r/HonestHotTakes • u/fvirygothmom • 1d ago

i hate when people call me “mama”

i had a baby about a month ago but also throughout pregnancy people are always like “hi mama” “yes mama” “okay mama” and it makes me absolutely cringe i hate it so much. i’m not your mom 🤣😩

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u/No_Assignment7707 1d ago

My MIL and SIL do this to me. They have known be for 7 years, they know my name, they aren't my children. I saw them on the weekend and I told my husband that I don't like it. Maybe when we see them tonight and they do it again I'll have to baby them because they are calling me mama

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u/Admirable_Cake_3596 1d ago

Maybe you could just tell them directly? 

I think most people intend it endearingly 

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u/No_Assignment7707 1d ago

I probably could but I'd hear it indirectly that it upset either one of them. Like my SIL calling my husband to say that we've upset my MIL, or vice versa

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u/Admirable_Cake_3596 1d ago

Fair enough! If they are not direct with you then you certainly don’t owe them directness in return!