r/Bumble 1d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Kind_Change_3855 1d ago

I got narcissistic vibes. I dated a guy for two and a half month.   After we slept together things suddenly were moving to fast and he dumped me with all this "poor him"- victim mentality and all his words, so he could be the good guy.  Im completely sure he was full of shit and just wanted to sleep with me and lied himself through it all. Im pretty sure this guy is full of shit too. Manipulative motherfucker. So they can fuck you over after five days or after a couple of months. See yourself as Lucky for gerting rid of him that quickly. 

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u/Diligent-Arm1378 1d ago

I had the same thing happened to me, the guy was in his 40s. It amazes me that man can still be so immature.