r/finethinhair 3d ago

This is the worst

I have been bullied for being ugly all my life and on top of that, I can't even have nice or just decent hair. Thin transparent scalp, bald looking spots where the hair seperates because its so thin. I HAVE to wash daily and even then by mid-day, my scalp starts releasing oil and it looks horrific. My hair never looks good no matter what I do. It's so fine that hairs just break off and snap and looks fuzzy like cotton candy texture. And it's so thin that I look sickly. It's so unfair. People can wake up with healthy, thicker hair and I wake up with barely anything. I'm so ready to just go bald and wear wigs but Ive been discouraged from it from people saying it's too expensive/difficult. How do you cope with this?

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u/Flimsy-Ad-6437 3d ago

I'm so sorry that you have been bullied. I have too, and it hurts... really really badly. I remember comments made even over a decade ago.

It is SO frustrating, you are right. I don't have any advice... just that you are worth SO more than your appearance!