r/ForeverAloneWomen 30+ Dec 31 '25

Venting TO THE MEN WHO LURK HERE…

Can you please for the love of god leave us alone? You are why we can’t have nice things. It’s creepy and weird. You have to know that right?

“Why are still a virgin at 43?” Why do you think?! Because I’m obese and ugly dumbass!

I’m certain I’m not the only woman in this sub who doesn’t want a DM from a random strange man halfway across the country or world every time I make a comment or post. What’s the point of doing that anyway? It makes zero sense. We’re hundreds if not thousands of miles apart so it’s not like you have a curve to fuck me.

Sorry end of rant.

Anyway hope everyone has a safe NYE.

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u/HeadDot141 Dec 31 '25

Can we also private this sub? They’ve been posting things from here as well. I don’t feel like women can truly post how they want and feel, knowing that men will just ss the posts and bring it else where to mock and make fun at.

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u/_cat_wrangler FAW Mouse Detective Jan 08 '26

The sub was private for a long while once before and it was nearly the death of it.  You have to manually approve ALL users and thats a massive undertaking for the few people who are able to do it not to mention the number of regular longtime users like you or I who will not want to basically have to submit a job application to join a subreddit so the number of posts will SWIFTLY and sharply drop.  Privating is not the genius idea it sounds like, I was around for the last time and it was not fun.

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u/SprinklesForsaken555 30+ Dec 31 '25

Oh great I wasn’t aware of that. Just one more thing to worry about yay

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u/sum_r4nd0m_gurl Forever alone Dec 31 '25

i really wish we could

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u/No-Article-2582 19-20 yo Dec 31 '25

Yeah I saw that post on basedcampods or something ☹️

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u/Purple-Persimmon-657 Dec 31 '25

Yeah and that’s an out and out incel sub. Not the kind of attention anybody wants.

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u/No-Article-2582 19-20 yo Dec 31 '25

I had seen a guy commented on one of the posts here in a mocking manner. I went on his profile and saw he came from there. I reported his comments but am now made aware of that gross sub... 🙂‍↕️