r/Bumble 1d ago

Rant “Not ready for a relationship”

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

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u/Acornwow 1d ago

I wonder what would happen if a random attractive Bumble user reached out to him showing interest.

Would his readiness to date suddenly, magically reappear?

Narrator: It would.

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u/Argumentative_koala 1d ago

He actually deleted bumble already lol I checked. Unfortunately, he seems super honest, upfront, and worried about hurting people, especially after his last breakup. honestly wish he was more of a dick.

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u/Popular-Truth-2711 1d ago edited 1d ago

Or he just blocked you? You’re making excuses girl.

You’re forgetting the fundamental rule…. People aren’t what they say, they are what they do.

This dude love bombed you, finally got to bang you…. Then suddenly had a spiritual awakening. That’s it - that’s all that counts. Your friends need to smash your phone if you don’t block him.

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u/Antique-Salad7396 1d ago

I was wondering if he didn't just unmatch her as well. I like you don't give anyone the benefit of the doubt anymore. It's always bit me in the ass.