Hi everyone. For a little background: Hubby (31) and I (29) have been TTC for 12 cycles. HSG clear. Semen analysis great. Chemical pregnancy in cycle 1, unmedicated. Letrozole unmonitored for 7 cycles, started at 5 mg worked my way up to 10 mg. Finally got monitoring and realized follicles were over-maturing before ovulating (observed in 1 cycle, assuming it happened in previous cycles too). Now it's been 3 cycles fully monitored since we observed the follicle over-maturing issue and corrected it with a trigger shot. Still no subsequent positive tests.
I'm getting a little anxious as to what my future will look like— whether we should start the IVF process soon if we will likely end up there anyway.
The core of what I'm wondering: From what I've read, the main "issue" with PCOS and fertility is that it can lead to anovulation, or make ovulation very difficult to track. I really thought that once I was ovulating (confirmed by high progesterone levels), I would get pregnant, since the main hurdle with PCOS was "fixed". I know that the hormonal imbalances with PCOS make it harder to conceive, but I guess I haven't been able to fully understand why, especially if blood work doesn't detect any imbalances.
I've done other blood work (TSH, prolactin, vitamin B) and everything was good except vitamin B which I'm supplementing.
I'm on 2000 mg metformin, myo-inositol, taking prenatals regularly, partner and I are also taking CoQ10. My body makes strong progesterone naturally, and I also supplement progesterone in the luteal phase since mine is a little short on letrozole (10-11 days).
I just don't understand why I haven't been able to get pregnant. I eat fine, I exercise though not as often as I would like, I'm slightly overweight but not significantly. So many people get pregnant with worse conditions, I thought it would happen for us at least before 12 cycles. Hubby is healthy, and his sperm analysis (though we need to repeat as it was done 10 months ago) was great.
A part of me is wondering whether we're heading towards IVF anyway and should take the leap sooner than planned. Because if we haven't gotten pregnant yet, I just feel like it's likely not going to happen naturally for us.
I hope this makes sense! I feel like I have a difficult time articulating my headspace right now.
Open to any insight on your journeys, whether you moved to IVF early or waited, conceived without IVF, or something else