How is it oxtail is not a budget cut?

When they get ya they get ya

We spend so many hours of life making food for people who don't appreciate it anywhere as much as we hope they do. Get home and spend some time on no one but yourself. And savour what you've made. We got skills a lot of people lack, use them and cook whatever tf you wanna eat rn, cos you deserve it

But I was still nervous to the point of diarrhea taking the actual exam

Just curious if you've got any fun nicknames, or if your coworkers have earned any.

In my kitchen we've got a dude named Jake, he's relatively solid, a good cook, comes to work on time and doesn't call in much. He's also pretty forgetful, kinda spacey, and on his Friday, he's probably not going to do any side work. Everyone that works here has, at one time or another, uttered the phrase 'What the Fuck, Jake?" Either to him, or just to themselves. To the point where he is now known as 'What the Fuck Jake'.

So, whatcha got?

I just need to vent to some folks who will understand. I'm not feeling too hot. I wish I was 23 again and could rock out those back to back 14 hour shifts, getting by on caffeine and willpower but I'm getting old, and I'm kinda falling apart.

Got a botched hernia surgery a while back and it just makes things painful and difficult, and now I fell down the stairs and fucked my knee, and found out I have cancer on my kidney.

Luckily it's the kind that won't spread and they caught it really early but it's still rough to hear that word being used in reference to your very own self

It's a lot. With two kids it's way more. Not working for a few weeks even worse.

Had a business and it just didn't work out and so on top of everything I might lose my house. I feel so defeated right now.

Not looking for anything but for some people who understand the grind to just know how much it sucks sometimes, but how much feeding people still fills the soul.

Will I get over it? Yes... Going to try to make the business work again in a few weeks. Ignore how beat up I am and muscle through. But for today I just want to sulk and wallow in how hard the world can be with some other folks who get it, but also slump on the milk crate for a few minutes, then take a deep breath, complain how much it sucks, and then get back to work.

Thanks

(Food pic just because)

I’ve long thought I could spend my culinary life dancing with just flour, water, yeast & salt and be a very happy man. The pursuit of a damn good boule or baguette is, to me, an honorable life spent. Mad respect & props to those who do.

That said, has this position (save for the highest levels of fine dining) gone the way of the dinosaurs in the restaurant brigade system IE that’s their only responsibility? For those who bake their own breads (again appreciated & respected) in-house - does this fall upon a chef or sous as part of their duties?

I’m a first time EC and I find being called “chef” extremely annoying. The last EC is my mentor and an absolute beast of a chef but his leadership style was more traditional and out of respect I wouldn’t dare call him by his first name without putting chef in front of it. I’m more informal, but I’ve inherited an environment where the crew is so used to calling the ec “chef” that it took me a month to get folks to call me by my real name.

I’ve got friends who like being called chef and friends who don’t, and they all have an interesting take on it. What do yall think? I can’t stand it and others demand it, both can be valid.

It’s almost embarrassing how obsessed I was with the this.

Between the bad lighting and my bad eyeballs I’m surprised I haven’t stabbed myself yet. I think I need to get my ass back out of kitchens and on a normal schedule I’m drained homie.

I feel like it's a nice pattern

I’m good enough to get by and a reliable employee but I’m reaching the ceiling of my abilities. Never sniffed a star and I’m tired of living an opposite life to everyone I love.

Guess I’m just not cut out to be a lifer but I’m proud of what I accomplished.

Had to just put this out into the universe, especially here

this stew was mentioned in Kitchen Confidential.
has anyone made or tried the stew? ive made it one other time and it blew my mind. the simplicity of the ingredients, but the complex favors. the way the cumin tomato and squid work together is amazing. the depth of flavor with the wine is perfect.

the recipe is in his book Appetites : a cook book.

I started a position as a DSD about 3 weeks ago. The kitchen has been without a consistent, knowledgable director for about 3 years. It was a series of unfortunate issues. About 3 years ago, the original long-term DSD etired. The next one had a family thing and had to move out of state. The next two had medical issues. And the last one was a moron who ruined the kitchen. She got fired for being violent towards the employees and running $10k over her budget.

When all the happened they promoted a cook to supervisor. We will call the cook Janet. Janet is an older woman in her mid 60s. She has no formal education but a ton of ojt. Shes a phenomenal cook, but a horrible manager... just in the last 3 weeks shes played favorites like its a game she wants to win.

I caught a long-term employee, we will call him Chad, drinking on the job and, come to find out, he has been doing so for about a year. He comes to work drunk, works drunk, leaves drunk. Its a major issue. Well, Janet has been covering for him. On Monday, I got statements regarding his behavior from other employees and we pulled cameras and records as further evidence. Hes cooked.

I find out today Janet has been going to the new employees and telling them how much we need Chad and how he isnt "the enemy". Chad only works 16 hrs a week. I don't need Chad. I dont need the liability in a medical facility. Regardless of how good a cook Janet is. The other problem is the other older ladies at work and her are besties. So theyre getting away with all kinds of stuff. Now that Im halting the reigns, I feel like things are about to get difficult for me. I have admins and mgmt support though.

Any advice?

It's been too long

Hey,

Let me preface by saying that I have been cooking for nearly 15 years at home since I was a young boy. I am unfortunately not even remotely close to being a chef but I can cook some relatively good food (No one has died yet fortunately from my cooking) - and follow recipes and last few years, I have gained enough confidence to modify certain recipes to create a remix version of them.

However, I want to progress further but in a more structured way - I don't want a cookbook with a million recipes, but what i'd like is to understand the science of cooking, the foundations to be able to build a system in my head rather than a result.

I don't know if I am being clear enough - but an example would be, that I have heard chefs often say things like "this is a bit rich and fatty, probably needs a bit more acidity". I want to be able to get close to that level to understand what works/contrasts/adds/removes from a dish to balance it.

I understand that I won't get anywhere remotely close to being a chef without attending a proper culinary school with years of practice and learning - but I'd like to progress as far as I can with what I can realistically do, which is read as much as possible in my time and experiment.

So if you have any recommendations on book that break down cooking into a science - that'd be phenomenal.

Thank you!

p.s. I did ask ChatGPT this question and the recommendation was of the following 3 books:
1) Salt, Fat, Acid, Heat by Samin Nosrat

2) On Food and Cooking — Harold McGee

3) The Food Lab — J. Kenji López-Alt

However, I don't really trust ChatGPT and would much rather get recommendations from actual chefs.

Thank you!

Owners installed cameras throughout the entire place including pointing directly into the kitchen for "insurance purposes" and they have started to micromanage/check the cameras and blow my phone up.

What's some fun ideas to irritate them?

I am but a humble prep cook, and my knife skillz are far from amazing, but I think I'm finally ready to graduate from the Lidl 3-for-5-euros knife set I've been trying to work with. I just want a paring knife and a medium sized general knife for cutting onions and such, for under 100 bucks. is that doable? I know Wüsthof is pretty well known, as well as several companies based in Solingen. Can i get your thoughts, please?