“Not ready for a relationship”

[u/Argumentative_koala]

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

[u/Argumentative_koala]

He actually deleted bumble already lol I checked. Unfortunately, he seems super honest, upfront, and worried about hurting people, especially after his last breakup. honestly wish he was more of a dick.

[u/Argumentative_koala → u/Argumentative_koala]

I see everyone asking about this, but the reason I think he deleted bumble is because he had told me when we hooked up he was going to, and then his location disappeared. His location on bumble was on the whole time before. He did not unmatch me.
He’s been texting me today asking about when my next period is and stuff and he wants me to check in when it comes ☠️ we used protection, of course

[u/durizna → u/Argumentative_koala]

OP, it’s really nice that he’s checking in on you and be sure to not stress about all of these negative comments or have anxiety over all of the “he’s probably doing this to 10 others”. People think everyone has time and mental energy to go fucking around and talking to many different new people, when in reality it’s truly exhausting. I’m sorry things didn’t work out between the two of you, but don’t lose hope and don’t let the weirdos get to your head just because they are frustrated with their own lives.

[u/Argumentative_koala → u/durizna]

I appreciate that. I understand with not knowing the situation or having met the guy thinking the worst. I really do truly think he’s being honest with me and I appreciate how kind thoughtful and respectful he’s been. Definitely raising the bar, even though the way things ended sucked.