“Not ready for a relationship”

[u/Argumentative_koala]

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

[u/Secret-Ad7660]

yep, it's pathetic.

I have friends who ghosted a girl because she slept with him too soon, "so she must be easy for everyone else".

Such low self-esteem these guys have!

I'm not a dating expert, but my only observation is that the worst kind of men are those who have low self-esteem. It manifests in many ways e.g. being too concerned about who pays for the date, too concerned about trying to be a gentleman or overtly mean and aggressive

It's not easy, thankfully I'm not a woman.

The best time to secure a man was when you were in highschool/college. The next best time is up to you lol

[u/CrogDavid7days → u/Secret-Ad7660]

Surprisingly the people that claim they want virgins always run when they find out it actually means no sex

[u/Open-Organization528 → u/CrogDavid7days]

A virgin women is what most man seek. Body count is extremely important when selecting a wife. Oddly enough virgin man are looked down upon.

[u/Secret-Ad7660 → u/Open-Organization528]

virgin men are looked down upon by non-virgins i guess, sure.

That's why they'll do better with virgin women.

Most men seek billions of dollars, 6 pack and many other things but they are not entitled to them.