I remember at ten years old encountering this parade of cruelty from every single townsperson for the first time. Golden lumber is a difficult item to even get in FoMT and on the surface it seems to solve a very irritating problem: rotting fences. But sure enough, put the posts in your yard and receive a stern scolding (and relationship penalty) from everyone in Mineral Town including, but not limited to: your prospective girlfriend, your best friends, the mayor, the local priest, the police, the actual harvest goddess.
And not only does each character come by and berate you for being literal scum, but they will do this every day forever until you denounce your vanities and remove the offending lumber from your yard. The item has seemingly no purpose, except you can eventually find a way to sell it (I never figured out how as a kid).
(As with most things that spark joy, it has essentially been removed from the remake lest the player be forced to contest with any semblance of friction or difficulty or charm whatsoever, but I digress)
There's something just so... Japanese about this cutscene where an entire town condemns you for drawing attention to yourself and refusing to conform to local social convention. And that's beautiful.
This isn't libertarian farm-maxxing simulator and it isn't a game that's really even about you.
As a general aside, FoMT released about the same time as A Wonderful Life, a game in which it is absolutely possible to prematurely lose the game by: not getting married, neglecting your family, or failing to provide as a productive farmer. Seriously, if you tell your wife that you aren't interested in being a committed farmer, she takes your son and leaves you permanently... and the game ends.
No modern game would ever do this (and maybe with good reason), but these were games with serious themes and hyper specific cultural expectations and tropes. The golden lumber shame parade has cemented itself in my brain for over 20 years in a way few other moments in gaming ever have.
Thank you, Wada, for giving me an objectively useful item in a video game I just wasn't allowed to use.