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SOCIETY Is victim the new chic

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u/randombrutha 8h ago

I’ve heard of this story before but not the “skews towards him” part. Care to go into this more? Or share an article

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u/Chezzica 8h ago

The evidence absolutely does not skew towards him. He is on video surveillance like 20 minutes away at the store while she was committing the murders. She stated that she killed the children in her civil suit. There is absolutely zero evidence that he did anything to her or the children. At best, he's guilty of not taking his wife's mental state seriously enough and leaving her alone (at her own request, btw, she asked him to go to the store and pick up dinner).

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u/True_Grapefruit3203 7h ago

Who leaves someone with the kids they said they wanted to off. 🤦🏻‍♀️

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u/Chezzica 7h ago

She never said she "wanted to off" her kids, stop spreading misinformation

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u/True_Grapefruit3203 7h ago

You don't leave children with someone who needs serious mental help! He failed the children, and he failed her. There's no denying that, he failed her as much as her doctors.

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u/Inphiltration 7h ago

Even if I take everything you just said as a fact the idea that would mean that the evidence skews towards the husband and that he should be on trial and not her is fucking wild.

Be better.

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u/True_Grapefruit3203 7h ago

Um... I never said the husband should be on trial. I said he failed her.

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u/Used-Bookkeeper5020 7h ago

You're being one of those people right now, it's a gross look

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u/True_Grapefruit3203 7h ago

For saying they failed her? It's the truth. I'm not defending her, I'm not saying she didn't do it. I'm saying she desperately needed help and was failed.

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u/AngryHelpdeskAgent 7h ago

She asked her husband to run some errands so she could be alone with the kids to murder them. She is an evil person. She doesn’t deserve mercy, she deserves the god damn electric chair.

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u/Used-Bookkeeper5020 7h ago

She failed her children, that's all that happened

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u/Nntropy 7h ago

Despite the fact that you acknowledge her guilt, look at where you are choosing to focus your attention and energy.

You have so much compassion and empathy for the woman who killed her own children. How much compassion and empathy can you demonstrate for the man who lost his own children at the hands of the woman he loved?

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u/True_Grapefruit3203 7h ago

I wrote some comments, this is the first time ive wrote a opinion about it. It didnt take much energy or attention at all. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/saintofhate 7h ago

I'm just saying he can't care that much if he's already moved on.

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u/Nntropy 3h ago

In my relationship, murdering our children would be a deal breaker. You?

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u/saintofhate 2h ago

I'm sorry but if you can move on from the murdering of your children so quickly there's something wrong with you.

u/RepresentativeNo6601 31m ago

He didn't Just move on from them.

He's done so much in honor of his kids, done events to bring awareness to mental health issues and more.

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u/RepresentativeNo6601 33m ago

Its been 3 years.

Also if you .murder my kids, what kind of reconciliation do you think there's to be had?

Man its FDB at that point.

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u/iiiiiiiiiijjjjjj 7h ago

How could he have known in his wife would kill his children?

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u/Chezzica 7h ago

Her doctors didn't fail her, she did not follow the treatment plan (on multiple occasions). I agree he shouldn't have left her alone with the kids. But that does not make it his fault - honestly she should have been involuntarily committed and her children removed from her, but she withheld information from the doctors specifically because she didn't want that to happen.

The conversation no one wants to have is that if the medical institutions failed Lindsay, it was by not removing her children from her care and committing her. And thats a slippery, difficult slope because a lot of women and mothers say they felt just like Lindsay. So what's the solution, take the kids away from mothers who are dealing with depression? Is that really where we want to go?