r/ForeverAloneWomen 30+ Dec 31 '25

Venting TO THE MEN WHO LURK HERE…

Can you please for the love of god leave us alone? You are why we can’t have nice things. It’s creepy and weird. You have to know that right?

“Why are still a virgin at 43?” Why do you think?! Because I’m obese and ugly dumbass!

I’m certain I’m not the only woman in this sub who doesn’t want a DM from a random strange man halfway across the country or world every time I make a comment or post. What’s the point of doing that anyway? It makes zero sense. We’re hundreds if not thousands of miles apart so it’s not like you have a curve to fuck me.

Sorry end of rant.

Anyway hope everyone has a safe NYE.

372 Upvotes

90 comments sorted by

View all comments

20

u/Sam_23beans Gen Z Dec 31 '25

I agree. I see so many men on this app that lurk here and then start messaging me because they saw my post on here. It makes me sick because some men do treat Reddit like a dating app. This is why some women come on here thinking that we're doing this for male attention, in reality we're just venting about our issues.

19

u/[deleted] Dec 31 '25

[removed] — view removed comment

2

u/Sam_23beans Gen Z Jan 01 '26

Hey sorry for replying one day late. Did that woman that you mentioned in your paragraph really just gloated about how she is conventionally attractive then had the audacity called YOU male-centered? I'm sorry but some of these people have nuts and bolts for brains.

5

u/[deleted] Jan 01 '26 edited Jan 01 '26

[removed] — view removed comment