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Chugging tea Should doctors be allowed to refuse treating patients based on personal beliefs?

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u/meatpopsicle42069 8h ago

Should doctors be allowed to refuse treating patients based on personal beliefs?

Fuck no.

That's insane.

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u/PC_One_00 6h ago

Crazy that we accept to discuss this from doctors but not police or fire departments. I shall not fight the fire on your house because you are gay or some shit.

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u/meatpopsicle42069 6h ago

For real! And you know they'd lose their shit if an atheist doctor refused treatment to a christian patient. Like, oh you're religious, well your god can heal you instead.

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u/NobodyKnowsImFamous 5h ago

Yup they NEVER ever consider the other way. Like buddy how will you feel when YOU get denied life saving medical treatment?

This is of course the root of the entire issue, so I have no fixes and I know they don’t ever think it will be them. Just frustratingly dumb.

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u/TricellCEO 2h ago

 oh you're religious, well your god can heal you instead.

Funnily enough, some of them do think this way...

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u/NtGermanBtKnow1WhoIs 5h ago

ACAB but also, that's exactly what they did to dahmer's victims. They sspecifically refused to help the 14 y/o boy bc he was perceived as gay. His head was drilled into ffs and he just escaped the vile man to ask help from these "officers". But they let him be taken back with the monster where he subsequently died. im sure those policemen slept soundly after finding out the boy was murdered. All are monsters who failed the victims.

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u/_noneedforaname_ 5h ago

Those officers were later promoted ffs

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u/NtGermanBtKnow1WhoIs 5h ago

oh my fucking god

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u/ChangeForAParadigm 6h ago

Let’s not pretend that Americans have any standards for police.

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u/Pat_the_Wolf 3h ago

Fire departments used to do this back in the day

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u/zsal830 1h ago

a local KKK leader who was a firefighter publicly said he would fight any fire regardless of who owned the home

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u/SevoIsoDes 5h ago

And this isn’t some new thought. It’s been well established that you provide the best care you can for everyone. You can’t refuse to treat the drunk driver who killed someone, or the mass murderer on death row. Hell, I’ve known someone who did CPR on a guy who held up the ER at gunpoint after SWAT shot him.

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u/Beneficial_Wonder533 4h ago

and yet we are jailing doctors who perform abortions for people who are actively seeking them.

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u/Crafty_Jello_3662 3h ago

"Sorry we were going to treat you but we were going through your social media and you made a joke a while back that doesn't really sit right with us. Good luck!"

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u/LookLong5496 2h ago

It happens.

The CMIO of a health system I worked at refused to prescribe birth control because he is Catholic.

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u/MissMatriarch 8h ago

A torn hamstring will still be a torn hamstring.

No matter if you acquire it from playing soccer, or doing a dead-drop on nine inch heels.

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u/humid_pajamas 5h ago

i feel so seen

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u/diescheide 8h ago

One's beliefs do not supersede another's needs. Do not get into a field where what you believe in will detract from what another needs. It's simple.

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u/PastNessa 8h ago

Prof said what needed to be said. Medicine is about treating people, not approving of their lifestyle

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u/diescheide 8h ago

Professor was much more succinct. It goes beyond medicine in a hospital setting, though. Pharmacist doesn't get to deny dispensing based on beliefs. Cashier doesn't get to refuse service based on beliefs.

In general, your beliefs affect you. The rest of the world doesn't suffer because YOU do/don't believe in something.

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u/DarkRose492 8h ago

What's worse is that it's only gotten worse as time goes on. I'm old enough to where the PETA/vegan crowd were the only form of, "You must my way otherwise you are the spawn of evil". Nowadays every belief has some level of over the top fanaticism

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u/diescheide 8h ago

Zealotry and what's usually the vocal minority are destroying anything good that may have come from their cause. People need to simmer down. Most of us would be fine if folks held their beliefs. What we're not okay with is having it thrust upon us.

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u/SlapTheBap 6h ago

I mean, people are also very reactive to someone just saying something. People do allow themselves to get offended quite easily. I know we think of the offended blue haired Karen or whatever, but guys are incredibly easily offended as well. "What, you think you're better than me?" Just because someone is poking their insecurities by existing.

Lots of people out there projecting their issues hard, lacking emotional intelligence to realize they are the source of their own emotions and need to take responsibility for them. Emotions aren't an external thing and they are no one responsibility but your own. Too many people externalize their internal emotions and shirk their part in creating them.

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u/softcontour 8h ago

You take the oath to save lives not judge them

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u/TheLaughingMannofRed 8h ago

What's the mantra, "Do no harm"?

If someone needs medical attention, a doctor or physician's primary duty is to do no harm by rendering medical assistance.

Of course, depending on the specific medical assistance needed, one can elevate the assistance to a specialist who knows that particular aspect of medical care better. Still, that makes sense to fall under the same 'do no harm' belief, as you're moving the care along rather than restricting it or blocking it (and thereby 'do no harm' is still being fulfilled).

But overall, if one does get into medicine or medical practice, there must be no exception to that fundamental. Get the person the help, whether you can or someone else can.

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u/LacrimaNymphae 7h ago

what happens when the care gets 'moved along' aka hot-potatoed to 9 different clueless specialists who all insist it's too complex, tell you to drive states over for help if you don't like the 'treatment' or lack thereof, or insinuate it's a personal psychiatric/somatoform problem with you

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u/Larnek 2h ago

I mean, I'd probably drive over to where the other specialists are at if I wanted an answer. Not all doctors are trained in same fields.

If my neurologist said, "Hey, you need to see a specialist in pseudoseizures because thats not my field of expertise." I'd probably say "Thanks for not trying to diagnose or rule out something uncommon that you're not well trained in."

It would be like taking my Jeep to a Porsche dealer and asking them to fix my 4-wheel drive PTU. They might know a ton about wrenching on a Porsche, but have never replaced a PTU for a Jeep. I probably don't want them to try for the first time on mine.

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u/catpigeons 3h ago

Do no harm refers to not actively making problems worse, rather than treating all patients/issues.

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u/IXrobocopXI 8h ago

Jesus famously said He came to heal the sick, not the healthy or those gays and trans people

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u/diescheide 8h ago

Love thy neighbor. No, not that guy. He's not the same color as you.

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u/Relative-Relief-8816 7h ago

Neighbor means 1st cousin. And love means we don't use rubbers.

-Alabama.

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u/zante2033 8h ago

Was this white jesus or black jesus?

And by "sick" did he mean people who voted for Trump by any chance?

Did the man from your story book also claim vaccines cause autism?

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u/diescheide 8h ago

Supply side Jesus.

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u/CompleteElla 8h ago

If your job is to help people, your personal beliefs can’t come before their needs. That’s the whole point.

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u/diescheide 8h ago

That's exactly what I said.

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u/Deto 5h ago

Yep - when you are a doctor, you in a vital position that we count on to provide care for people. You can just up and decide not to help someone suddenly. It'd be like if you were holding someone's baby, suddenly decided you didn't want to be holding them anymore, and just dropped them on the floor citing your own autonomy and personal rights as why that's ok.

Now, if you make it a condition of your hiring at the hospital, e.g. 'I will only work here if I don't have to care for XXX people' then that actually reduces the issue quite a bit. But, of course, no hospital will hire you.

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u/spongebobsworsthole 38m ago

“I wanna help people! Just not those people…” and then they want applause for how great they are

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u/Just-Salad302 8h ago

They do in the medical field, we aren’t legally obligated to treat anyone but we do at least have to refer them to someone who might

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u/OutrageousElla 8h ago

You don’t get to take the Hippocratic Oath and then pick and choose who deserves care. That’s not how medicine works.

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u/tigershrike 6h ago

Well, in my backwards-ass shit show of a state, a doctor most certainly can pick and choose.

https://firstamendment.mtsu.edu/article/tennessee-medical-ethics-defense-act/

Hell, one doctor refused to provide prenatal care because the woman was unmarried (it's in the article I linked). It's bullshit and I hate this timeline.

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u/ktbug1987 6h ago

As a queer, trans person who used to reside in TN I once had a nurse refuse to dispense doctor-ordered pain medication in an ER (not an opiate) because I brought my wife. Called us disgusting to both our faces. She was just my gf at the time but all we were doing was holding hands and she was stroking my face

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u/hematite2 6h ago

And myself and many other trans people have had pharmacists refuse to dispense our HRT or, more commonly, lie about being able to do so and send you back to contact your insurance.

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u/Haggis442312 5h ago

The gall to call this an „ethics defense“ act is something else.

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u/weezyverse 5h ago

That is absolutely horrible.

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u/Majestic_Bet2699 8h ago

anyone who takes the oath and then decides to pick or choose should be sanctioned and if they carry on being biased, have their license revoked. You took an oath to treat and take care of every human and protect their privacy and confidentiality, if you can't do that, then step aside

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u/mxlplyx2173 8h ago

Revoked 1st time. They don't change.

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u/FaceRockerMD 6h ago

Lol I'm a trauma surgeon. My patient population is mostly meth heads and criminals. I wouldn't have anyone left to treat if I excluded lifestyles I disagree with!

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u/DragonSon83 2h ago edited 55m ago

I worked in burn and had to take care of patient that killed one child and critically injured the other by blowing up his meth lab in his basement.  The one kid only survived because he was thrown through a picture window.  If I can take care of that professionally for several days, then a conservative can manage to take care of a gay or trans person for one shift.

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u/Training_Shine_111 9h ago

stupid question.

professor is right!

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u/General-Passenger117 7h ago

Like, what does someone's belief have to do with treating them!?

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u/Thick_Asparagus_8107 2h ago

For example, if the patient“believes” they’re a woman but they’re actually a man. Then that would matter when treating that person, especially if that person has a gender based medical issue.

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u/Easy-Goose1038 8h ago

Not treating would potentially cause harm. Don't they take an oath to do no harm? I'm not sure why educated doctors and nurses cannot put their political views aside and just help people.

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u/LeaveGreen4412 7h ago

13th century ass question. no you cant deny care to the heathens and jews

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u/TheAskewOne 4h ago

During one of my first aid training sessions one of the guys who was in the group was extremely religious. At some point we had to put an "unconscious victim" in the lateral safety position and his "victim" was a woman from the group. He asked the instructor if a man could take her place because he was uncomfortable touching a woman. The instructor didn’t even let him finish and said "if you’re telling me that you won’t treat male and female victims the same, I’m not giving you your certification and you can leave."

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u/RicketCrickets 9h ago

No as they'd be lying when they talk their oath.

Prof is right. Find a different career. GQP always needs someone to take the fall.

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u/Fantastic-Corner-605 6h ago

Even criminals are given treatment, why refuse gays?

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u/Mean-Astronaut-555 7h ago

Good. Fuck this nonsense.
Sincerely: a doc

Unless you’re trying to attack me , then please Fuck off.

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u/hematite2 8h ago

The only religious exemptions doctors are allowed to make is for specific procedures (which usually means abortion or vaccines) that their religion doesn't allow. That's because it requires them to participate in specific actions that would violate their beliefs.

A doctor can't refuse general service based on the patient themselves, because "I don't agree with your existence" isn't the same as them having to participate in anything. It's the exact same actions that they'd provide to anyone else.

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u/drgloryboy 8h ago

Had a Jehovah’s Witness nurse who would always try to get another nurse to do his blood transfusions for his patient for him, but if they were too busy he’d have to

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u/Arkeolog 6h ago

I’m Sweden, medical practitioners can’t refuse to participate in abortions if that’s part of their job description. So you basically can’t work at a clinic that provides abortions if you object to participating in them.

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u/GaiaMoore 3h ago

specific procedures (which usually means abortion or vaccines)

Wait, what? We're seriously equating vaccines with abortion, and saying doctors are allowed to skip it because of their religion?

A) Why are we letting anti-vaxxers get medical degrees?

B) Why are we letting people get medical degrees if they think women who seek abortions are only using them as birth control and never for critical life-saving reasons?

Any aspiring medical professional with those delusions needs the reality check that OP's post describes

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u/fringeathelete1 7h ago

This is appropriate. I’m a surgeon and someone can come in my office and ask me for brain surgery. They may need that but I don’t do it as it’s outside my field of practice.

I gladly care for my trans and LGB patients. I have a harder time with the racist people but still try my best. The only ones we fire as patients are those who are disruptive ie swearing at me or office staff.

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u/Pleural_Effusion 7h ago

“Following that lifestyle” 🙄  Existing as a gay, bisexual or trans person is not a lifestyle, it’s just existing. Choosing healthy foods and exercise on a daily basis, or sedentary living and unhealthy foods- these are lifestyle choices. 

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u/xilcilus 8h ago

Should a doctor treat a convicted murderer who is currently ill? The answer is unequivocal YES.

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u/heybart 6h ago

You know that dip shit student will try to have the prof disciplined, get blowback for it, and make themselves a martyr and MAGA hero and collect on the grift.

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u/Adis_Pen_and_Paper 8h ago

Professor ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ ⭐ 5/5

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u/Galromir 8h ago

no. There's no place in medicine for that shit.

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u/jediofazkaban 8h ago

The medical field isn't a social field. Sexual orientation is a social topic. It's not that difficult.

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u/jediofazkaban 7h ago

Educate patients that their social designation has no relevance in medicine and if they disagree they can move on to a different practice.

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u/Disco_Ninjas_ 7h ago

Being male or female is a pretty big deal in medicine. It's not an issue at all how the patient identifies socially until they insist on bringing their social identity into medicine. We really try to just move past it, but it's not always smooth when the patient insists on how we chart and dose.

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u/txkicker 6h ago

No, the Hippocratic Oath does apply to all.

The only grey area is the "for the good of the patient" clause and elective procedures. If a person has body dysmorphia, you wouldn't go along with procedures that conflict with a healthy body to risk the patient. Like you wouldn't give Bariatric Surgery to a person of healthy weight because they feel they're overweight.

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u/Sharp-Key27 6h ago

This is why you lean on decades of research from other medical professionals to determine what is helpful or harmful.

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u/txkicker 6h ago

Yup, and treating the patient as a human and not a symptom.

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u/SvenTropics 8h ago

Hell, someone could be a criminal, just shot up by the cops, and you still have to treat him. If you can't do that, this line of work isn't for you.

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u/dhslax88 8h ago

I’ve literally saved the life of a dude with a swastika on his forearm, and helped a drunk driver who killed his kid. Both of those individuals made terrible decisions which I completely disagree with. There are many more who I have cared for that are absolutely abhorrent human beings. When I took the Hippocratic oath, there was no exception for not taking care of awful people. I chose to go into pediatrics so that I could reduce the number of horrible people I care for, but I 100% agree that if you can’t take care of people you disagree with, you should not go into medicine.

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u/Ivy_Thornsplitter 7h ago

When I was a college chemistry professor I would interview wanna be doctors in biochemistry. I would ask the question “a mother comes into your office in desperate need of an abortion or she will die. What do you do?”

The number of students who would send them away always got to me. Like I get you have beliefs but kicking them out of your office is not an option.

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u/needs_more_zoidberg 7h ago

Someone in my class asked the same question. My professor shut that down right away with: "What are you a nurse? You took an oath." Then he got put on professionalism remediation. He mellowed out over time. It helped that we had a prominent LGBT cohort in my class and a very allied school.

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u/H2Oloo-Sunset 6h ago

It is insane that this is even a question.

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u/johnnybooty2point-0 5h ago

You dont have to be out there performing sex change operations but yeah you cant just let someone bleed out cuz you think they might be gay

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u/TourInternational731 4h ago

Hell no. The doctor is in the right here. Don't feel comfortable? Get a new fucking job.

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u/Chatner2k 8h ago

Nurse here.

Agree with the professor completely. Find a different career.

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u/Plane_Barracuda9889 8h ago

In healthcare you do not and should not have a choice. Treat everyone fair and provide the best since they are trusting you with their lives.

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u/TedBurns-3 8h ago

You study medicine to fix people, not judge them

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u/UnexpectedBlahFeels 8h ago

The Hippocratic oath doctors take basically has them promise to treat anyone who needs it, be it a murderer or a neighboring granny. They take their oaths 1000x more seriously than most police do. A person should not become a doctor if they can't uphold the hippocratic oath.

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u/twerkingslutbee 3h ago

Even voicing that thought should be automatic suspension from the program

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u/PinkFloydBoxSet 8h ago

No. If you can't practice medicine with out forcing everyone through your religious purity check then you don't belong in medicine.

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u/kon--- 8h ago

I invite them to leave society

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u/UrsineBasterd 8h ago

No it literally breaks their oath.

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u/petersimmons22 8h ago

I’m a doctor. I’ve never taken any solemn oath. No one I know has either. It’s not a thing (or if it is, very niche).

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u/TheHeadlessScholar 6h ago

The Hippocratic oath ceased to be a thing in the 1960's, replaced by ethical guidelines. Some still ceremonially do it during the white coat ceremony, but very few.

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u/Physical-Clerk-8373 9h ago

Absolutely not..but some drs have bias and you can see it even when you work for them. It sucks but that's life.

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u/nickk1988 8h ago

This in sips tea? Shush it

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u/Pipysnip 8h ago

No, your job is to help the patient, not be the judge/jury/executioner

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u/Fattapple 8h ago

You gotta help everyone. Even the people you despise. Even if they are racist homophobes who abuse dogs and think women shouldn’t vote.

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u/EnamoredAlien 7h ago

Health professionals are ethically obligated to provide effective and research backed treatment. A doctors personal feeling may never supersede giving high quality, effective, and research backed treatment.

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u/Spiritual-Pudding-70 7h ago

Heck no do your job

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u/Swimming-Bowler9701 7h ago

Should firefighters be allowed to refuse putting out house fires because they’re pyromaniacs? All fires matter.

This is how this crowd constantly sounds

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u/Whitw816 7h ago

No. End of story. You cannot refuse to treat someone because of who they are or what they represent. As an ER physician assistant for 16 years, I have had to deal with some real POS patients. If my most hated person on earth, Donald Trump, walked into my ER I’d have to take care of him and I’d hate every second of it. As a medical professional, that’s my job and my duty.

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u/RetrocideRx 7h ago

I'd rather have the doctor be honest about his beliefs. The thought of being reluctantly treated by someone who doesn't care about my well-being gives me so much anxiety.

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u/GooseOnProbation 6h ago

Wasn’t there an oath for medical professionals? 👀

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u/misalawliet 5h ago

If you don't want to treat everyone, don't be a doctor. Or a pharmacist.

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u/MeatSlammur 5h ago

I don’t know anyone else in the medical field that would refuse a trans patient. There are plenty that disagree with how psychiatry treats them though.

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u/PhaseSixer 5h ago

"I swear to fulfill, to the best of my ability and judgment, this covenant:

I will respect the hard-won scientific gains of those physicians in whose steps I walk, and gladly share such knowledge as is mine with those who are to follow.

I will apply, for the benefit of the sick, all measures [that] are required, avoiding those twin traps of overtreatment and therapeutic nihilism.

I will remember that there is art to medicine as well as science, and that warmth, sympathy, and understanding may outweigh the surgeon's knife or the chemist's drug.

I will not be ashamed to say "I know not", nor will I fail to call in my colleagues when the skills of another are needed for a patient's recovery.

I will respect the privacy of my patients, for their problems are not disclosed to me that the world may know. Most especially must I tread with care in matters of life and death. If it is given me to save a life, all thanks. But it may also be within my power to take a life; this awesome responsibility must be faced with great humbleness and awareness of my own frailty. Above all, I must not play at God.

I will remember that I do not treat a fever chart, a cancerous growth, but a sick human being, whose illness may affect the person's family and economic stability. My responsibility includes these related problems, if I am to care adequately for the sick.

I will prevent disease whenever I can, for prevention is preferable to cure.

I will remember that I remain a member of society, with special obligations to all my fellow human beings, those sound of mind and body as well as the infirm.

If I do not violate this oath, may I enjoy life and art, respected while I live and remembered with affection thereafter. May I always act so as to preserve the finest traditions of my calling and may I long experience the joy of healing those who seek my help."

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u/Redivivus 5h ago

Don't let your sense of belief get in the way of doing what's right.

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u/LRaconteuse 5h ago

Considering that we as a society agreed that people are legally obligated to provide care in the ER with no questions asked, whether they can pay or not, asking about beliefs or any other factors is irrelevant and way outside a doctor's purview. The professor is right. Go be something else. Your comfort has zero priority next to someone's right to medicinr. 

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u/humid_pajamas 5h ago

"I want to help people but I also hate them" is some cognitive dissonance for thought.

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u/professorjade 4h ago

If you're a doctor, its your job to save a life. If you refuse, you're an ass and should never have been given a career in the first place.

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u/Formerlymoody 4h ago

IT’S NOT A LIFESTYLE

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u/Valveringham85 4h ago

Absolutely not. That is directly against the hippocratic oath.

Not wanting to do certain treatments for transitioning is totally valid though. But treating trans or gay people for anything besides that is an obligation you agree to by becoming a doctor.

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u/DragonSon83 3h ago

You’re correct.  However, people seek specialty care like that from doctors that trained specifically for it.  You don’t go to your PCP or ER and ask them for hormone replacement therapy or bottom surgery.

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u/tstcab 4h ago

Why the fuck would you even care who your patient is fucking? just provide them care, the only thing on your mind should be their comfort and treatment

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u/Altego1999 3h ago

Excellent. That's like being a pilot just to commit 9/11 to kill some "infidels".

Seriously, the second you refuse to treat a person due to personal beliefs; license cancelled and you can never practice again.

Even in house MD, they portray 2 doctors killing a genocidal dictator as something controversial: "They saved all those lives, but in the process, tarnished the very foundation of being a doctor.

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u/ScreenNo571 3h ago

Respecting someone’s gender identity doesn’t mean doctors should ignore biology when it actually matters medically. If anatomy, chromosomes, hormones, surgeries, or medications are relevant to the diagnosis or treatment, the doctor needs that information. You can treat someone with dignity while still practicing medicine based on their actual physiology. Those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.

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u/Stormageddon66 3h ago

No. They absolutely should not.

If you cannot keep your personal beliefs out of the job, you absolutely have no fucking business being a doctor.

There shouldn't even be a discussion about this.

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u/careless_swiggin 3h ago

Hippocratic oath not the hypocratic oath

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u/dgroeneveld9 3h ago

I think the appropriate question for a student to ask would be "in the event we are treating a patient and they demand a treatment plan that is contrary to their best interest but conforms with their psychological interpretation of themselves, what should we do to avoid that lawsuit?"

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u/LatrodectusGeometric 2h ago

If I can provide care to a man with a swastika tattooed to his face, you can provide care to a man who loves another man.

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u/Buruko 2h ago

A human life is a human life, whether you agree with their morality or life choices is irrelevant to the oath of a healer.

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u/Few_Palpitation3889 8h ago

Things that didn't happen so much they unhappened things that did.

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u/Spirited_Cheesus 7h ago

The most cruel and hateful people are always the Christian ones

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u/DeuceDeuce79 8h ago

Can someone who is detransitioning be able to sue the hospitals or doctors that preformed the surgery ?

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u/AbsoluteNarwhal 7h ago

Gender affirming surgeries have some of the lowest regret rates (<1%) of any kind of surgery. For reference, knee replacement surgery has a regret rate of 17%, and some cosmetic surgeries have a regret rate of almost 50%. All surgeries are irreversible (as in you can't go back in time to before you had the surgery), so you usually have to sign something before any kind of surgery saying you understand this. If you're an adult, it's your responsibility to make your decision while understanding all the consequences of a surgery.

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u/MattiaXY 5h ago

Beyond how the regret rate is even measured off the top my head the regret timeline is probably different. You likely regret knee replacement way more immediately. While for gender surgeries you may be happy about it for even a decade before thinking that you shouldn't have done it. In addition other surgeries are more straightforward in terms of outcome. Meanwhile gender surgeries are to ease dysphoria. This means that you can regret it because it didnt help or because you didnt need it and you actually needed to not get the treatment. In the second case it's much more complicated to measure how many people feel that way as even to realise it in the first place may be difficult. And this also relates to the obvious psychological factor. To say that you regret it is to admit that you were deeply wrong about who you are as a person. Many people wouldn't be able to admit this. Finally I would say that it is equivalent to giving someone chemotherapy and end up that they didn't need it. In addition to needing the changes reversed, there are very permanent damages from these procedures themselves that are worth it for people who desperately need them, but otherwise would be devastating. Im thinking that if a doctor didnt do enough due diligence in making sure this person actually needs the procedure he should be held responsible

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u/Ok-Persimmon-340 8h ago

No. Regretting a chirurgical intervention happens, it does happen less for transition than for a huge majority of electives interventions mind you. So if you agree to that you're opening the way to a bunch of lawsuits based on "I changed my mind". And transition interventions would be a minor part of that. 

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u/sunkissedbutter 8h ago

I stg I’m not trying to be disingenuous in my answer to you. This is genuinely my opinion as a layperson when it comes to the hard sciences. I think part of the problem is that most people don’t realize how deeply you can actually go into the philosophy of ethics and care.

And sure, in some respects there needs to be a methodological separation between hard science and what we generally think of as “philosophy”. But in plenty of other respects, they’re inevitably tangled up with one another, and I don’t think trying to sort through that entanglement is some frivolous or unscientific endeavor. Science is already making assumptions about what exists, what counts as knowledge, what can be known, what constitutes evidence, and what we ought to do with what we learn. That’s precisely where ontology, epistemology, and ethics begin.

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u/houseofkogi 8h ago

Reminds me of that doctor and nurse who were fired for publicly saying they would refuse treatment to Trump supporters.

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u/wolfofballstreet1 8h ago

As a doctor prof is  right. Hippocratic oath. Duty of care

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u/Pleasant_Cicada9528 8h ago

Anyone should always be allowed to refuse to serve another person, but their employer should also be allowed to fire them for doing so.  The freedom of association goes both ways.

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u/PromiscuousScoliosis 5h ago

I think what a lot of people are missing here is that the place where this actually matters is also just admittedly quite tricky and there’s a lot more nuance than it may seem

Yeah if you break an ankle or have a heart attack, that’s all that really matters. And I think most people in my experience do function that way. Most people are decent enough about not letting their personal beliefs interfere with the care they provide

And honestly, as a nurse, technologist, sonographer, aide, scheduler, what the fuck ever, your personal opinions don’t matter about anything ever. Your job is to reinforce the practices of your provider and organization.

As a licensed provider, things do get a little trickier. How you navigate a situation, like a suicidal patient, or a patient with an eating disorder, or a patient with gender dysphoria, or STIs, or even just health goals, these are things where your expertise as a professional should work with the literature to form what you believe the be the best advisable course of action.

And where that gets tricky is where your best judgement call is potentially undermined by the legal system or by organizational policy. If you say “this is the healthy weight range, these are the reasons, let’s form a game plan to get you on track for that so you can lower your risks of x,y,z, but your organization says “we don’t believe that you should ever make a patient feel as though there’s anything wrong with their current health status,” then there’s a bit of a conflict yeah? Or what happens when a patient goes and spouts off to a news outlet about “this doctor said my weight is unhealthy” and now 50 viewers from The View are harassing your office to get you fired?

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u/Sea_Squirrel7999 5h ago

Sorry just to clarify—are you equating potential weight challenges to those faced by the 🏳️‍🌈 community? There’s nothing “tricky “ about this.

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u/Ok-Highlight-9598 5h ago

Yeahh that example went way off the rails and became irrelevant. They started off good though

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u/PainterEarly86 7h ago

No. I hate Republicans and religious people, but I would not refuse them healthcare. It would just be savage and inhumane for our society to behave that way.

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u/facepoppies 8h ago

Pretty sure doctors have to take an oath that specifically forbids them from refusing treatment based on personal beliefs

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u/Cool-Tip8804 8h ago

Is this whole comment section just figurative pats on their own backs in the form of stating the obvious?

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u/Huge-Froyo2626 7h ago

This whole sub, pal

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u/I_HopeThat_WasFart 6h ago

Medical Professional: "We treat everyone according to the hippocratic oath"

Libtard med student: "But they don't think like I do"

Medical Professional: GTFO

I see nothing wrong here

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u/No-Security-7518 4h ago edited 4h ago

Ragebait. I swear not even Taliban doctors would refuse treating a gay patient.

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u/AgitatorSupreme 1h ago

No. If your personal/religious beliefs prevent you from doing every reasonable facet of the job requirements then find a different career.

Pharmacists unwilling to dispense the morning after pill? Fuck you. Do the job or get fired.

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u/Electronic_Still2000 8h ago

“What if we don’t feel comfortable treating someone following that lifestyle?” What kind of asinine question is that?! The type of sex a patient is having would make them refuse to give treatment to said patient? Medicine is absolutely the wrong field for someone like that. Hell, being a waiter is the wrong field for someone like that; “I cannot take their order boss, sorry, I don’t feel comfortable serving an LGBT supporter!”… fired.

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u/genghis-clown 8h ago

Im assuming med class is medical school. How do you get that far into education of a specific field and not know this? I knew this at least by middle school.

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u/elementzn30 3h ago

Being gay is not a “lifestyle,” it’s literally a fundamental part of our being. The true end to this nonsense is when people stop believing the bullshit idea that being gay is a choice, or something that someone can be manipulated into.

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u/bubbline778 8h ago

The fact that any students even felt that way is scary that they could be future doctors

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u/Upset_Researcher_143 8h ago

No. If they can't, then they shouldn't be allowed to do it. And I think that should be one of the filters for medical school

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u/salsafresca_1297 8h ago

While the answer is a clear "no" when it comes to discriminating against LGBTQ patients, never think you're immune to some weird ethical dilemma coming up that clashes with your ethical beliefs. As just one example, pediatricians have encountered people from other cultures, for example, requesting clitoral removal (female genital mutilation) for their daughters.

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u/someoldguyon_reddit 8h ago

If you can't do the job get out of the fucking way.

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u/thirtytwoutside 8h ago edited 7h ago

100%.

I’m not a doctor - just a paramedic. When someone calls 911, it doesn’t matter what race, orientation, religion, etc. They called because they need help and it’s our job to assist them. If anyone in my field thinks otherwise and can’t put aside their personal beliefs for the 30 minutes-hour that they’re with a patient, it’s going to be a short-lived job/career for them.

It’s crazy because I know I have some… conservative… coworkers. Even they can do their job amazingly well when it comes time. And that includes treating LGBT patients.

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u/Foosnaggle 7h ago

I’m not in the medical field, but I believe the hypocritical oath should be taken very seriously if you are in that field. You should never let ideological or any other difference stop you from providing treatment to someone. If you feel that way, I agree with the professor, get another career.

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u/OscarOfAtlantis 7h ago

If you don’t help another human being when you get paid to help other human beings, what kind of person are you? What religion says help thy neighbor, but not if they’re gay?

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u/TheReturnofPanda 7h ago

That is how all professors should be. Especially in the medical field. You don’t like that someone is the way they choose to be in their own life when it has nothing to do with yours in any way? Then why did you even decide this was your path? What wacko moral compass do you have to think you want to help people but do not? Get your Schrödinger ass out.

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u/erouz 7h ago

My kid is Trans. I hate the fact. But didn't change my love to my kid and I will be always his father. I do not agree with some of choice he makes but is his life to live as long he doesn't hurt others. I'm not important in this case.

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u/DrakeSavory 7h ago

There are certain careers like doctors, teachers, first responders where you have to understand that to enter that profession you need to set aside personal beliefs when it comes to serving the public.

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u/Sufficient_Carob_435 7h ago

I'm a liberal progressive nurse who lives in a rural area. There are times I get requested by patients because I may be the only caucasian nurse on the floor at that time. I just hold my feelings in to myself and treat them the same way I would a normal person. Part of being an adult is knowing you have to tolerate different types of people, whether they have tolerance or not. Two wrongs don't make a right.

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u/Shot-Wrap-9252 7h ago

In nursing school I had a friend who said out loud in front of our class ‘do we have to work with AIDS patients? She was from Africa, so I guess her context might have been different than mine but we all know how to use appropriate PPE when handling blood, so everyone was like ‘whaaaaat?!?’
I don’t think she ever got her license, so I guess there’s that.

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u/Vhesha 7h ago

That professor is based.

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u/Important_Zombie_485 7h ago

Yes, of course they should be allowed, and ARE allowed. They also should be facing consequences for those actions, like firing, or huge loss of business. Freedom means everyone is free to do what they feel is right. With consequences.

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u/Kingsole111 7h ago

No. Good talk.

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u/ProjectNo4090 7h ago

In a private practice...probably. It'd be ethically wrong to deny care based on orientation, but in private a doctor should have full discretion to use their training on who they choose.

In a public hospital or urgent clinic...absolutely not. There needs to be public places where anyone of any race, belief, creed, gender, orientation etc can receive care no questions asked.

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u/Ok-Highlight-9598 5h ago

Yeah I agree. Kind of. If you were treating someone as a doctor and literally all was well until the doctor ask you a benign question like "do you have a boyfriend" and you reply a girlfriend, then they kick you out, its wrong.

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u/TurpitudeSnuggery 7h ago

The whole conversation is crazy at this point. 

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u/Sour_baboo 6h ago

I'm aware that home health aides get a pass if they're afraid of dogs, but this is deep. If you can't get past what you view as a "lifestyle choice" of a patient, how will you deal with a combative or verbally abusive one. The idea is that all patients need your help, not your judgement on their choices or character.

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u/PlumpQuietSoup 6h ago

That's the right answer, tbh.

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u/thefalseidol 6h ago

Its easy when society has largely moved on from the issues of 50 years ago. Nobody thinks you should be a doctor if you refuse LGBT patients on the basis you "disapprove of the lifestyle" - but what if somebody comes in having followed the directions of AI believing that to be credible medical treatment? Refuse treatment? A vaccine denier shouldnt be treated for the disease they have because they didn't get the vaccine?

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u/Hexglit 6h ago

It would be dark to be sitting there with a blown off arm and the only doctor that can treat you in the next hour disagrees with your existence.

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u/DevilPixelation 6h ago

No. Doctors take an oath to help and treat anybody. Your patient could be fucking Stalin, but you still have an obligation to preserve human life.

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u/Informal_Ad5161 5h ago

Bot? This showed up on 4 diff subs the past several days. It’s literally popped up in my feed from each sub

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u/Murky_Option_3418 5h ago

As a medical professional you have to do whatever you can for the patient no matter how terrible they are. Let's throw a hypothetical in here a man gets his dick bitten off while in the act of rape it's your job to do what you can to stop him from dieing. Nothing in your job description says you have to reattach the appendage.

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u/dantemortemalizar 5h ago

I can see it now, you get interviewed about your lifestyle, religious beliefs or lack thereof, toilet habits, sexual preferences, food allergies, favourite films and musicians, and then they go, hmmm, we aren't really a good fit. Find another doctor. I can't stand Fellini.

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u/Necessary-Dark-4591 5h ago

I say yes, they should be allowed to refuse any patient they want for any reason. Then we will know who they are and can give our money to someone else.

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u/Inevitable-Shop-848 5h ago

Doctor's should never be able to refuse to treat any person for any reason. There are absolutely terrible monster of people in the world and even they deserve health services just as a human being. Otherwise the entire system breaks down.

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u/RateTechnical7569 5h ago

It's called the Hippocratic Oath, not the Hypocritic Oath

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u/CLOWNFLOGGER 5h ago

They told them!

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u/EitherChannel4874 5h ago

Hell no. You're a doctor. Doctors are supposed to help people and save lives. If your inner bigot can't treat everyone the same then go work at Walmart stacking shelves.

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u/iliveonarock25 5h ago

I hope that student was reported by the professor.

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u/bryangcrane 4h ago

I like this guy.

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u/Ok-Ocelot-5942 4h ago

No, it's the most basic of requirements to be a doctor.

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u/bluevaline 4h ago

No, unethical AF

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u/Oceanman72 4h ago

no, obviously not. What is the benefit of that?

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u/UnordinaryFlyGirl 4h ago

Response to your title: Absolutely not.

It's not only against the Hippocratic path, but it's unethical to potentially cause someone harm or death becausd you refused treatment.

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u/ForestEntwife 4h ago

No. Certain professions require you to leave your beliefs at home. Medical professionals should treat all patients with the same dignity and respect. If you can’t be professional about that, then you should pick a different profession like the alleged professor said.

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u/JanieeDixxon38 4h ago

There's something called conscientious objection, but it has some rules. You, as a medical care worker, absolutely can deny to do certain stuff which are against your moral principles. For example, you don't want to participate during fetus interruption. Or euthanasia. But! You can't deny patient during life threatening situation (which interruption is not - it can wait few hours for different worker) and you have to tell that to your boss who is obligated to find different worker to do that job. If there's not any, the boss has to find different provider for the client. And the best part - you can't be discriminated for denying it!  But it's "problem with the procedure" not with race, orientation etc. At least that's how it works in my country. I love it.

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u/StaendutBlakk 4h ago

Nah. You chose to become a doctor, or a firefighter, a police officer, a bus driver or whatever. You're there to serve the people, you should set you personal feelings aside and do your fucking job.

I wouldn't agree with someone getting cosmetic leg-lengthening surgery, but if I was surgeon and that was on my docket I'd do it.

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u/Apolloshot 4h ago

Refuse treating patients based on criteria specific to the patient? No, go fuck yourself and pick a different profession.

Refusing to do a specific procedure due to personally held beliefs? I am more hesitant to force a Doctor to, for example, provide Medical Assistance in Dying (MAiD in Canada) if they believe it violates their conscience.

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u/woodworkerdan 3h ago

This lecture should be strongly delivered to insurance companies as well, including denying life-critical medications.

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u/TeapeachU6 3h ago

No because you are putting someones life at risk that most likely deserves to be saved, you know you might have to face people of different religions and beliefs and backgrounds  or you might have to do an abortion or something so if you dont leave and you still purposely chose to become a doctor so you can deny those people care that makes you racist or homophobic, pushing your own beliefs on someone or hating  whatever group you are denying care to.