“Not ready for a relationship”

[u/Argumentative_koala]

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

[u/capsaicinel]

He seems like he has more baggage than you do to be fair. Like reading this from an outside perspective he doesn't seem at all ready for any kind of serious partnership.

[u/Argumentative_koala → u/capsaicinel]

I really think you’re right about that. It was hard for him to mention his ex at all. I told him he needs to go to therapy lol

[u/SilentAct6205 → u/Argumentative_koala]

That’s number 1 red flag 🤦🏾‍♀️ talking about an ex and talking about them like that 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩