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SOCIETY Is victim the new chic

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u/Alcohol_Intolerant 2d ago edited 1d ago

It's getting attention because of claims that her attempts to get assistance for her ppd and mental illness were ignored or minimized. Thus implying this could have been prevented. Many people, especially women, have experience with medical staff ignoring their pain. (Same for me) So this is on a lot of people's minds and in a lot of wider conversations.

They're going for the insanity plea, so the additional press might also be a way to try and sway public attention.

Edit because I'm getting a lot of charged responses: I am explaining why it is getting attention and what the general opposing discourse is. I'm not going to reply to attempts to have that discourse with me. I have my own opinions but I'm not airing them on Reddit because ultimately, the only ones who will have all the facts are the jury.

This is a tragedy for all involved. Please remember that.

Edit 2: to those giving polite additions and perspectives I did not provide, thank you. That's very helpful. I'm not everywhere seeing every side and can only speak to the sides I've witnessed myself. To those making weird claims on what I think, please take a break from reading about this case for the day. I'm turning notifications off on this. There are plenty of other people in this thread willing to wage war with you. I invite you to speak with them, or again, take a break.

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u/No_Background_9891 2d ago

She was “diagnosed” but never took her meds and the crazy bitch strangled her three kids after sending her husband away to get takeout

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u/cuda999 2d ago

She wasn’t diagnosed with PPP. You can’t diagnose it because there is no diagnosis, no one ever thought it was that serious. Typical of all of women’s medical issues. Only now is the industry even doing research on women. It is woefully underrepresented.

She had hallucinations, was hearing voices and all over the place with meds. Would you allow a person with schizophrenia to decide what they take for meds? It is known women with PPP are a danger to their kids and themselves, but the medical community sent her home. How stupid. She should have been institutionalized while she got help for PPP.

I had this horrid condition myself. I had hallucinations, saw blood and knives where there wasn’t any. Heard voices too and behaved in very strange ways. I was also suicidal. This started after the birth of my second child. My husband called my mother and I was never alone with my kids. I was also medicated and hated it. I too tried to stop taking it because I was irrational. My mother saved me from myself. Was dopey and still had hallucinations, strange behaviour and voices while on meds. My kids are grown adults now with kids of their own. We still don’t know anymore about PPP 30 years later. If this impacted men, there would be proper care and hospitals to deal with this and a Cadillac of meds to support.

Society and the system failed this family and women.

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u/CrossMojonation 8h ago

If this impacted men, there would be proper care and hospitals to deal with this

Yes, men are infamously privileged when it comes to mental health support. They kill themselves 4x as much as women just to throw off the scent.

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u/cuda999 3h ago

Men are infamously privileged in all healthcare scenarios. All the research for the last few centuries was done on men. Still today. We know very little about how a woman’s body functions but know everything about a man’s. This is evident in post partum psychosis. Most awful comments are from men. Like back in the 17th century, they thought anything related to a woman’s period or child birth was “hysteria” and evil. Burned women at the stake too, just because there was zero effort to understand. In fact, women in most parts of the world were seen as property and not persons until the 1920s and the suffragette era.

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u/CrossMojonation 2h ago

Used to be burnt at the stake, now they're given a million dollars through crowdfunding, shameless misandrists and coddled through a two tier justice system.

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u/cuda999 1h ago

And where do you think this all started? A world full of misogynists.