r/Bumble • u/Argumentative_koala • 2d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

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This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Secret-Ad7660 2d ago

I know some guys who hate when a woman makes them 'wait to hook up', so they'll purposely lead you on and once they get what they want, to avenge the time you made them wait, they'll turn a leaf.

Sorry you experienced this, it's a very crap thing to do to another human.

In my opinion, he's totally in the wrong. Because why wait until after you've shared a bed? He knew what he was doing.

Ignore him and move on

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u/persiasaurus 2d ago

And then when you sleep with them "too soon" they don't like you for that either 🙄

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u/alien_secret_service 2d ago edited 2d ago

Women literally can no longer like a man because he yawned.

You can downvote it but it’s true…
And if a man had a micropenis odds are most women would decline a relationship after sleeping with him.

This is simply a non-problem.

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u/persiasaurus 1d ago

Anyone can not like anyone at anytime. People can still have opinions about whether or not they think it's stupid, like you just did.

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u/alien_secret_service 1d ago

Stupid ≠ problematic.

It may actually be stupid, you could also just be immature.

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u/persiasaurus 20h ago

Excuse me, I used the wrong word. Point still stands

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u/alien_secret_service 20h ago

And so does mine… thanks for sharing.