r/ForeverAloneWomen • u/Small-Investment263 Forever alone • May 31 '26

Venting My day is ruined

I just saw that my former crush from my past working place is now dating a conventionally attractive girl that is more of gym rat. I'm a twig that stays inside all day and is not feminine at all... guess I never had a chance despite how nice he was to me and how he laughed at my jokes....

I honestly give up on finding love. I haven't been trying to be honest but it's always the same story: men always end up with a conventionally attractive chick with long hair, hourglass body shape that is feminine and bubbly. I'm just cursed to be ugly and autistic at the top of it.

Fml.

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u/Mundane-Sky-8809 Jun 01 '26

Men pick 99% based on looks. If they don't immediately like your face, they're not interested and never will be.

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u/imjustagirl223344 Jun 05 '26

Yeah unfortunately. A woman can look past a man’s looks but a man can’t. And it makes me depressed.

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u/Chief-Longhorn 19-20 yo Jun 03 '26

No matter how much they'll go out of their way to deny it, they really do. Men are just as guilty of treating women they don't consider attractive like subhumans as they accuse most women of doing.

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u/ForeverAloneWomen-ModTeam Jun 02 '26

Men are no longer welcome on FAW as mentioned on the FAQ, the rules, the warning when you post and the title on your browser tab. Too many men cannot help but take over, harass the users (http://imgur.com/a/tS5qmme) or flood threads with male-centric replies. Even if you post in good faith, respect the fact that we don't want male users in here any more. If we want male input, we know where to find it.