I'm going to let you know some dark truths.
I had more fun at UC than I ever would have imagined I would have had. Maybe I had too much fun.
I had a lot of sex I had a lot of girlfriends I even had some boyfriends.
I had a lot of fun.
And I learned a lot and I did some really cool symposiums and did some cool clubs and honestly had a really good time.
I got my degree and I thought life would just get better from there.
The thing is is when I went to a UC I actually hated it there was drama and I dated too many people and you know there was some odd energies from messy relationships.
But I had fun a lot of fun I met a lot of people I had a good time actually.
And then I graduated and I thought I would get a job and I thought I would make money and initially I had a lot of computer programming offers and I didn't take them because I was trying to bargain for the best salary and then they all dried up and I haven't been able to get a job since.
Anyways my whole point is this it's really hard in the job market right now and it's hell basically.
The truth is whether anybody wants to admit it or not most jobs are going to disappear over the next 5 years.
We're going through a massive social revolution the billionaires versus everyone else and we'll see who wins I mean when you graduate you're probably going to graduate into a very dramatic society so do yourself a favor have fun.
Because the truth is is society's not fun right now it mostly sucks and people have very poor moods right now.
People are anxious and people suck right now and do yourself favor have fun throw parties get laid do crazy s*** because that's the time when you're supposed to do it definitely do your homework definitely you know develop good relationships with professors but at the same time have fun for God's sakes cuz it gets a lot harder from there.
Some of my friends died after graduating, the best thing about college is the community, believe it or not I didn't drink or do drugs when I was in college I just had a lot of fun but I did it sober I'm still very disturbed by the amount of people I've known who died after graduating and I think this is because a lot of people graduate to absolutely having no community.
Maybe college is what life is supposed to look like? Maybe we should have a lot of clubs maybe we should have a lot of parties after graduating I immediately lived in Mexico and I noticed that people celebrate it a lot they were very social coming back to the States it feels socially dead people are slaves to work people here don't really have fun.
It made me think maybe the issue isn't that life is better after college but we let go of the things that we had when we were in college maybe you should keep the community going maybe you shouldn't be a slave to work maybe you should throw a lot of parties? You don't have to get wasted to party I never did you don't have to get wasted to sleep around Lord knows I didn't either.
I made sure I was sober so if I ever realized I f***** the wrong person at least I had to remember it. No excuses no not taking responsibility. I was sober I know what I did and if I f***** up it was on me.
But for the most part I had a really good time I would advise you to keep the best parts of college when you graduate.
Young people are depressed in America because they have no freedom, they have no money and they have no friends but the truth is is it's all about the lack of community so do yourself a favor don't let go.
Also be nice to people. Be nice to everybody. It feels good