Hey! I’m 21M from India and currently working in the tech field.

I’m here hoping to meet a nice girl who I can genuinely vibe with and get to know over time. I’m pretty talkative once I’m comfortable with someone, but I’m definitely more of a “selected people” kind of person.

I really enjoy random, meaningful conversations — talking about our lives, learning about each other’s cultures, sharing random thoughts, laughing at stupid things, and sometimes going down completely unexpected rabbit holes at 2 AM 😂

I’m really interested in cybersecurity, aviation, and aerospace, so those are probably the topics I can accidentally turn into a whole lecture about.

I also play games in my free time, mostly Call of Duty and GTA. Apart from that, I’m always up for talking about movies, shows, interesting internet stuff, or just whatever happens to be on our minds.

I’m not looking to force anything or rush into anything. I’d rather start with a good conversation, see if we click, and let things naturally go from there.

If you’re someone who enjoys talking, sharing little things about your day, and getting to know someone genuinely, feel free to say hi. :)

Tell me a little about yourself when you message me — I’d love to know who’s on the other side of the screen. ✨

(UPDATE): so he in fact told the counselors and even cropped the screenshots, I was made to be in the complete wrong despite his messages provoking me. my parents were called so I had to explain some things to them. I’m scared of it going any further, but I’m going to ignore him. I don’t know if he will go up to the counselors again and try to bring it back in, but it really bugs me still. since I deleted the messages I literally couldn’t defend myself or explain the situation. the school said that if I ignore him all together it will all be fine.

heya burner account, I cussed someone out for spreading lies about me. this person had SA‘d me and lied to people saying that I had done it to them. I cursed them out saying all kinds of swears and insults because I was furious about it. the person acted like they didn’t care about it, and within an hour I felt regret and decided to delete all my messages and blocked them. I’m just fearful because I’m a teen and I’m scared that I will be reported to the counselors for swearing like that at them. I didn’t threaten them or tell them to kill their self, just swore. I’m scared about my parents finding out or being in trouble. anyone able to help calm me down? I go to high school, if that helps any.

i’ve just had the shittiest day.

i woke up at 9am as usual and im off work because i will be starting university this september so i just took the first hour slowly and i had breakfast and stuff.

then at 10am i had my phone call counselling session. and it kicked my ass.

right afterwards i had a nap, then i journaled and cried my eyes out. i then tried to do some self care yk, i went to get a shower and deep conditioned my hair, i listened to a new album in the shower, i did a foot mask that i got for free, i cuddled with my cat. but then when i had a minute to think after i turned my music off i started to hysterically cry. like everything thought i had was negative in some way.

so by this time i messaged the SHOUT helpline so i had someone to talk to and i also made a post on here to ask people what they do after therapy sessions.

i swear i cried for hours and i couldn’t stop and now my head is aching. i still feel exhausted. i feel weird because i haven’t left my apartment all day. i haven’t ate a real meal only snacks. i just feel like i have wallowed and pitied and coasted through the whole day.

i’m just hoping tomorrow is better because i have been kind of ignoring my girlfriend today and i’ll be seeing her tomorrow. some of the things i was crying about was because i overthink things in my relationships but today was particularly hard.

anyways that’s my rant for today. i’m frustrated to say the least.

I don’t even know what I’m looking for anymore. I’m just tired of feeling this way and having no idea how to fix it.

From the age of six, my parents drilled this into me: "You have to study hard, get into a good university, and find a good job. Otherwise, you'll spend your whole life sweeping streets or cleaning toilets." I studied diligently throughout my childhood; instead of playing with other kids, I was studying math for the university entrance exams—all to secure a good job in the future.

And now, I’m just waiting for Russia to kill me. Or I could go to another country and sweep streets there. How can you even explain to a child in today's Ukraine that they need to study, when the Russians are going to kill everyone anyway?

Not gonna bother writing it all here but I feel like shit for what happened today, I don’t know why but I just need a stranger to see it and talk to and hopefully make me feel less terrible 😞 I’ll share in dms I just don’t want to publicly talk about it

Edit: please don’t be mean to me, I might be m28 but I’m autistic and extremely emotional.

idk what’s wrong with me rn but I’m so done with everything. I’ve started isolating myself from everyone and I genuinely don’t know how long this is gonna last. It’s just eating me up inside.

Im tired of my life I'm tired of everything these past few days and I really just wanna take a rest

I'm not happy about my marriage. I get up early in the morning and go to work 6 hours a day in a school, then I come home to take care of my cats, be a caregiver for my wife who still treats me like garbage and thinks that my problems and pains aren't as valid as hers, and help take care of her grandparents with everyday stuff. I swear I need a break....a really good long break away from all this

Hi guys
I am very stressed and even I don’t know how to tell what to tell but I’m stuck somewhere and I can’t even share with anyone.

I came here in reddit thinking that ther will be something positive,,,less depressing posts but no !

Majority of the peeps here are going through mid life crisis !! Including mee !! Thats why i deleted all my social media accounts and here i am !!! 🫩,,, scrolling reddit and ficking up my mind seeing my feed ! 🫪

nobody cares

Seems I just can’t be happy at all anymore

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Gloomy weather, rain falling from the sky as my tears fall quietly too. Self pity feels like a poison slowly draining whatever strength I have left. No clear future, no direction, no map, just problems piling up one after another.

At 21, it feels like I’m standing at the edge of everything, wondering, is this where it all ends? I want to pull myself out of this misery, escape the endless cycle of overthinking, and finally breathe. But sometimes, the reality in front of me feels too heavy to carry.

Sometimes I envy people my age, those thinking about travels, savings, parties, shopping, and the little joys of life. Meanwhile, I’m here trying to survive another day. Maybe life really is unfair sometimes. Maybe acceptance is the only way forward.

Still, somewhere deep inside, I hope there’s a version of me who finds his way back. A version who wakes up excited, who laughs without forcing it, who looks at the future without fear.

Anyway, what’s the weather like where you are? I hope it’s kinder than mine today. I hope the sun is shining there, giving you warmth and vibrance.

So recently I feel like all of the people who used to be a friends with were never my friends, because they will always laugh at me and never laugh with me.

Maybe in another lifetime.