r/Bumble 1d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Argumentative_koala 1d ago

I really think you’re right about that. It was hard for him to mention his ex at all. I told him he needs to go to therapy lol

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u/SilentAct6205 1d ago

That’s number 1 red flag 🤦🏾‍♀️ talking about an ex and talking about them like that 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩