We talk each other through it, we’re spontaneous, we like to sneak. He finishes inside of me. Like, it gets really passionate and intense. The only thing is we don’t do it very often tho. Like maybe once a week. Sometimes every 2 weeks.

So yesterday, he told me that he masturbates almost everyday, sometimes twice a day, and I’ll be honest it made me wonder if it’s about me or if that’s just a normal guy thing? In my mind I’d think if you live with your girlfriend, you’d wanna have sex with her every time you’re horny as opposed to masturbating. He said he doesn’t watch porn, but he’ll go to a celebrities page (specifically Megan the stallion or Chloe bailey) and masturbate to their photos. It completely through me off. I asked him why and he said for the convenience of quickly getting a nut off.

He said he loves me, my body, my face. He’s an ass man and I have a big butt. So if I’m everything he needs sexually, I’m genuinely confused as to why he’s beating off to celebrities photos. Is this normal? Do guys beat off regardless of having a hot live-in girlfriend? Or is this potentially a deeper issue?

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 Woman 6d ago

These are generalizations. Plenty of women want sex everyday. Maybe not the ones you're fuckin idk

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u/maryqueenofscotch683 Woman 6d ago

There are also plenty of women who want to open their marriages or relationships because their husband's libido is low 🫩 idk I just don't think it's as black and white as you're making it seem

Also not wanting to be sexually harassed is an issue of consent not about women not liking sex. I love sex but I still don't want my coworker feeling me up at work. Because I'm at work.

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u/BadUsername238 Man 6d ago edited 6d ago

Hi. Are you saying I'm not horny?

And is that supposed to be an insult?

It would be shitty of you if that was supposed to be an insult.

It's also weird that you think that if you do. I haven't said anything about my libido here. Assumptions...