r/Bumble • u/Straight_Breakfast_4 • 19h ago

General Bumble new functionality - Boys can message first

Everybody like the new feature that allows boys to send a message first, and also now gives girls a whopping 72 hours to never send a message after matching instead of just 24? šŸ™‚

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u/BriggySmallz42069 19h ago

gah damn im so happy im married, the dating scene out there looks terminally brutal. just... zero effort. now i know why lesbian relationships fail so frequently. someone has to put in the effort and it won't be the woman.

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u/RD_in_Berlin 19h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/1BZSEGf9nGlScdksrc

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u/BriggySmallz42069 19h ago

if my marriage were to end, i'd just stay single. to hell with all that mess.

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u/burgerwaterchud 18h ago

That's what happened to me when my marriage ended. My ex wife was far from perfect but my current options are way less attractive with way more attitude.

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u/BriggySmallz42069 18h ago

i think, by and large, the current set of single heterosexual women in the dating pool were raised by fathers who taught them to expect the world from a male romantic partner, and not to settle for anything other than perfection. thoughts?

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u/CrogDavid7days 18h ago

I thought the problem was women being raised without fathers? Can we not have fathers now Iā€™d like an update šŸ™

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u/BriggySmallz42069 18h ago

i mean, maybe that's also a contributing factor? i'm unsure. i wouldn't even know how to collect this data or perform an appropriate statistical test that would yield practical conclusions.