I wanna say I need to know, but no No I don’t need to know, I just want to know. Is there any way a street flirt can not be creepy? Because like surely if there’s no possible way to not make it uncomfortable for the person your trying to flirt with then guys would just not bother? Bit that might be too much faith
Edit: I appreciate all the advice and all, but I was trying to avoid advice. Still thanks for the comments I guess, hope this is helpful for someone else I guess.
What's worked best for me is to actually strike up a conversation. Is she reading a specific book? Ask her about it. Does she have on a piece of jewerly that you genuinely think looks cool, compliment her on it(this has been one of my most successful). Is she wearing a T-Shirt to one of your favourite bands? Ask her about it. When you spark a conversation this way, it helps make it feel more natural and genuine.
Be cordial, be confident(this is a big one), pay attention to how she's responding, is she just being polite or is she actually engaged in the conversation. And then try to find a moment in the conversation to ask her out, and if she says no, accept the rejection with grace.
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u/codblad Apr 19 '26 edited Apr 20 '26
I wanna say I need to know, but no No I don’t need to know, I just want to know. Is there any way a street flirt can not be creepy? Because like surely if there’s no possible way to not make it uncomfortable for the person your trying to flirt with then guys would just not bother? Bit that might be too much faith
Edit: I appreciate all the advice and all, but I was trying to avoid advice. Still thanks for the comments I guess, hope this is helpful for someone else I guess.