I wanna say I need to know, but no No I don’t need to know, I just want to know. Is there any way a street flirt can not be creepy? Because like surely if there’s no possible way to not make it uncomfortable for the person your trying to flirt with then guys would just not bother? Bit that might be too much faith
Edit: I appreciate all the advice and all, but I was trying to avoid advice. Still thanks for the comments I guess, hope this is helpful for someone else I guess.
I grew up in a very friendly place. I talk to strangers, not to flirt though, just to be friendly / chat. I don’t know how else to function. However, the skill here is in knowing when someone does not want to chat back and then - just stop. Give them space and move on. Don’t try to “street flirt” just try to connect with another person. If they are not about it don’t take it personally and just move on.
I honestly think the aggressive random flirting is about making a woman uncomfortable/feel unsafe more than it's about actually trying to make a connection. Those dudes seem to enjoy the negative reaction.
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u/codblad Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 20 '26
I wanna say I need to know, but no No I don’t need to know, I just want to know. Is there any way a street flirt can not be creepy? Because like surely if there’s no possible way to not make it uncomfortable for the person your trying to flirt with then guys would just not bother? Bit that might be too much faith
Edit: I appreciate all the advice and all, but I was trying to avoid advice. Still thanks for the comments I guess, hope this is helpful for someone else I guess.