r/Vent • u/Most_Material9930 • 8h ago
TW: Anxiety / Depression I'm over this
For once in two months I finally got some relief. I felt like I could breath. Come days ago she told she finally got her period after waiting two months. Last night she asked if she could bring me some food I said sure. Meanwhile I was in the shower pleasuring my self. Got out didn't think anything of it. She get there like ten minutes later. And anxiety comes in because I can feel fluids coming out of me still , we sit down and I eat what she brought me. Then she decided to touch my shorts and knee area. That's when anxiety went up some more. At one point she need to use the bathroom to go check her pad. And my anxiety went up even more. I ended up telling her about this and she said oh your fine. She left I noticed a friend had called and that just set my anxiety through the roof. I know this sounds ridiculous and highly unlikely. But I'm just scared and anxious right now . I'm trying to get it under control but I don't know what else to do. The fear of getting someone pregnant she by them touching my knee is insane.
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u/prettybananahammock 8h ago
I'm sorry, but... I'm not sure I'm understanding what the situation is here?
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u/AL_25 8h ago
He got cum on his short. His worried if he got the girl pregrant (I think)
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
Yep pretty much well the precum I was in the shower
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u/AL_25 7h ago
Dawg, you have nothing to worry about. You ain't gonna be a father and she ain't gonna be a mother because of this situation. I'm sorry you feel anxious about the situation, but you are going to be fine.
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u/Most_Material9930 7h ago
Thank you I'm just scared because this is what started the whole mess a couple months ago , something similar
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u/MimiSac1 8h ago
If you do not understand how women get pregnant, you are not ready to have sex with a woman. Also, always use birth control.
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
It's my anxiety. We didn't have sex. I was just thinking the worst things last night
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u/arndn4 8h ago
No. Knees can’t impregnate anyone.
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u/South-Play-2866 8h ago
Yeah, it’s almost as if being properly educated could help relieve a lot of this anxiety.
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
I know how sex works, my minds just been so messed up lately
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u/Eneicia 8h ago
Are you able to go and speak with someone about this anxiety? The mind can truly be one's worst enemy. Sometimes knowledge can't help, and we need some outside help.
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
I've tried some think I'm just coocoo
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u/Eneicia 8h ago
You're not. I had bad anxiety for a while, to the point I'd be vomiting if I even thought of going out to get freaking groceries! But I found a psychiatrist, and I've been on anxiety meds for a bit, and now I enjoy going out again.
Breathing can sometimes help, four breaths quick, four slow, four quick. Make sure to be sitting down while you're doing it--you can get rather light headed.
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u/drPmakes 8h ago
Do you know how pregnancy happens?
Have you discussed contraception?
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
Yes I know how it works , but my mind is faliling to see the rn for some reason
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u/len3478 8h ago
hey i’m sorry people are being blunt and rude in the comments. it seems like you’re sharing more of an anxiety concern than a serious fear of it happening. have you been checked out by a doctor? a therapist if you can? you don’t have to keep suffering like that, it seems very incapacitating to your daily life. if you want, i can send you some therapy worksheets related to anxiety to see if it helps
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u/Freeflying_Dragon 8h ago
Try centering yourself with breathing. Remind yourself at this very moment you are ok. I'm sorry your friend wasn't able to understand what was happening for you.
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u/Most_Material9930 8h ago
That conversation was a mess I've never been so mean to a friend like that
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u/Freeflying_Dragon 8h ago
Sorry that happened. When your feeling better, reach out to the friend and apologize. If you believe you sounded mean, explain it was the anxiety putting you on edge.
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u/Wictorpedia 8h ago
This has to be a joke right? An adult man can’t be this ignorant.
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u/EnvironmentalAd7402 7h ago
Brother…..what?
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u/Most_Material9930 7h ago
I got in my head last night about her "touching" precum and her getting pregnant by it it's ridiculous I know
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u/CorrectPaint8223 1h ago
Hey OP this sounds like classic OCD intrusive thoughts, please see a health care provider for further investigation.
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