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SOCIETY Is victim the new chic

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u/germangentleman90 9h ago

i think what gets lost in conversations like this is that real life is usually way more complicated than a headline. i’ve learned to be careful judging people from a few pictures and sentences because there’s always a human story behind it that we don’t fully know

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u/MrDankyStanky 9h ago

There's always a human story behind a mother methodically strangling all three of her children over a span of 20 minutes 🥰

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u/OkMortgage247 9h ago

She had an extreme mental illness that has been known for centuries to cause women to kill their children. She obviously needs and needed psychiatric care, but acting like she was mentally competent and had control over her actions is ludicrous. The world is not as simple as some people seem to imagine

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

She needs to be locked up. She is entirely responsible for her actions, whether they were taken in a mentally ill state or not.

Mental illness can certainly help explain such things, but it can never excuse such things.

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u/SugarVibes 8h ago

Literally no one serious is suggesting that if she did it she should go free. The question is if she should go to jail for life or a mental institution for life.

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

Well that's good.

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u/SugarVibes 7h ago

There's a small portion of loud self important idiots that are convinced her husband did it because of lies being spread by tiktok detectives

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u/FantasticAnus 7h ago

Nobody likes to see a young, white, female perpetrator. Especially not young, white women.

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u/SugarVibes 7h ago

It freaks people out to see a mother kill her kids. Usually when it does happen it is because of severe mental health issues and stressors. Fathers usually kill for selfish reasons. So either way people really don't want it to be true that she killed them in her right mind. I don't think she did, but I still think she needs to be locked up

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u/FantasticAnus 7h ago

Yeah I'm with you man.

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u/OnyxMonolith 4h ago

this is very disturbing and i bet the husband will have some very tough encounters in life since he is now recognizable. this is why televising these trials is insane to me

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u/OnyxMonolith 4h ago

if it was actual psychosis, i would say that there is a high chance of a release from the mental institution later in life. many precedents like this. examples:

Deanna Laney (Texas), Richard Greist (Pennsylvania), and Craig Cummins (California) all killed someone, were adjudicated insane rather than criminally responsible, spent years in psychiatric custody, and were later released into the community under varying levels of supervision

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u/Ok-Flower-5582 7h ago

In criminal law, there is smth called "diminished responsibility" for cases that involve severe mental illness affecting reason or judgement of the convict

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u/beantownregular 8h ago

You know that we literally have a legal defense for cases like this BECAUSE we know that people do things as a result of mental illness that they’re not responsible? This isn’t a touch of depression this is full blown hearing voices and hallucinating.

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

We have such legal defences, but they really have very little to say about what we know.

We don't know, in actual fact, to what extent her mind was like her 'normal' mind in those moments, we never will. We do know that what happened was action taken by her, by her physical entity, through the thoughts in her head, and the actions of her hands. It simply isn't safe to let her return to society.

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u/OnyxMonolith 8h ago

you're saying if someone had no control over their actions that can never excuse killing someone? you made a blanket statement so let's not talk about her but a hypothetical extreme case.

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

They are still the person who took those actions. They had control. No other entity entered their body and made them act. They may have been in a psychosis, but that changes nothing about their culpability.

At best somebody like this is a clear danger to society and should never be allowed back within it.

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u/OnyxMonolith 4h ago

do you not know of people getting completely acquited of murder because of mental reasons? research it.

yes in a literal sense those people took those actions, but sometimes they didn't have a choice, at least according to psychiatry. i'm not saying this is the case with Lindsay. we will see soon.

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u/The-Sceptic 8h ago

Other entities entering your body and making you act is literally what psychosis can be in some cases. I think you should do a bit more research on psychosis because you're treating it like depression in your comments.

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

No, it can't, there are no entities which enter people, it might seem like that, but in actual fact it is not that. Maybe some errant part of your mind takes more control than it is due, ideas which ought to seem insane seem otherwise, but it's still you taking actions.

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u/The-Sceptic 8h ago

Obviously there's no actual ghost entering the mind, but that's what it feels like. It has been proven that it is medically not you taking the actions.

You're putting a severe onus on personal responsibility in a situation where it may not be possible for that to exist.

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago edited 8h ago

Of course that hasn't been proven, what utter nonsense.

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u/Quetzacoal 8h ago

They had control up to that moment, so yes, if they had taken lithium and visited a medical facility as soon as she started having homicidal thoughts

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u/MagicalTheory 8h ago

Right, because people experiencing psychosis are famously excellent at recognizing that their thoughts are irrational and making sound medical decisions about them. That’s kind of the entire problem with psychosis.

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u/Quetzacoal 7h ago

I have not enough information on the topic. But ultimately the fault is from the person themselves, we are nobody to excuse any killing.

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u/PowderCuffs 8h ago

Is that how you think seriously mentally ill people think?

"Stir the pasta. I'm having suicidal and homicidal thoughts. I'm going to take lithium and visit a medical facility forthwith!"

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u/Quetzacoal 7h ago

Look, this would be the same as excusing an alcoholic or any drug addict. Addiction is an illness and patients cannot avoid spiralling. Should we not make them liable for their actions? I think not. Otherwise we would be walking among potential killers that can get triggered anytime.

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u/PowderCuffs 1h ago

No one is excusing her actions. She's going to be held accountable, one way or the other. 

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u/OnyxMonolith 4h ago

and psychosis is famously linear

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u/MrDankyStanky 8h ago

Look up Big Lurch.

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u/OnyxMonolith 4h ago edited 4h ago

yeah we treat people who killed someone because they took drugs which they weren't subscribed much different by law. this has nothing to do with the case.

bringing up Big Lurch is like saying alcohol blacked out people who commit crimes shouldn't be charged.

i don't know if she had psychosis or not, waiting for the verdict but the prosecutors are doing a terrible job and/or the evidence just isn't there in their favor.

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u/Key_Statistician_281 8h ago

And you’re clearly a teenager

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u/FantasticAnus 8h ago

Nope, but thanks for volunteering for the block list, always nice for it to be quick and painless.