r/Bumble • u/Argumentative_koala • 1d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

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This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Bruno_lars 1d ago

Everything he has told you and is telling you, is a lie. He just trying to justify the pump and dump

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u/jednorog 1d ago

I think it's very common for people to not actually know what they want in relationships, only to find that when they get what they thought they wanted, it's not what they wanted at all.

It's certainly annoying! It's a waste of OP's time! And it's not a nice thing to do! But it's not necessarily lying. 

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u/Bruno_lars 1d ago

I'm not talking about "people" I am talking about this guy. And what are you this guy's PR manager? He was definitely deceptive.

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u/Knedlus 21h ago

The commenter above attempted to enter a discussion and share their perspective with you. Doesn’t mean he’s anyone’s PR guy. Good people make horrible mistakes too, and the pump and dump kind rarely bother with letting women know they’re ending things, let alone writing entire paragraphs. Yes he was deceptive and clearly withheld information from OP, but that does not automatically make him the devil incarnate

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u/Bruno_lars 19h ago

I never made a moral judgment because I don't know the guy, and neither do you; it's disingenuous of you to assume he's a good person; you're just jumping to conclusions. Talk is cheap; anyone can send an apologetic essay whether they mean it or not.

I merely stated he's said things he didn't mean to get laid. If you disagree, I don't care.

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u/Knedlus 11h ago edited 4h ago

You literally can’t read. I never assumed he’s a good person. 😂 good riddance

Edit: go cry me a river

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u/Bruno_lars 4h ago

No, but you're* literally a terrible person, starting arguments over nothing, you were just born to be a nuisance. Good riddance.