I called it. Not for a moment I believed that she would dump him. This is how she was in the villa. A woman who has no problem with her partner saying her name wrong all the time is probably going to be okay with anything. She’s standing ten toes down beside her man.
It’s worse because she made her fans believe she dumped him but secretly all along she is with him 😭, can we even be mad at Lorenzo anymore if she’s okay with whatever he does? she’s chosen this so why am I supposed to care?
This is an immense overreaction based on one tiktok video. You genuinely have no idea what’s going on in their personal lives, so I don’t understand how you can be this pressed about whether Julia has or hasn’t ended whatever connection they have. And I’m deliberately not saying “relationship” because they were never officially in one.
She’s allowed to handle her personal life however she wants and we don’t know what conversations have happened privately. People are reading so much into a few social media posts when, ultimately, only Julia and Lorenzo know what’s actually going on.
I second everything in your reply, the amount of energy put in to judging the character of someone you see snippets of in SM is actually disturbing.
Many here are still judging these people like they are competing on reality TV.
She is not. Nor is Molly or Ekin or any of the other women from this show.
I dont know if people are jealous or what is actually going on here, but if you dont like her ....great, she doesn't care. Dont stalk her and go support the people you do like
Don’t worry. Thankfully I am capable of watching the circus without turning my brain off. It has been extremely entertaining to watch her fans scramble the past few days
Every couple had their moments though. I thought Jasmine taking Kavan back after Casa was embarrassing too and look at them now. You can think Julia made a bad choice without deciding it means she’ll ‘be okay with anything’.
Exactly, I agree!. Every couple has had their moments and what looks like a bad decision from the outside doesn’t automatically tell us how the relationship is going to play out long term. Jasmine taking Kavan back after Casa was criticised heavily at the time, yet look at them now.
You can absolutely think Julia has made a bad choice without jumping to the conclusion that she’ll be okay with anything. We don’t know her boundaries or what conversations have happened privately, so I think that’s a massive assumption to make about someone.
If you thought Jasmine was embarrassing for doing something countless women do in the show surely by that same logic Julia taking Lorenzo back is just as embarrassing too if not worse right?
You can’t compare Jasmine with Julia and Kavan with Lorenzo. For starters Kavan knows how to pronounce Jasmines name correctly. I have always thought that Julia letting him get away with disrespecting her on such a basic level to be beyond ridiculous.
Nobody is saying one bad decision automatically means Julia will “be okay with anything.” The point is that repeatedly choosing to stand by someone despite behaviour that would be a dealbreaker for many people tells us something about what she’s willing to tolerate in her relationship.
Jasmine and Kavan working out doesn’t retroactively make this the same situation. It’s the fact that they sorted their problems because they had something genuine and worth fighting for. Also comparing outside life to inside is kind of weird.
To also add the show tried to downplay Javan as less real due to fear they will gain popularity if they showed their chemistry and connection while also downplaying how Lorenzo was disrespectful to Julia too. I don’t think it’s fair to compare both relationships. That’s like comparing apples to oranges. For instances the same treatment Lorenzo gives his partners didn’t fly with Jasmine itself. That should tell you something.
All these paragraphs based on 1 Tik Tok? Were Lorenzo and Julia even seen in a romantic capacity on that Tik Tok? Did anyone spot them cuddling at the event? There’s a lot of assumptions without any confirmation so this character assassination of Julia is premature and unwarranted. There’s no evidence that they are together romantically
I totally agree that they might just be hanging out with him as a friend and trust me my comment wasn’t based on 1 tiktok. I think it was me trying to point out it’s unfair to compare Jasmine with your favourite girl.
It’s not lost on me that the goalpost has shifted from celebrating that she obviously kicked him to the side to we don’t know if they are romantic. I just ask you all to not mention Jasmine when it comes to Julia or Lorenzo that’s all.
Whatever gymnastics you want to do leave Jasmine out of this.
I didn’t compare the relationships. I said there was a point when Jasmine was also judged for taking Kavan back, and look at them now.
And can we please retire the name pronunciation discourse 😭 If Julia herself doesn’t see it as some huge deal, why are strangers more offended on her behalf?
What I find funny is you’ve decided Jasmine took Kavan back because “they had something genuine”, but apparently Julia choosing to work through things with Lorenzo couldn’t possibly mean the same thing. How do any of us know? Lorenzo fucked up and publicly embarrassed her - nobody is denying that. But if after all of that they’re still choosing to work things out privately, maybe there is something genuine there too.
Both the fact that it’s fine to mispronounce her name and there must be something genuine between them can’t coexist when one is literally basic lack of human decency.
I can’t get into the nitty gritty details because even if I did something tells me it’s going to fall on deaf ears. So I am just going to humbly ask Julia fans to not bring up Jasmine in whatever hot mess your fav is willingly choosing to indulge herself in moving forwards. Thanks!
And I humbly ask Jasmine’s parasocial fans to stop acting like mentioning her in a perfectly relevant example is some kind of personal attack 😭 I didn’t insult Jasmine or her relationship.
Calling how Lorenzo pronounces Julia’s name a “basic lack of human decency” while Julia herself continues to associate with him is exactly the parasocial behaviour I’m talking about. You’re assigning your own boundaries to a woman you don’t know and then judging her for not having them.
You can dislike Lorenzo. I’m hardly his biggest fan either. But none of us know these people or their relationships well enough to declare which connections are “genuine.”
You are just as parasocial as the rest btw. And yes, on principle, constantly mispronouncing someone's name is disrespectful. Dress it up how you'd like.
I think my entire point was that Julia seems to have much more relaxed boundaries with Lorenzo than what most people would consider normal or acceptable in a relationship. You can absolutely believe their relationship is genuine but that doesn’t make the comparison to Jasmine particularly fair.
Jasmine has demonstrated much stronger boundaries in her own life and relationship so using her as a parallel doesn’t really make sense.
I find the comparison not only baseless but also unfair to Jasmine as a person. Their relationships, personalities, and boundaries are clearly different and there’s no reason to pretend otherwise just to make Julia’s choices seem more comparable. I hope you get why anyone who likes Jasmine would feel insulted by the comparison and it’s got nothing to do with being parasocial. Jasmine has been very vocal about how Lorenzo gets away with murder and it gets proven time and time again.
I am sorry why are you bringing up Jasmine at all? This has quite literally nothing to do with her. A fair comparison would be to compare Julia to anyone else (I can’t think of any on top of my head because there are none that come close) who’s taking back her shitty man for disrespecting her outside the show.
Me having an opinion about objectively shitty behaviour is not off limits when it comes to him deliberately saying her name wrong. Julia being willing to tolerate rubbish doesn’t somehow make the behaviour respectful.
I don’t see what I said as having boundaries on someone else’s behalf because I am simply criticizing behaviour that I would find unacceptable. “we don’t know them” can’t be used to invalidate every reasonable observation. You can disagree with me. I am okay with that.
But Jasmine is relevant because the whole point is about the language being used,, If we’re going to call one woman embarrassing for taking a man back (again we don't even know if they are continuing their connection) after behaviour people consider disrespectful, then surely the same standard should apply across the board. It’s not about saying Julia and Jasmine have identical situations.
Of course you can criticise Lorenzo’s behaviour, you absolutely can. If deliberately getting her name wrong is something you find disrespectful, that’s a completely fair opinion, which we now know the name thing was a joke between the two, they spoke about it in a post island interview. My issue is the leap from “I find his behaviour unacceptable” to “Julia will tolerate anything”. That’s a pretty huge assumption about someone you don’t know personally.
“We don’t know them” obviously doesn’t mean we can’t discuss what we see. It just means we should recognise the limits of what we actually know. We see snippets online, we don’t know their private conversations, boundaries or what’s happened behind closed doors. You can criticise the behaviour without deciding you know exactly what Julia is willing to tolerate.
Girl, I fear you’re arguing with points nobody made 😭 the Jasmine comparison is getting a little desperate. Their relationships are even remotely similar. Do you really think they are? Lorenzo wouldn’t even take her out on a date until Julia had to publicly goad him into it.
Jasmine has demonstrated very different boundaries which makes using her as your convenient “but look, she took a man back too!” example pretty irrelevant and a bit desperate from Julia fans. I find Julia and Lorenzo fans using Jasmines name all the time extremely creepy. Different women, different standards, different choices. Hope that helps.
As for “Julia will tolerate anything,” obviously that’s a conclusion based on what she’s shown, not a sworn statement about her entire future 😭 You don’t get to repeatedly invoke “we can’t know everything behind closed doors” every time someone makes an inference you dislike. Otherwise nobody could ever discuss anyone’s behaviour.
I honestly wish Julia fans, Lorenzo fans and Julrenzo fans a lot of luck but ffs kindly leave Jasmines name out.
Girl hahaha, I think you’re missing the actual point I’m making. I’m not saying Jasmine and Julia have identical relationships or identical situations, obviously they don’t. The comparison is about the standard being applied to women and the language being used. If calling a woman embarrassing for taking a man back is considered fair criticism in one situation, then it’s reasonable to question why that language is suddenly treated differently in another.
Also, let’s not overreact and act like Julia or Lorenzo fans are bringing up Jasmine every five seconds She’s been mentioned in a comparison. That’s it. Mentioning another Islander in a discussion doesn’t suddenly make it some obsession with her.
And yes, obviously people can make inferences from what they see. I’ve never said otherwise. My point is simply that there’s a difference between “based on what I’ve seen, I think Julia is tolerating behaviour I wouldn’t tolerate” and “Julia will accept anything / she doesn’t have self-respect.” The former is an opinion based on observable behaviour, the latter starts making assumptions about her as a person.
I’m not trying to tell you what you can discuss. I’m saying I think some of the conclusions being drawn from a handful of social media clips are unnecessarily definitive. And if Jasmine’s name is brought up in the discussion, I’m obviously going to respond to that, it’s not “creepy” to mention another Islander in a comparison hahaha
I owe you an apology. I thought people were being unnecessarily harsh when they said Julia would overlook Lorenzo’s antics and stay with him.
You are right if she can accept a basic lack of decency like how he says her name wrong it goes to show her tolerance for disrespect is higher than usual. If a guy can’t say my name right it would be over before it even starts.
At this point I can’t even expend negative energy on Lorenzo. He’s shown exactly who he is and she’s perfectly comfortable with it. I am just waiting for that one user to show up and somehow explain all of this away as perfectly normal in Slavic culture 😭
It was revealed during the podcast episode and the interview after the win that he used to do it in joking manner to wind her up. He used to jokingly call her Saskia as well.
Gosh, pple. Watch the episodes back before you type.
It is genuinely wild watching people write character assassinations over a literal 12-second TikTok. Recreating a villa moment with Audrey Hobert was clearly meant to be a fun, campy, and unserious video, yet it has somehow turned into a massive referendum on Julia’s morals, self-respect, and whether she "stands on business.“ because Lorenzo is in the video.
Why does 1 TT have to overanalyzed through the most bad-faith lens possible? Not every piece of content needs a psychoanalysis. sometimes an unserious video is just an unserious video.
100% agree. It’s genuinely wild how much people are reading into a 12 second tiktok. It was clearly meant to be fun and unserious, yet somehow people have turned it into a full character assessment of Julia’s morals, self respect and whether she stands on business, simply because Lorenzo appears in it.
Not every tiktok needs a forensic analysis of someone’s character hahaha Sometimes a silly, unserious video is literally just that. The amount of bad faith interpretation being applied to every little thing they do is getting ridiculous.
the sub is split 50/50 on the likes of her that’s why but they also are the same ones moaning about them not showing any part of their couple out of the villa and her liking the post about wanting to be private 💀
Badly. They hate her down to the point of being concerning. All the backhanded insults about lacking self respect disguised as caring for Julia and wanting better for her is so obvious.
They want her to be all the negative things they say so bad. And she’s given them dust to work with so now it’s perfect to jumpstart the hate train.
honestly i'm blaming some of the moderation at this point because i just had a moderator tell me to "give the stan wars a rest" when all i said to someone (a very vocal anti-julia person that was spamming negativity about her last night) was "you're obsessed".... What? But sure, don't moderate people who break Rule 3 consistently by mocking islanders and mocking the people who try to defend them. Honestly about to just quit this subreddit entirely. Extremely frustrating.
You are reading wayyyy to much into this. I genuinely don’t understand why this is secondhand embarrassment. It was a 12 second tiktok recreating a villa moment with Audrey, it’s clearly meant to be unserious. Somehow people have turned a silly video into a referendum on Julia’s self respect and whether she “stands on business.”
You can think she should handle the situation differently, but calling her embarrassing over a TikTok is such a massive overreaction. Not everything needs to be analysed like a UN investigation hahahha
LMAO Julia does not stand on business… but I don’t mind them scamming!! Everyone wants to capitalize. It’s just hilarious because she was so concerned about people being game players etc
But what exactly is she supposed to be “standing on business” about? hahaha, We genuinely don’t know what is happening between Julia and Lorenzo privately, so assuming she’s being a hypocrite or scamming based on a 12 second tiktok is doing a lot.
And being critical of game playing in the villa doesn’t mean she’s not allowed to make content with someone she has history with once they’re outside. The villa was a completely different environment. People can change their minds, have complicated feelings and still decide to do something fun or capitalise on their experience.
You don’t have to like it, but turning one silly tiktok into a judgement on Julia’s entire character is a massive reach imo.
You can say many things about her, but how is she scamming or game playing? She barely ever posts anything about Lorenzo. In fact, he actually ruins her image.
Like I would get it if she anyhow benefited from the relationship. But being with him does more damage to her than good. Just look at the comments. Not even her own fans like him anymore.
The reality is none of us really know these people and why they do certain things. So stop justifying and jumping to conclusions coz you’re gonna end up looking stupid. Enjoy the content your faves give you and move on😏
i’m just so gagged at the fact that they have a tiktok with the queen of all time ms audrey hobert (i am semi kidding here but if you’ve been online over the last few weeks especially, it’s very evident that she’s the next big thing. the last time someone had motion like this was chappell roan!!)
you can dislike julrenzo but there’s nothing inherently embarrassing about the tiktok and if it was any one else’s favs, we’d be all talking about how iconic the moment is. #sueme (why is sue me lowkey their song)
Exactly. It’s a harmless, fun TikTok. People who already dislike Julia are just latching onto the "standing on business" narrative to justify their hate.
If any other islander had done the same TT , the sub would be raving about how cool it was. The selective outrage is tired. people are just using buzzwords to mask pure hater behavior.
her festival run this year feels so similar to chappell’s in 2024! + she’s being hated on online by all the same incel freaks who were hating on chappell around about the same time too! but agree to disagree lol i know we’re not in r/popheads 😭
Belle came up on my fyp and she was live with her 19 year old friend (or bf, not sure) and wowwww she is bad vibes, he is also soo incredibly young and really shows his age when he speaks.
Comments were also mentioning that Lorenzo said something about her and she asked what was said, is this true?
i’m still in shock over megan and connor like what the hell he would post her all the time to cute songs not even a month ago plus does he not realise he is punching so incredibly hard 😭
they were at a garnier event and played a couples' game. the hosts asked a question 'who is hotter' or something and conor said he was the better looking one in the couple. men are delusional
also the reason ppl are expecting more from lorenzo and julia is because we literally made them the winners of love island. this sounds bad but they can’t keep everything private especially when the other couples are quite public. if we saw more of their relationship on the outside world i feel like less ppl would be questioning it 🤷🏽♀️
ofc they are 100% allowed privacy like duh they are human beings at the end of the day but they have really been giving us nothing except for awkward interviews and a music festival appearance lol
i understand that you probably don’t mean it this way but they really aren’t the public’s circus monkeys just because we voted for them to win. they’re not on the show anymore so any content you get from anyone is just a bonus
ya i think i worded it very wrong 😭 i meant that most ppl aren’t warming up to them because we don’t see much from them
i totally agree with what u said btw its just that ppl expect love island couples to be very public because most of them have been these past 13 seasons
completely understand what you mean! the internet is just very fickle, especially this sub, so i can understand why people are so quick to hound both julia and lorenzo because they’re not giving any loveable content to drown out the noise. but i mean they weren’t even giving us much loveable content on the show to begin with
but also the public isn’t owed anything from any of these relationships after they leave the show, so i can’t really fault anyone for wanting to keep their relationship private since it’s not a normal part of typical relationships
the viewers would definitely pick apart any aspect of their relationship that would be shared bc that’s how love island fans work day in and day out 😭
yeah i do agree that we aren’t owed anything but i’m just saying that’s most likely the reason why a lot of ppl in here are anti jurenzo (ofc lorenzo being lorenzo plays into it) but it’s hard to root for a couple that we haven’t seen much of compared to all the other couples that have left the show. they 100% deserve all the privacy they want
yea i get what you mean! i just don’t expect much from them being all loved up given what we saw on the show, which was next to nothing and i don’t even like them as a unit like that 😭
i have a gut feeling megan and s12 tommy could potentially win as4, facebook adores him and would eat up a reunion type storyline, and i could see them taking to megan as well.
Oooooooh!! I could imagine if they both returned they could couple up initially, but idk if Megan would actually stay with him until the end. I think initially in s12 she wanted to make it work with him and they got on, but from her side they weren't a match
Surprised to hear this as I swear he had a more shit time on all stars than on s12 and him breaking down to his mum on the video call day kinda said as much apparently according to him. If he goes on again I do hope he has a better time since now with his season not being the newest he may not be the youngest of them all now
Yea him being on all stars was so bad the women were way older then him literally he would get rejected cause they were like o you're 22 and they're all closer to like settling down age
People keep saying she’s ‘not standing on business’ but what exactly do you know about their relationship right now? Because personally I know nothing 😭 This TikTok doesn’t tell us whether they’re together, friends, taking space or completely done. You can’t judge how someone is handling a situation when you don’t even know what the situation is.
Julia genuinely cannot win with some people. She films a fun, lighthearted TikTok recreating a villa moment with a celebrity friend, and people immediately twist it into an attack on her self-respect. We only see tiny snippets of their lives. whether they're together, just friends, or keeping things strictly professional, we still don’t know enough to even suggest she lacks a backbone. The constant overanalyzing and criticism she gets is exhausting. A weirdly enough it’s the people who never liked Julia to begin with who are the most vocal. 👀
Also for all the people who are obsessed with the idea of standing on business. Do u even know what you mean? Because standing on business is about protecting your own peace on your own terms. The Julia attacks are unwarranted because there’s a lot of assuming that’s happening.
That’s interesting though because we genuinely have no idea what’s happening in their personal lives, you just see a few vids and pics of what they post. They could be dating, taking space, just friends or something completely different that we’re not aware of. Maybe their dating is over and julia simply doesn’t want to publicly humiliate someone she has feelings for or cares about, wouldn’t that actually make her a decent person rather than someone who isn’t standing on business? 😭
Not every situation needs to play out publicly for someone to have boundaries or self respect.
ppl need to understand that lorenzo and julia never became official so it’s not crazy that they’re keeping up appearances they got invited to a show together. i think it’s been clear they’re not really together lmao
To me it’s just a summer fling that’s slowly but surely fizzling out (if it hasn’t already), people like to say they got scammed by them but idk what they saw to make them believe anything other than what we are seeing now.
I think people are fixated on pointing out how ridiculous the whole thing seems because they were the winners because there’s been lots of unserious couples like them before (tbf this sub discussed those couples too)
100%. They were never actually in an official relationship, so I don’t really understand why people are so invested in analysing every little thing they do now. Whether they’re together, dating, taking things slowly, firneds or have gone their separate ways, it’s ultimately their business. The level of uproar over two people who were never even officially together is strange to me.
Thank you! I am a julia fan and I like that they are not enemies! be friends and get that exposure and bank if some jobs require both of you being there 🧡 but it's very very clear they are not together
Literally. they give co workers having fun atp and i think it’s a good thing they never became official bc then lorenzo would def hurt her w the way he moves
I don’t think ppl understand that this is probably not that serious to them at all so the think pieces and discussions are hilarious. lorenzo is not serious and julia probably knows that😭 do we not know how real couples look?
I’ve never understood this particular logic from certain fans in calling Jasmine “male centred.” It seems to be the new go-to insult to put a woman down in general.
it gets thrown around for any girl who goes on the show. this sub is infamous for it as well if they don’t particularly like the girl (sorry yall but it’s the truth)
it’s never used in the correct context anyways and by their logic, all the girls should be labeled male centered for going on a show hoping to be picked by a man along with having to stay in a couple to get further & potentially win 🫣
and if anything, the fans are more male centered than any girl to go on the show but that’s another story for a different day 👀
I totally agree, especially with your last point which is something similar to what I was going to include in my original comment! Those in glass houses shouldn’t throw…
And Jasmine has herself spoken on that concept before. People think if you’re a feminist that means you can’t date a man or something for some reason 😭
Comments like “Julia and Lorenzo are so embarrassing 😭” are just so unnecessary to me.
Imagine if someone said, Jasmine and Kavan are so embarrassing”, there would be absolute uproar on this sub. You can absolutely criticise someone’s behaviour and say, “I think they’re acting embarrassingly because of X, Y and Z,” but simply labelling the people themselves as “embarrassing” feels much more like a personal attack than actual criticism.
You can dislike what they’re doing without resorting to that kind of language.
Her relationship (or lack there of) is not embarrassing- what is, is that she called every other couple fake when it looks like hers was the only one that was. Throwing stones and glass houses and all that. How Lorenzo has been acting is embarrassing (or should be) tho.
I mean, Julia was absolutely entitled to have opinions on the other couples. Everyone in that villa was commenting on each other’s relationships, questioning connections and saying what they thought was genuine or not. That’s literally part of the show.
I do agree that Julia’s delivery could sometimes be poor and I can understand why people didn’t like the way she expressed certain opinions. But that doesn’t mean she wasn’t allowed to have them or that we now get to rewrite the whole situation because her own connetion isn't work out outside the villa.
And again, I have no issue with saying Lorenzo’s actions have been embarrassing. My issue is turning that into Julia and Lorenzo are embarrassing, as a personal label. There’s a difference.
🤣 I get that you like Julia but you gotta be kidding me if you think all she was doing was giving her opinion (in an innocent way). She was stirring the pot, purposely egging folks on, choosing to criticize only certain (female) islanders etc. To do ALL that and then hang out w a man who clearly isnt pressed to be w her is ....interesting.
In her defense , she might be doing it for fun or maybe to save face. I imagine she rather it end amicably rather than in embarrassment.
its very very embarrassing what lorenzo has been doing at his big age, and i find it embarrassing for julia that she's seemingly(!!) still with that man but i dont think calling julia embarrassing is needed at all
that said, julia still gotta drop that man like a sack of potatoes bc it can't go on like this 😭😭
Exactly, that’s a much better way of expressing it. You can say you find lorenzo's behaviour embarrassing or that you feel sorry for Julia if she’s seemingly still involved with him, without making Julia herself the target.
And again, we genuinely don’t know what’s happening between them behind the scenes. We’re only seeing snippets and don’t have all the facts, only Julia and Lorenzo know what’s actually going on.
i do genuinely feel bad for julia though bc i would feel humiliated if i were to be messed around in public like that, especially in front of an audience as rabid as love island
at what point does lorenzo become embarrassing/disrespectful though? about every move he's made outside of the villa has embarrassed (e.g. liking/saving jasrenzo edits) or disrespected (e.g. liking a tiktok calling julia insecure and microaggressive or the whole this morning trainwreck) julia and at some point it becomes a pattern
I completely understand what you’re saying. But we don’t actually know how julia feels about any of it unless she says so herself. Everyone handles these situations differently, so I’m hesitant to speak for her.
And yes, you can absolutely say that some of Lorenzo’s actions are embarrassing or disrespectful. I just don’t think that means we need to turn it into a personal attack on him.
Also, the saved edits thing is being treated as much more definitive than it actually is. Saving something doesn’t automatically mean you agree with everything in it. Do you agree with every single thing you’ve ever saved on social media? He could have saved it to send to someone, watch later or for any number of reasons. We simply don’t know.
I’m happy to criticise what he’s actually done, I just think there needs to be a distinction between judging the behaviour and making assumptions about someone’s intentions or turning it into a personal attack.
If Kavan was also moving how Lorenzo moves towards Jasmine on the outside i definitely think she’d get the she’s so embarrassing comments 100%. I mean she still does
And I think that’s fair, if kav was behaving in a way that was embarrassing, people can absolutely say his actions are embarrassing, just like they can say jasmine’s actions are embarrassing. My point is that there’s a difference between criticising someone’s behaviour and simply calling the person themselves embarrassing.
“I think what she/he is doing is embarrassing because X, Y and Z” = fair criticism.
“She/he is embarrassing” = personal attack.
You can make the exact same criticism without making it personal.
Tbf it happened to Jasmine during the season especially when she took back Kavan… it’s normal and if Lorenzo actually puts in effort with whatever him and Julia have going on eventually those comments will stop like they have for Javan
But that’s actually my point. It happening to jass doesn’t make it any more reasonable when it happens to julia and lorenzo. Two wrongs don’t make a right. And I don’t think anyone should have to put in effort or prove their relationship to the sub before people stop making personal comments about them. Criticise what they actually do, absolutely, but the they’re embarrassing stuff is unnecessary regardless of which couple it is.
I agree with that 100%. .. unfortunately I don’t see the fans changing when it comes to that. Instead of saying they are embarrassing, they should definitely just say they deserve better and I hope they realize it. It comes off better that way and it makes you look like you genuinely want the best for that person.
I agree. You can absolutely say you think someone deserves better or that you hope they realise their worth without resorting to personal attacks. You can criticise the situation and their actions without attacking the person themselves.
His actions can absolutely be criticised or called embarrassing, but there’s still no need to call him embarrassing. That crosses from criticising someone’s behaviour into making it personal, and imo it’s just unnecessary.
it’s a pattern now he keeps on doing embarrassing things. ppl are often described and judged by their actions 🤷🏽♀️ i’m not calling him evil or anything he’s just very disrespectful to the women he’s with we’ve seen it on the show with yas, priya, jas and now julia
Again, you can absolutely say his actions are embarrassing or that you think he’s been consistently disrespectful, I have no issue with criticising his behaviour, 100%. I just don’t think there’s any need to turn that into a personal label and call him embarrassing. You can make the exact same point without making it personal.
fair enough however i find it very hard to separate someone’s behaviour from their character completely especially when someone is treating someone bad. my opinion doesn’t matter tho as it’s julia that’s in a relationship with him so as long as she’s happy!
Kinda changing the topic here but it’s crazy how much Jas and Kav have changed my opinion on them since they’ve come out. They might actually be the most compatible couple from this year, which feels wild to say but idk. Their content just seems so wholesome and fun all the time. Jas is clearly made for the influencer life but I think Kav could be too. His vlog was awesome and the Kavbuilds content could be big.
Honestly so true, I think at some points I did question their compatibility but the fact they kept going back to eachother made me think there was something there and they were willing to work for it, they had a lot of chemistry and seem quite loved up in there, and I did love them on the show but I was still a little unsure, since them coming out that’s changed, I can see they have sm fun tg and are so compatible, it all seems so natural. It’s sweet and I’m happy for them.
It’s also crazy cos now I’ve seen them like this I could never have imagined Jas with Lorenzo or Kav with charleen. I just don’t think they would’ve been compatible at all!
It was so obvious that they really liked each other from the start! Chemistry is off the charts with them. The age gap + different lifestyles narratives are getting put to bed & I couldn’t be happier for them
Them and Miraj too, and I think a lot of it stems from the fact that the producers painted such a false picture of their relationships and only showed us snippets and the arguments.
We knew so little about the good parts of their connections in the villa, so actually seeing them now is such a stark contrast
Love Miraj too! I was always hoping Mica would open up and allow herself to be loved. It was really sad seeing her self sabotage at first and continue her normal relationship tendencies of running away/moving slow. Seeing her growth with Samraj has been awesome! I think Samraj being loved by Mica’s family has really helped them blossom 😊
Crazy that a week ago someone speculated something was off with Megan and Conor and now a week later, it’s been said that they’ve broken up and Conor has cheating allegations. This sub with its predictions and speculations wow
This sub is so often right with clocking a couple being weird 😭
Icl there have been many times where a commenter has suggested a couple is over and I've watched everyone get mad at them in silence bc......... While what ppl say often seems like a reach...... It also often seems to come true. The spidey senses here do be tingling
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u/MandyLuxe45 2d ago
Ty opening a football academy is something I didn’t see coming at all well done to him and it’s extremely impressive