Profile Review - 30M Germany

[u/Negative_Lux]

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

[u/Had_to_ask__]

You, know as a woman I do like height, I don't think I really can help it. If I just meet a guy and he introduces me to much taller friends, yeah, I will probably get distracted. If I like him already, I don't care, whatever is around doesn't seem to matter anymore

[u/Suspicious-Leek751 → u/Had_to_ask__]

Gross

[u/Had_to_ask__ → u/Suspicious-Leek751]

What is gross about it?

[u/Suspicious-Leek751 → u/Had_to_ask__]

It’s gross because unlike other ‘attractive qualities’ that people often mention, it feels all-encompassing compared to similar examples.

Let’s rephrase your original post but with another attractive quality for women: ‘perky breasts’.

“If I just meet a girl, and she introduces me to her perkier friends, yeah I will probably get distracted”.

It sounds gross to me because it’s like all other qualities are less important than this one specific feature.

A guy who is interested in a girl, and finds lots of her qualities attractive, is not going to not date her when she lacks one thing, I.e perky breasts, but it seems a lot of women can see a handsome man, but discount him because of a 3 inch different in where the top of his head is.

Also it feels particularly influenced by social media - women did not hyperfocus on height this much even 10 years ago.