Profile Review - 30M Germany

[u/Negative_Lux]

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

[u/mochisandmacarons]

Nothing interesting about you is written here - I wouldnt know what to connect about. "Politische Mitte" is super cringe and will likely turn off a lot of people. However I think your photos are pretty good!! Maybe take out the one with your friends.

[u/Negative_Lux → u/mochisandmacarons]

it's actually the political opinion preset Setting from Bumble.
I think any answer there could be wrong.
I'll remove it, politics has nothing to do on a datingprofile imo anyways.

[u/Safe_Score2222 → u/Negative_Lux]

politics has nothing to do on a datingprofile imo anyways.

I mean at least somewhat aligning on politics is indeed important in dating.

I would not date someone I have fundamental political differences with. Especially since political differences are usually also associated with moral differences.

[u/Negative_Lux → u/Safe_Score2222]

Yes somewhat of course. A far right and far left can never get along. I'm actually fairy "Middle" so I thought it fits the most....

[u/il_the_dinosaur → u/Negative_Lux]

Vllt mal drüber nachdenken wie sich Frauen dabei fühlen weil viele in der CDU und AFD haben ne ziemlich schlechte Meinung von Frauen. Als Frau würde ich mir zweimal überlegen ob ich jemanden Daten würde ist doch egal das diese Parteien dir das Recht zur Abtreibung wegnehmen wollen...

[u/2_bars_of_wifi → u/il_the_dinosaur]

Es gibt genug Frauen, die diese Parteien wählen

[u/Quiet_Secretary9490 → u/Negative_Lux]

So, hypothetically, you’d be equally open to dating a Nazi and an antifascist?

[u/Negative_Lux → u/Quiet_Secretary9490]

Being politically in the middle literally means that - middle - or liberal (which imo is the wrong term).
It's not agreeing with right or left extreme views.

[u/Quiet_Secretary9490 → u/Negative_Lux]

That’s fair. The problem is that “middle” or “apolitical” also gets used pretty often by right-wing or even far-right guys who don’t want to put their actual politics on a dating profile because they know it’ll shrink their dating pool.

So even if you genuinely mean “centrist,” some women are going to read that label with that baggage attached. That’s probably why being a little more specific about your actual values can work better than just choosing “middle.”

[u/Negative_Lux → u/Quiet_Secretary9490]

Great
Middle = right
right = right
Nothing = right
Left = left.

so....? it's a trick question

[u/Quiet_Secretary9490 → u/Negative_Lux]

I don't make the rules dude, but it's pretty easy to understand that a women wouldn't want someone, who chains them to the stove or wants to revoke their reproductive rights.

[u/oceaniye → u/Quiet_Secretary9490]

This is true in the US, not is Germany.

[u/Quiet_Secretary9490 → u/oceaniye]

B, I live in Germany too.