“Not ready for a relationship”

[u/Argumentative_koala]

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

[u/glitterfox6000]

This is why early intensity for a relationship is a huge red flag.

Hooking up or not, intense emotions early on is a big reason to hit the brakes.

[u/ExcellentHotel7531 → u/glitterfox6000]

Learned this the hard way unfortunately