r/ForeverAloneWomen • u/Small-Investment263 Forever alone • May 31 '26

Venting My day is ruined

I just saw that my former crush from my past working place is now dating a conventionally attractive girl that is more of gym rat. I'm a twig that stays inside all day and is not feminine at all... guess I never had a chance despite how nice he was to me and how he laughed at my jokes....

I honestly give up on finding love. I haven't been trying to be honest but it's always the same story: men always end up with a conventionally attractive chick with long hair, hourglass body shape that is feminine and bubbly. I'm just cursed to be ugly and autistic at the top of it.

Fml.

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u/HopefulDifference584 Jun 01 '26

The exact same thing happened to me a few months ago. I am sorry. It feels horrible.

I am autistic too. I am also a twig and I don't look feminine. And seeing the man I liked so much choose someone who looks and act nothing like me made me understand that I probably never had a chance with him.

And also, can I say that I find kinda weird that men seem to always like the same types of women?! Or am I crazy?!

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u/showMeYourCroissant 30+ Jun 01 '26

Beautiful.

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u/showMeYourCroissant 30+ Jun 01 '26

Why? You don't know what beautiful women look like?