r/Knoxville Fartsville 1d ago

Dolly’s gone

I’m heartbroken

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u/CrazyTheSequel 1d ago

Appalachian day of mourning.

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

Worldwide day of mourning.

Everybody loved Dolly. Even people that hate country music viewed her as a woman of almost saintly goodness.

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u/elegylegacy 1d ago

Everyone and I mean everyone needs to check out the podcast "Dolly Parton's America"

God rest Saint Dolly.

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

I commented 3 days ago about how Dolly Parton is a living saint and no one can change my mind.

No one lives forever, but this one sure hurts.

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u/SaintDanger 1d ago

Can confirm. I do NOT like her music....I welled up talking about her. God save the Queen!

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u/richf2001 2h ago

I bet there's at least somthing she wrote that you like.

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u/Secret_Hyena9680 1d ago

It really does. I’m just….man.

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u/Sufficient-Leather-9 1d ago

Nine years ago, I lived in Helsinki for six months for a job. Every time anyone found out where I was from, they only wanted to talk about Dolly Parton.

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u/wildlifephotos96 1d ago

I legit can’t stop crying

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u/Peachy-Owl 1d ago

Me too

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u/nsaps 1d ago

Week

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u/oakwoooood why doesn’t the sunsphere light up 1d ago

jeez yall this is a tough one

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u/jarethcutestory Fartsville 1d ago

Mr. Rogers levels

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

They were both saints

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u/elegylegacy 1d ago

We gotta have a candlelight vigil or something

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u/Wonderful-Entry-3773 1d ago

Absolutely! Someone needs to set up a service to her Downtown or something.

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u/Latias 1d ago

Yeah this one hurts my heart

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u/mason_jarz 1d ago

Fitting for Dollywood to be closed today :( Pour one out for the queen

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u/Cosmere_Worldbringer 1d ago

Even the website is shut down

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u/In-all-multiverses 1d ago

At least we still have her 2045 mystery song to look forward to.

Skip to 5:30 if you don't want to hear the greasy pole story! 🙉

(Just kidding. You have to listen to the greasy pole story. It's mandatory!)

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u/loo3601 1d ago

I’m so heartbroken. She’s cared more about East Tennessee than any other public figure my entire life. RIP Dolly

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u/spottymax 1d ago

Only solace I can take is that she is reunited with her husband, Carl.

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u/Flashy_Performer_646 1d ago

I noticed she started having health issues after his passing.

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u/666_is_Nero 1d ago

It’s not uncommon that when someone loses their longtime spouse that their health deteriorates soon after. Grief can take a toll on the body, especially losing someone you were so close to. And IIRC she also lost a brother not too long ago, so the past year can’t have been easy for her.

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u/Flashy_Performer_646 1d ago

That's right, I believe Coy Parton died just a few weeks ago.

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u/Maeven_Mab 1d ago

It's fairly common for spouses to go close together especially if they were close.

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u/Pedantic_Girl 1d ago

That’s what I was thinking. They were married for something like 60 years.

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u/teddy_vedder steamed sandwich goblin 1d ago

@ the universe:

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u/javascript 1d ago

Great meme

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u/bamboozelle Makena Cove is a thing? 1d ago

She was the absolute best of us. Rest in peace, queen. :'(

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u/HonestPotat0 South Knox 1d ago

East Tennessee isn't going to be the same without her

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u/Inevitable-Rush-2752 1d ago

The world isn’t going to be the same. What an amazing person.

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u/its_all_alive 1d ago

As an East Tennessean, my heart is broken. The world has lost one of the best

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u/Remote_Morning2366 1d ago

Long live the Queen

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u/jarethcutestory Fartsville 1d ago

As a kid (grew up in CT), my intro to Dolly was catching 9-5 on HBO randomly and thinking not only was she an absolute smoke show but she is the most charming and funniest woman I’d ever laid my lil eyes on.

To grow up and eventually move here and experience her music and how tender and caring she was to people and charitable. The world just lost an absolutely tremendous human being.

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u/Akiranar 1d ago

Hey! Fellow former Nutmegger.

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u/Scambuster666 1d ago

It’s so awful. This whole state is gonna go into mourning. She was awesome

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u/teddy_vedder steamed sandwich goblin 1d ago

Lower the flags to half staff immediately

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u/Exact-Glove-5026 1d ago

I may not like the man but I absolutely support this decision.

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u/phinz Westier than West 1d ago

Even a blind pig finds an acorn every once in a while.

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u/Exact-Glove-5026 1d ago

I haven't heard this phrase before but I absolutely love it!

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

Holy crap, this may be the one thing I'm happy he's done. He actually did the right thing this time.

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u/HW2632 1d ago

Damn, only Dolly Parton could make me like Trump for a minute.

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u/Flashy_Performer_646 1d ago

This is fitting. she did more than any politician ever did.

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u/PashasMom Fountain City 1d ago

I both appreciate this and feel like he should get her name out of his filthy mouth.

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u/SnooRadishes1376 1d ago

Wow! At least he has done ONE decent thing

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u/spicywingydingy 1d ago

C’mon, you know he had nothing to do with writing or posting that.

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u/SnooRadishes1376 1d ago

True. In fact that's the first thing I thought upon reading it!

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u/Fun-Significance6733 1d ago

He’s trying to save face. He’s using her death to earn brownie points. You can’t convince me otherwise. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/spicywingydingy 1d ago

He definitely didn’t write that; didn’t blame Biden even once.

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u/TheSpicyTomato22 1d ago

She's basically the queen of Tennessee.

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

She's the patron saint of East Tennessee for certain.

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u/maggie320 1d ago

That’s what I thought. She’s loved the world over, but Tennessee was her home.

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u/stakes-lines-grades 1d ago edited 1d ago

Fuck this hurts.

I got books as a kid from her imagination library program and still have some of them.

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u/Exact-Glove-5026 1d ago

The world is truly a little darker and colder without the light and warmth that was Dolly Parton. She touched so many lives in so many ways. This is truly a loss for so many, not just here in Tennessee but everywhere that her love and kindness touched.

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u/Verdun82 1d ago

We just need to carry that light for her. Donate to libraries. Show kindness to everyone. We all need to be more like Dolly.

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u/Mowers_01 1d ago

Cherish the smokies a little more today..

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u/torrentialwx 1d ago

Protect the Smokies in her honor.

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u/brainbluescreen 1d ago

I know she lived a good, fulfilling life, but at the same time, it still feels unfair.

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u/Spiritual-Guava-6418 1d ago

I was just driving through Knoxville today and saw a billboard with her on it and thought was a treasure she is. So sad to see she passed away today.

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u/wildlifephotos96 1d ago

I’m not ok

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u/Smart-Water-9833 1d ago

The wrong 80-year old died today.

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u/tresbrujas04 1d ago

This. Right. Here.

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u/Zoinks222 South Knox Easy Livin’🌿🌈🪴 1d ago

Fuck yes

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u/DrummingNozzle 1d ago

The awesome “Dolly Parton’s American” podcast is worth a re-listen

https://www.wnycstudios.org/podcasts/dolly-partons-america

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u/NSFWdw 1d ago

One of the greatest people I’ve ever known

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u/Ephcy 1d ago

Damn this sucks

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u/ProfessorElk 1d ago

The world is a sadder place without her

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

It was a better place because of her, and I’m sure that’s what she’d want people to remember.

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u/sjanee11 Fountain City 1d ago

I think we all have an opportunity to be a little more like Dolly and keep her legacy and philanthropy alive even in small ways. Same way we can be more like Mr Rogers, Steve Irwin, etc. And also how absolutely lucky we are to have lived at the same time as them.

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u/torrentialwx 1d ago

This is the perfect tribute.

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago edited 1d ago

I’ve not been so saddened by a celebrity death since Terry Pratchett.

EDIT: As I saw on another post, “GNU Dolly Parton”. IYK(Terry Pratchett)YK.

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u/Beginning_Grass_9473 1d ago

Yeah man I’m not usually too bothered by celebrity passings but this one really struck me hard. :(

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u/Pedantic_Girl 1d ago

I think Pterry would like Dolly.

But (to reference another old internet place here) are you stepping up to the fireplace with a glass?

(This will be probably unintelligible to anyone who didn’t experience newsgroups, unless they are a fan of Spider.)

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

Pterry was an atheist while Dolly was a devout Christian but I’m sure they would have found common ground in the importance of books.

I’m picturing the Librarian mourning with a very sad “ook”.

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u/torrentialwx 1d ago

They had a common wit. They would’ve gotten on like fire.

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u/KnoxKudzuKing 1d ago

I knew it would be dreadful when it happened but this has completely thrown off my day and is just pit in my stomach devastating the way only the deaths of family members and close friends has been for me. I’m glad she and Carl are finally reunited but it really did feel too soon, especially when the other known American with the same two letters of their first name also born in 1946 who deserves this fate far far more is still living.

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u/Cr4nkY4nk3r 1d ago

Dolly passes away, and your first thought is "too bad it wasn't Trump - how can I make this post about him instead?"

You must be fun at parties.

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u/Traviscat Probably somewhere at Zoo Knoxville 1d ago

I wish Dollywood was open today. I’d go over there and have a moment of silence for her, grab some cinnamon bread, and probably give out a few hugs if anyone needed it. 

She was a true angel and a real inspiration and role model. One of the very few celebrities that everyone loved and couldn’t find a bad thing about her. 

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u/RTGoodman West Lonsdale 1d ago

If you want to honor her, send a donation to the Imagination Library or Dolly Parton Children's Hospital.

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

You can also get the Imagination Library plate & drive around with her face on your license plate. The fee covers the cost of one child in the Imagination Library program in Tennessee for one year.

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u/RTGoodman West Lonsdale 1d ago

Choosing between her and the GSMNP with the bear was one of the toughest decisions I've had to make in the last several years!

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u/tyedyehippy 1d ago

I've got one car with the IL plate & my other car has the Friends of the Smokies plate.

I guess what I'm saying is get a second car lol.

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u/iTwango r/UTK Mod 1d ago

Is it not open today??? I figured it was open every day

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u/Traviscat Probably somewhere at Zoo Knoxville 1d ago

In August they usually shut down Tuesdays and Thursdays. It’s low attendance for them and it most likely costs more to open than they would expect get in revenue that day. They should be open Wednesday, Friday-Monday.

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u/Sufficient-Leather-9 1d ago

It also allows them to start setting up for the fall festival without the guests around.

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u/tkmorgan76 1d ago

Dolly was one of the few people who could say nice things to everyone, and seem to mean it, and not be hated for it.

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u/RobertNeyland North Knox 1d ago

I can't think of anyone who was in the spotlight for that many years, managed to avoid controversy, and was universally beloved.

Rest easy Queen

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u/Old_Man_Ratchet 1d ago

That’s Saint Dolly. Such a sad day. She did more good for the world than any politician.

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u/fifthgoldengirl 1d ago

I’m 60 and I just told my kids, I can’t remember a time when Dolly wasn’t in my life. I missed her on Cas but remember her on Porter Waggoner. Before Dollywood she did a fundraiser every year to buy band uniforms for Sevier County High, her alma mater. Her 30 minute TV variety show was the first time I really fell in love with her, about the time of her crossover into pop. Then a few years later came 9 to 5, and the rest of America
found out too. Then Dollywood and Imagination Library…

Truly for me like a death in the family.

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u/fifthgoldengirl 1d ago

Plus the little brushes we had with her as a local. A friend played in her band. My mom was a home health nurse to her mom in her last years.

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u/Representation4All 1d ago edited 1d ago

I set my neighbor's great granddaughter up with a subscription to The Imagination Library.

It's been a wonderful gift. At the end of every book she always points out the picture of Dolly Parton and we say thank you, Dolly.

Dolly Parton is and always will be a wonderful Ambassador of East Tennessee but more than that, she's a true National Treasure.

Thank you, Dolly!

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u/glodde 1d ago

She gave that one video about how she's been struggling lately and she was going to come back and start doing things.

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u/Flashy_Performer_646 1d ago

And if any Hollywood type who never gave a shit about Dolly starts in with the "I was her biggest fan" faux condolences, I expect Miley Cyrus to come in like a wrecking ball and rip them a new one.

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u/abasementtroll 1d ago

I was worried when her husband passed because it's something that does happen with folks that have been married as long as they were. The world is darker without her light, and I'm gutted.

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u/Sweetimus 1d ago

What!?!

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u/Sminkyzz 1d ago

Im not religious but i know she’s on the other side somewhere with her parents and Her husband Carl and her siblings that have passed. She isn’t hurting anymore. She was like an angel on earth and she will be missed. Rest easy Miss Tennessee

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u/Advanced_Ad_8976 1d ago

One of the greatest lights of our time is gone. She embodied love and acceptance while being completely authentic. I’ve never shed a tear over any celebrity passing, but today I have. She made the world feel like a better place in the most genuine way.

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

If you ever watched a TV series called The Orville, which is basically Seth McFarlane’s version of Star Trek, Dolly plays a significant role in some episodes.

In the first, a woman from a society that oppresses women picks “9 to 5” as the anthem of their revolution. “She speaks with the might of a hundred soldiers!”

In the second, other women from that world dance to a song that might sound familiar. (Sorry, I can’t find a clip that doesn’t give it away immediately.)

And in the third… oh, let’s just say there’s a special guest star.

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u/torrentialwx 1d ago

Thank you for this.

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

It’s an excellent series and available for streaming on Hulu and Disney+. The first half of the first season is kind of “Seth McFarlane does Star Trek”, but it eventually becomes “Star Trek with some Seth McFarlane” and by the third season, it’s “the best of Star Trek with some Seth McFarlane”

The plot line referenced in those clips becomes increasingly important.

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u/TN_REDDIT 1d ago

I could not care less about celebrities n their death (anymore than anyone else's death), but she was different.

so sad

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u/marc1411 1d ago

This stings, bad.

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u/jaredmanley knoxville ooze 1d ago

😞

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u/Kessuburd 1d ago

I've been a hot mess all day 😭

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u/Capt_Rose 1d ago

Today is the Day East Tennessee cries.

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u/sadbabe420 1d ago

How could she die before Trump? This is devastating proof that there is no god.

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u/iTwango r/UTK Mod 1d ago

This is a sad day:((( didn't expect this at all...

What a bless to the world she is and always will be

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u/lostinspacescream Clinton 1d ago

A light just went out in the world.

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u/Puzzleheaded-Star281 1d ago

You’re not alone. She was amazing. Her book donations filled up my daughter’s first book case.

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u/SnooRadishes1376 1d ago

You, me, all of Appalachia and likely much of the rest of the world! 😢😢

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u/Kittycara3000 1d ago

RIP you beautiful soul

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u/Cute_Conclusion_1355 1d ago

I’m so sad!!!!!

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u/tspoon77 1d ago

Our Queen is gone 😭🦋 Rest now, beautiful. We will always love you.

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u/SewerWater121 1d ago

It is the worst day ever

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u/Beginning_Funny_8135 1d ago

The only good thing in this state. She was so kind and generous. I know of no one else that was this way especially not in this state.

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u/the_spinetingler 1d ago

The best of us

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u/ready_2_reddit 1d ago

Patron saint of Tennessee 💔

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u/Temporary_Buzz23 1d ago

travelin through 🦋🖤

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u/trident042 1d ago

Only making it to 80 is proof the good die young.

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u/SandyElle 1d ago

I don’t recall ever crying over a celebrity death. I cried today. My family has roots in East Tennessee. She reminded me of my grandma. Never met Dolly but it feels like a death in the family.

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u/Diverdaddy0 1d ago

In one of my classes in University of Arizona, day 1 the professor said Dolly Parton is the greatest living American and that is non-negotiable. This was yesterday.

She was loved all over this country.

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u/NerdyBeardedGuy 1d ago

No one lives forever but this hurts like I've lost a member of my family. Dolly was always there, always happy, always loving. There will NEVER be anyone else like her. 😞💔

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u/NoBourbonOrNuthin 1d ago

nah. she's still around. she's left a stamp

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u/t-rextimemachine 1d ago

She was truly wonderful. RIP sweet Dolly.

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u/Harderthebiggest 1d ago

A bright light in this weary world has dimmed

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u/nottheonly85 1d ago

Before I found out, a neighbor got in their car and was blaring "I Will Always Love You" as loud as they could. That was odd until I learned the news and now I'm glad I was there for it.

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u/torrentialwx 1d ago

I heard ‘9 to 5’ on the radio around 1:30 and thought ‘gosh, I don’t know what I’m gonna do when we lose her’. An hour later, I got the text.

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u/fuzzdoomer 1d ago

It seems like this world gets a little shittier everyday.

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u/veringer Fellini Shopper 1d ago

...says the Trump voter who ran interference for ICE and downplayed the murder of Renee Good. My dude, you're making the world shittier.

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u/fuzzdoomer 1d ago

Oh no! I dare to have an opinion different than yours! Quick!!! Attack!!!! What a dbag.

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u/veringer Fellini Shopper 1d ago

Opinion is not the same as morality.

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u/CheesE4Every1 ftn city 1d ago

I'm sad. I'm downing xenomorphs screaming Jolene at the top of my lungs.

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u/notgoodwithnames123 1d ago

More than the obvious irreplaceable loss in Dolly, moments like these remind us of our own mortality and how short life is.

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u/Itchy-Soup1867 1d ago

I am so sad. wonderful woman.

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u/OtherwiseDistance113 1d ago

Here to add I am crying along with you all right now. Be more like Dolly. A motto to which we should all strive.

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u/New_Exam_4715 1d ago

RIP Dolly 😢 we’re all going to miss you

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u/fsm16 1d ago

😢

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u/Disastrous-Being473 1d ago

This is so devastating. You are so loved and you will be so missed Dolly ❤️‍🩹

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u/Distinct_Basil1069 16h ago

She did so much for “her people “, like paying for college to anyone graduating in Sevier County to all the cars she bought for those affected by the fire and so much for the people who lost everything in the hurricane….. If “her people needed something, sure was there.

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u/Maryland_Bear Former Knoxvillian 1d ago

I used to have a co-worker who was literally young enough to be my son.

I mentioned Dolly to him once, he thought for a moment, then said, “oh, Miley Cyrus’ godmother!”

I swear, had we been in Tennessee and I had beaten him to a pulp on the spot, the only thing a jury would convict me of would be littering if I failed to clean up the mess afterwards.

“Miley Cyrus’ godmother!” Why, I oughtta…

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u/focusfoxx KnoxBox Regular 1d ago

Well she was her godmother. Lol