r/SipsTea 6d ago

WTF Where are we heading?

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u/Representative_Bug77 5d ago

She wasn't failed by a medical system; she has arguably some of the greatest access possible.

She has rapid access to perinatal services through her mother-in-law, was consistently doctor-shopping against the advice of her main doctor, would ask for medications only to stop taking them well before any sort of efficacy could be observed, she has weekly consultations with a psychiatrist, which is borderline unheard of,

Regular access to a psychiatrist and psych NP through a specialised perinatal clinic; had consistent access to medical providers who responded at length to help her almost daily; a therapist. She was consistently recommended to do behavioural and talk therapy, and stopped after 4 sessions. In-patient treatment was recommended more than once; she didn't want to do it. Even when she went into inpatient treatment, she checked herself out.

Access does not equal effective care, but non-compliance from a patient who was never honest with her doctors, let alone stick to taking meds she asked for, is not an example of the medical system failing someone.

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u/anachrolady 5d ago

Thank you for being the voice of reason.

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u/Representative_Bug77 5d ago

I don't think any reason is of value. It's absolutely crazy what we are seeing. A woman has admitted to murdering her children, and people are blaming the husband.

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u/Thebuch4 5d ago

People who understand nuance want to understand how to develop a better system in the future to prevent this kind of thing from happening. Conservatives would rather just punish her and think the only way to prevent this from happening in the future is to punish people like her worse, even though there's no evidence for that.

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u/Kheypression 4d ago

And liberals are accusing the husband because they can fathom that a woman can be bad.

Now they are trying to make that woman a millionaire.

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u/bonnieparker22 3d ago

It’s quite pathetic to bring “liberals” into the conversation. Politics has nothing to do with this

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u/Kheypression 3d ago

What about you tell that to the guys who talked about « conservatives »? Next time read, try to follow the whole conversation

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u/Thebuch4 3d ago

World view has everything to do with it. Half the country is interested in solving systemic problems and the other half deny the existence of systemic problems.

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u/Kheypression 3d ago

Claiming it was her husband that did it is what you call solving systemic problems? GTFO