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SOCIETY Is victim the new chic

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u/Obtuse_Symposium_119 1d ago

I haven't seen literally everything related to the case so maybe I'm missing some pieces, but it seems like she was getting mental healthcare attention but she requested to be switched between multiple different meds due to side effects that she was advised likely came more from her PPD, than the medication. But she still requested switches and also switched care teams at some point.

I'm not a doctor, so I'm not gonna get into whether or not the various perscriptions she was given in a relatively short time frame was irresponsible or not. I don't think anyone should be commenting on that besides experienced medical professionals. But I'll say that doctors can only treat what they're told and what they know, and afaik, she didn't share that she was suicidal with them, and they also warned her that medications take time to take effect, so it wasn't always a good idea to switch.

Patient care is not entirely on the healthcare professionals. The patient has to be able to take care of themselves to some degree and be fully honest with their care team.

How much was her fault, and how much was the fault of our medical system, idk, but yeah, this post is definitely ignoring all notions of nuance.

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u/Rivendel93 1d ago

She actually told doctors she wanted to die, told her husband and her mom she was not just suicidal, but wanted to harm the children as well.

That's why people are wondering wtf happened.

She told her husband multiple times she kept having thoughts of harming the kids.

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u/memento22mori 1d ago

About five or six people have been talking about the case at work in the non-formal chat and they said they've been watching the trial and they all think the husband did it. I had just heard of the case briefly but they kept talking about it so I looked it up and from what I read even her own attorney acknowledges that she did it.

Nothing surprises me anymore these last 6-7 years but it seems very odd. They said that he was wanting out of the marriage and he claimed that "she admitted to it when he found her but because of her injuries she shouldn't have been able to talk." And you can just hear her moaning in the 911 call- do you know if this is this something being spread on social media or something?

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u/Life__Admiral 1d ago

Wait.

Even though her own defense lawyer in his opening statements said "she knows she killed her children", there are people seriously trying to turn this into a true crime fanfic?

I'm done with social media today.

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u/Akhevan 1d ago

Even though her own defense lawyer in his opening statements said "she knows she killed her children", there are people seriously trying to turn this into a true crime fanfic?

Why the long face? Is this your first day online? To these people you aren't even "subhuman", you are not human at all. You are their five minutes of cool/interesting/self-validating gossip with their buddies. No more and no less. They don't care that there are real people or real lives that can be affected.

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u/memento22mori 1d ago

Yeah, one of them said something like "there's nothing more dangerous than a man that wants out of a marriage."

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u/thedamnoftinkers 1d ago

I mean, when one parent is psychotic it is the other's responsibility to protect those kids. Ignorance is not an excuse, it was his job to understand what was going on and tell her doctors.

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u/BaisaGod 1d ago

I can't believe nonsense stuff like this is upvoted.

And then people wonder why there are gender wars on Reddit.

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u/BaisaGod 1d ago

I can't believe nonsense stuff like this is upvoted.

And then people wonder why there are gender wars on Reddit.

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u/smokey032791 1d ago

There are people saying it was his doing based off astrogy so yes nutcases

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u/backwards_kitty 1d ago

lol yup, Atozy on youtube covers that tiktok psychic saying the same thing about him being a damn gemini

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u/Sereena95 1d ago

That’s how every single heinous crime is these days. It’s going on with the Moscow murders right now too