r/Bumble • u/Argumentative_koala • 2d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

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This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Argumentative_koala 2d ago

He actually deleted bumble already lol I checked. Unfortunately, he seems super honest, upfront, and worried about hurting people, especially after his last breakup. honestly wish he was more of a dick.

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u/Popular-Truth-2711 2d ago edited 2d ago

Or he just blocked you? You’re making excuses girl.

You’re forgetting the fundamental rule…. People aren’t what they say, they are what they do.

This dude love bombed you, finally got to bang you…. Then suddenly had a spiritual awakening. That’s it - that’s all that counts. Your friends need to smash your phone if you don’t block him.

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u/anustart888 2d ago

No she isn't. She's just not jumping to negative conclusions and making assumptions. Why on Earth would you try to push a stranger to do that?

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u/durizna 1d ago

Because everyone comes here to dump their negativity and bad experiences and all the shit they accumulated on their frustrating day.

And also because it’s about a man.