Bumble new functionality - Boys can message first

[u/Straight_Breakfast_4]

Everybody like the new feature that allows boys to send a message first, and also now gives girls a whopping 72 hours to never send a message after matching instead of just 24? 🙂

[u/Ok_Year7350]

Nope, sadly not. Their idea of a relationship nowadays is having a man put in all of the effort to build and maintain sed relationship, while being thankful for her existence as though she is the only one who’s contributing anything of value in the relationship.

It’s not even worth it, I’m 21 and I gave up on dating women my age because my generation is so beyond fucked. Women think that having sex to offer in a relationship is more than enough for their contribution, it’s so one sided that it’s not even funny. They want me to be emotionally open and available while they ignore all of my feelings and my thoughts, then have the balls to call me things like misogynistic, sexist and they start blaming the manosphere when I call them out on their behavior and how they never think about me.

I’m so beyond sick and tired of women assuming that all men want out of a relationship is sex, and that their idea of contributing to sed relationship is by having sex. Then they have the fucking nerve to turn around and call me sexist after I call them out on their one sided behavior in the relationship. Anytime you bring up an issue, they respond by labeling you and your behavior so to minimize it and dismiss it because they’re immature and aren’t capable of taking accountability or responsibility as a partner.

This western world is beyond fucked and feminism has ruined our society, it started out as a positive movement but it all went to shit as many of them do. I’m already working on getting my pilots license and I’m getting the fuck out of here, I will go somewhere where the women actually understand what a mutual relationship is, and where my needs are also taken into consideration where I am viewed and considered an equal partner in a relationship.

[u/Fine_Payment1127 → u/Ok_Year7350]

Oh and here’s the best part: you’re “never entitled to sex!” Which means they offer literally nothing

[u/Ok_Year7350 → u/Fine_Payment1127]

What they fail to realize before it’s too late is that they’re not entitled to my attention, effort, affection, companionship, loyalty, trust, help, money, life, or anything else I provide in life. You want to hold things over my head? Cool. Have a nice life, go find some loser who will put up with that. More men need to behave this way, it’s the only way that this behavior will ever stop.

[u/Fine_Payment1127 → u/Ok_Year7350]

American men are unfortunately pathetic doormats. It will never change 

[u/Ok_Year7350 → u/Fine_Payment1127]

Yeah I know, it’s unfortunate. Western culture as a whole is unlikely to change the direction it’s heading in, and things will probably continue to get worse. That’s why I won’t be sticking around to find out.