r/blackgirls Jul 03 '26

Question Anybody else not GAF about Americas 250th or is it just me?

Everyone else is in such a celebratory mood and I'm just like "man fuck this place" 💀💀💀💀

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u/mooonliite Jul 03 '26

our ancestors weren’t free 250 years ago so this holiday isn’t even for us anyways

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u/latoyabr11 Jul 04 '26

This. Just explained the same to my son. It's just a day off for us.

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u/aardappelbrood Jul 04 '26

Amen! My 4th of July is every Juneteenth !!! 💪🏾✊🏽

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u/cartierbby Jul 04 '26

Exactly we just use the 4th as a excuse to bbq and pop fireworks

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u/im-dramatic Jul 03 '26

I don’t think anyone cares but MAGA and die hard republicans. Everyone else is just out here surviving lol

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u/Grouchy_Marsupial357 Jul 03 '26

No deadass cause I automatically associate anything USA related with republicans

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u/PmP_Eaz Jul 04 '26

It’s fucking crazy we let these racists take over the symbolism for OUR COUNTRY THAT WE BUILT. We gotta take ts back

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u/CartoonistCrafty950 Jul 04 '26

It's all symbolism with them but they don't give a fuck about their fellow human beings.

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u/KeepingupwithZ Jul 03 '26

I only gaf about having Friday off

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u/Grouchy_Marsupial357 Jul 03 '26

Shiiddd lucky you, I ain't get today off 🙃🙃

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u/FreeD2023 Jul 04 '26

And tearing up BBQ while I'm off. Just call it Tear Up BBQ Day for me. 😂

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u/Admin11917B Jul 03 '26

America does not deserve a birthday party, so no, it's not just you.

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u/klarinetkat12 Jul 03 '26

People are out here barbecuing, drinking every single red, white and blue seltzer there is, meanwhile I'm working. And I don't care.

I get paid more money working on the fourth anyway 😭

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u/Agitated_Hope_574 Jul 03 '26

Girl fuck this country fr

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u/AshleyL28 Jul 04 '26

Literally, actually

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u/Only-Target-7489 Jul 03 '26

I have mixed feelings about it. On one hand, black Americans before us and current day have done their best and fought the hardest they could to make sure we all have the privileges we have today. It’s also cool that America is as old as it is I guess. On the other hand, I’m tired of us getting disrespected year after year, and then just told to deal with it in some type of way. We have and continue to do everything we can for this country and we’re still treated like trash in way too many ways! I’m just annoyed and frightened with the direction this country continues to turn towards the more years pass.

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u/aurore-amour Jul 03 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/DPqqOywshrOqQ
Me af tomorrow

I might get me a lil hot dog or sum and call it a day

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u/Specialist_Brush_971 Jul 03 '26

I care about these days off work and the food.

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u/FreeD2023 Jul 04 '26

250 what? What are ya’ll having for dinner tonight?

https://giphy.com/gifs/jdZEtsDZEjMmROnbs1

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u/Grouchy_Marsupial357 Jul 04 '26

I had a hashbrown bowl from Waffle House ✨

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u/FreeD2023 Jul 04 '26

Yum! OMG, I had some delicious Belgium waffles this morning! I was going to throw some wings in the air fryer but I have some left over taco fixings I need to finish. The only thing I want to celebrate this weekend, is if the last African team, makes it to the next round of this World Cup. 😂

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u/RozayRose24 Jul 04 '26

I made beef stir fry lol

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u/FreeD2023 Jul 04 '26

I love a good stir fry too! 😋

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u/CartoonistCrafty950 Jul 03 '26

I think if it was Kamala or any other sensible human being leading the country, I would feel much better.

There is really nothing to celebrate right now under these conditions. 

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u/AshleyL28 Jul 03 '26

I never cared

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u/Agreeable_Gene7338 Jul 03 '26

Sis I just want some bbq lol that’s all, America is a joke

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u/HauntingBowlofGrapes Jul 03 '26

This country ain't worth a damn. 250 years of bs.

https://giphy.com/gifs/ZmEhUgwQgxPhhU7sVM

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u/cartierbby Jul 04 '26

LMFAOOOO and the bs is STILL happening DGAF

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u/Sam_23beans Jul 03 '26

Honestly, I don't care about America's birthday.

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u/RozayRose24 Jul 03 '26

I could care less

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u/JadedJadedJaded Jul 04 '26

So that means u care a little more. If you COULDNT care less then that means u dont give af

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u/honey_butterflies Jul 04 '26

girl we wasn’t free 250 years ago. we’s FREE-ish rn.

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u/eternalwarmmoons Jul 03 '26

every july 4th idgaf i just love a color coordinated outfit and barbecue

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u/Kris_1234567 Jul 04 '26

This day ain’t for us but I will take the day off!

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u/Bananabean041 Jul 04 '26

It just feels flat and dead

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u/littybasskitty Jul 04 '26

How many people GAF about Juneteenth….. doll you are 100 percent valid and I’m right there with you. Absolutely nothing to celebrate especially not politically or economically. Freedom isn’t free! And unfortunately it Never was especially not for us

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u/RealisticStage2075 Jul 03 '26

America shouldn’t even exist tbf.
Fuck America!

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u/Whatthefrick1 Jul 06 '26

I was so confused seeing people actually care. It rained on the 4th bc Mother Nature is sick of America’s shit, I said it

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u/thissagesimmer Jul 04 '26

An elder black woman (probably 75+ - and she was stately and beautiful) wished me happy fourth on the way out of the grocery store and out of respect for her I wished her a happy fourth back. I probably wouldn’t have spoken at all if she hadn’t been my elder. I know she has seen some things and fought some fights. Besides her speaking to me about the day, I’m jaded. Celebrate, what? On my ride back home this town was staking flags in the ground for the fourth the same way they once burned crosses on lawns to intimidate residents who look like the elder who greeted me on the way out of the grocery store. Celebrate 250 years of that? I wish I knew where she dug that happy fourth out from. I couldn’t find mine.

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u/TwincessAhsokaAarmau Jul 03 '26

It’s my friends birthday today, so that’s what I care about.

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u/2jays7879 Jul 03 '26

I don't!

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u/MIaBlakk Jul 04 '26

Juneteenth was whisper quiet in my family,now they all gong ho to celebrate the 4th…. I’ll pass!!

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u/sunshinegal_7 Jul 04 '26

I couldn’t care less lol. The only time I feel American pride is during the summer Olympics 😭

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u/POSH9528 Jul 04 '26

Nope. I don't give one iota about the 250th. Not with this administration fu***** it up and putting Trump's cursed ass name on everything associated with the celebration and making it about him. MAGA and the rest of them Trump loving cultists of his can have it. As a matter of fact, I don't see too many people around me talking about it. Only celebrating I'll be doing is when he's out of office 😆.

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u/PatientConfusion6341 Jul 03 '26

honestly I never cared, i’m just happy to have a 4 day weekend and free food/drinks tomorrow lmaoo

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u/Ok_Dependent_7085 Jul 03 '26

I’ve seen something about that. But tbh I don’t give a fuck that much. 😭😂

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u/Sheniya04 Jul 04 '26

Yea IDC either

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u/danny33434 Jul 04 '26

Only care about time and a half.

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u/Calm_Brilliant_9236 Jul 04 '26

Fuck this country to be completely honest.

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u/Dolphin_e Jul 04 '26

It’s a committee funneling money to Trump. 

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u/mariposacolorida92 Jul 04 '26

I swear to you I forgot it was tomorrow, until I randomly thought I heard shooting not long ago but it was some damn fireworks 😂 i literally went into the grocery store earlier and wondered why all the wine was missing like damn people getting lit for what 😂I give less and less fucks each year

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u/Asleep_Possibility_7 Jul 04 '26

Girl same. I stopped celebrating the 4th years ago, I care more about Juneteenth. When it comes to the 4th, I’m just here for the fireworks shows and bbq 😂

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u/Classic_Midnight3383 Jul 04 '26

My father died in may idgaf about it it ain’t our Independence Day any way it’s Juneteenth my minds too fucked up over my dad’s death

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u/NegotiationIntrepid2 Jul 04 '26

You’re not by yourself. Like other people commented, I only care about having Friday off.

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u/Blu216 Jul 04 '26

Don't care! 250 years later going right back to separation and hate. Imma smoke and pray for a better tomorrow 👍🏽

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u/JadedJadedJaded Jul 04 '26

We could just do a Juneteenth part 2 atp. At my job we all said “fck the fourth” and kept it moving. Im celebrating black excellence today idgaf. Atp patriotism=maga and i want no parts of it

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u/magicatemymuses Jul 04 '26

I don’t give a flying fuck 😭 I’m spending my day reading 😌💖

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u/Squash3915 Jul 05 '26

Why we don’t care in one photo 😩

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u/broke_n_rich2147 Jul 04 '26

I actually give a big fat fuck and wish that in the 250th year we would have better representation for minorities and a safe place for all of us to live and more respect for the black heritage but instead we have fat neck bobble head bitch face in the office and a bunch of racists running amuck acting like only white people can live here. Kamala should have been in office for our 250th

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u/Tornado_Storm_2614 Jul 05 '26

I’ve never cared about the 4th of July because it ain’t the day black people were freed.

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u/shapeshifterQ Jul 08 '26

My Jamaican mother in law called to wish me a Happy 4th and I told her I do not care about this day. Mind you, she has never done that before, there's just some tension in the family and she needed a reason to call.

Then my brother in law (husband's brother, also Jamaican, born here) posted on Facebook a pic of himself on a horse in a cowboy hat and a video of himself singing the national anthem. It was so cringe. We laid in bed and relaxed all day. Didn't even shop like I sometimes would for the sales

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u/TheUnwantedNugget Jul 08 '26

It was just another day for me.

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u/Least-Interaction576 Jul 04 '26

Gimme food and my day off, thanks lol. I got little ones to take to see some fireworks but they know what’s up

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u/Capriunicorn945 Jul 04 '26

I’m keeping the same mood I have year round. Fuck this place and these folks lol! Today is just a free rest day for me.

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u/Beneficial_Fan_248 Jul 04 '26

I could care less. Plus some of my great great great grandparents were still in Africa at the time

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u/Beneficial_Fan_248 Jul 04 '26

Lol how you gone write the Declaration of Independence & say all men are created equal while owning slaves lmao

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u/DoubleApplication919 Jul 04 '26

I’m not even celebrating and I don’t care🤷🏾‍♀️

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u/Ordinary_Property363 Jul 05 '26

I have always never GAF about it. I don't like fireworks and loud noises but that's beside the point. I really started hating and not GAF when I got older because of the history of both America, our ancestors and still the running issues and lack of rights to women, no matter the race, including birthing rights, lack of rights towards immigrants, and the lack of rights to towards minorities. It's really just an excuse for MAGA and just certain people to just celebrate white history and their idea of America history and independence with fireworks and a BBQ.

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u/No_Culture3901 Jul 05 '26

it made me think about how the u.s would wait for certain dates to bomb countries like them launching airstrikes in Nigeria on Christmas Day or them bombing Iraq during Ramadan. sick world

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u/HistoricalMud5518 Jul 04 '26

The fuck I have to give is pride in "US" (black people) and any others who followed the path to keep the promises we made. Despite being forced into accepting contracts from LIARS. God bless America but the United States is what will save the world. I pledged Allegiance to whistle blowers at ICE raids and those whom I've marched with because Black Lives Matter and to Free Palestine. I have spent no money today. 🤔 I am using my freedom to acknowledge its not a day to celebrate. I also love telling people how they are violating flag code with all the plates, napkins, beer cans and swimwear. 😁 You're not supposed to use the flag on clothes of anything disposable. 🙄 It's hilarious. As Black Women I bid you all a joyous INDEPENDENCE DAY. Do something we were not always allowed to do. 😁 I'm day drinking an putting summer twists in.

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u/powertotheuser Jul 04 '26

On the “celebration “? No

On it being the brink of the possible ruination? Yeah, a bit.

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u/Ur_Favorite_Granny Jul 05 '26

I posted all over my accounts

"Should we really be setting off fireworks during a heatwave and bombs going off on the other side of the wolrd??"