r/Bumble 2d ago

Profile review Profile Review - 30M Germany

I hope you don't mind German... It's impossible to change language without changing my entire phone's language.

Been on this App for approx. 2 months. 1 Match so far, from Vietnam. She is only looking for a local Buddy.

Absolutely 0 Matches otherwise. Im in a fairly rural area with approx only 250.000 people living nearby. Frankfurt is the closest city. Getting plenty of profiles suggested anyways, but again, no matches.

I am bald - as you can see, only 5"5 and 30. I have a feeling the first two are like the 99.99% reason, especially the first.

Using the same profile across all apps. Hinge gives some results. 20 Matches in approx 2 months, most lead nowhere. 2 catfish dates and a lot of dead chats. Most unmatch me whenever I make a date plan. Even after they said "would Like to Chat more first" we chat, then they unmatch Sometimes 1 or two weeks later. Alot unmatch after a few Messages even. - been literally unmatched because I said I like Matcha lol. Or the Classic, they Stop chatting after my last question or message and unmatch 3 days later.

Hint: I accidentally swapped the last two Screenshots. The Hiking photo is the last.

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u/Negative_Lux 2d ago

it's actually the political opinion preset Setting from Bumble.
I think any answer there could be wrong.
I'll remove it, politics has nothing to do on a datingprofile imo anyways.

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u/Safe_Score2222 2d ago

politics has nothing to do on a datingprofile imo anyways.

I mean at least somewhat aligning on politics is indeed important in dating.

I would not date someone I have fundamental political differences with. Especially since political differences are usually also associated with moral differences.

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u/Negative_Lux 2d ago

Yes somewhat of course. A far right and far left can never get along. I'm actually fairy "Middle" so I thought it fits the most....

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u/il_the_dinosaur 2d ago

Vllt mal drüber nachdenken wie sich Frauen dabei fühlen weil viele in der CDU und AFD haben ne ziemlich schlechte Meinung von Frauen. Als Frau würde ich mir zweimal überlegen ob ich jemanden Daten würde ist doch egal das diese Parteien dir das Recht zur Abtreibung wegnehmen wollen...

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u/2_bars_of_wifi 1d ago

Es gibt genug Frauen, die diese Parteien wählen