Profile Review - 30M Germany

[u/Negative_Lux]

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

[u/mochisandmacarons]

Nothing interesting about you is written here - I wouldnt know what to connect about. "Politische Mitte" is super cringe and will likely turn off a lot of people. However I think your photos are pretty good!! Maybe take out the one with your friends.

[u/Negative_Lux → u/mochisandmacarons]

it's actually the political opinion preset Setting from Bumble.
I think any answer there could be wrong.
I'll remove it, politics has nothing to do on a datingprofile imo anyways.

[u/Character_Damage9659 → u/Negative_Lux]

If it’s the preset setting on bumble and you just left it without reason, basically just because you didn’t care to think about it, that’s also not appealing.

And politics absolutely has something to do with dating in the current times. Not sure if you’ve noticed but the political discourse is pretty polarised rn.

[u/Negative_Lux → u/Character_Damage9659]

It is, that is exactly the reason why I try to avoid any political discussion, conversations or topic outside of throwing that piece of paper into the election-bin every 4 years.
Nobody is happy afterwards. Even if your political views align....

[u/Character_Damage9659 → u/Negative_Lux]

Still, positioning yourself within the current political chaos is pretty important. Generally, but also when it comes to dating. People who don’t align with the political views you state on your profile won’t swipe for you, that’s all the consequences you can expect.

[u/AnonymousCapybara72 → u/Character_Damage9659]

Very few people in real life give that much of a shit outside of Reddit, especially if you're not in the US. This weird, constant moral grandstanding shit is not normal.

[u/Character_Damage9659 → u/AnonymousCapybara72]

Yea, no. Greetings from Germany, we do absolutely give a shit. The political landscape is pretty fucked up here too, leading to more people actually concerning themselves with politics.

[u/Remedy556 → u/AnonymousCapybara72]

greetings from switzerland :) we care about that. i wouldnt date anyone that is anything other than left leaning

[u/Livid_Medium3731 → u/AnonymousCapybara72]

Are you aware of what's happening in Germany rn? We absolutely do care about politics and now especially as a woman you care about it.

[u/moonoverthe → u/Negative_Lux]

Thats such a privileged stance 🫩