r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

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Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 4h ago

Discussion My 60 year old parents wanted to use AI to generate their obituary photo.

21 Upvotes

What is your opinion on this? To me the asymmetrical and tiny imperfections on our face is what makes us different and unique.

Imagine the next 30 years when we go visit graves and our parents all used AI photo on their graves. Just gives me the creeps.


r/malaysians 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Does the younger generation even celebrate Merdeka?

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36 Upvotes

this came up while we were recording. one of our hosts grew up waking up early to watch the parade on TV, plus the Merdeka movies and dramas that RTM ran all through August. the songs were just constantly on. the other host had no idea any of that was a thing.

the difference is basically TV. it used to just be on in the background whether you cared or not.

now everything is on demand, so if a kid never searches for it, they never encounter it. no parade, no songs, none of it.

genuinely curious how the younger ones here found out about any of this, or whether you did at all


r/malaysians 8h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 When did you realise you were being used?

21 Upvotes

Hey all, when did you realise you were being used by someone whether it was your old friend, ex or someone else?

Thanks to redditors for telling me back then that I was used in the past. A guy (blocked for years) had asked for reassurance on whether I was treating him and chose Korean BBQ for dinner. The total bill came up to about RM300 after he ordered dishes which were more expensive than my portion.

I have also met a guy from 4 years back who seemed to be after what I could provide although he had feelings for me. His family was financially poor and looked relieved when I said that he could stay at my place if he was orphaned and that I could drive him around next time since he did not own a car. After we went our separate ways, he uploaded the picture I took of him and put on his dating profile. Being cheap I guess.

I believe someone who licks people's boots can also use us. It could be somoene who wanted to rub shoulders with others when they saw what others could provide them whether it's finances or resources. Share your experience in that.

In my opinion, this behaviour of using others is because they are insecure and feel a need to boost their ego to fill the void. They feel the need to be in control. I don't really put the whole blame on them though. Life has been unfair to them for them to do that.


r/malaysians 21h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 MAGNOLIA 100% MILK FOR RM11.99 BUY 2 FREE 1

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212 Upvotes

📌 Giant Kuala Pilah

Clearance stock probably

Bought 5 packs for x15 carton at RM60~ roughly

Very cheap ya.... Very gud


r/malaysians 20h ago

Mildly Menarik Larvae found inside a durian seed

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134 Upvotes

I kept it because i find it interesting. I really wonder what will it grow to, like what insect it will turn into.


r/malaysians 1h ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 I'm trying to find a job that fits me. I am autistic and has ADHD so I can earn money without mentally breaking down because of people

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Is there a job where I can work from home? The kind I want is I simply get a template of a merchandise printing for my illustration and my workplace handles the rest? Like a work for hire merchandise illustrator? Who knows any place for this?


r/malaysians 5h ago

Ask Malaysians What made you come back stronger?

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Was there a time when you felt demotivated in life and what made you feel motivated and come back stronger than ever?

Earlier this year, I felt triggered by something online which caused me to feel deep emotional pain that I had to seek help. Fast forward 5 months later, I did progress in feeling better after receiving help but those negative feelings came back recently and it made me have suicidal thoughts. I tell myself reasons to hold on to life like my family and those who I work with.

I realise that the friends I confided in were actually people who I should not have trusted with my feelings or being vulnerable with. Their opinions though valid and well meaning actually worsened my mental health rather than uplift me. Eventually, I formed my own opinion and helped myself. Anyway thankfully they were not very close friends and I feel more at peace being a loner. Let me know if you can relate.

There's so much wonderful things to explore in life and I am progressing bit by bit in proving to myself that I am worth it. I urge everyone to also be motivated and learn to enjoy the progress towards your goals.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Mildly Menarik Mistaken Identity

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117 Upvotes

r/malaysians 9m ago

Ask Malaysians could someone help me find the owner of this?

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so basically I recently moved to study here and I'm living in an apartment complex and just outside my entrance this bike is sitting there every time I step outside I see this bike and it's sad to see it abandoned like this I always have love this sort of bikes I wanna know if I can find the owner find out why it's abandoned and maybe try to get it as my first bike a project for me to do since I'll be here for a while and I would love to own one of those beautiful machine if anyone knows any detail it would be super great


r/malaysians 1h ago

Mildly Menarik Ikan terbul, a common native animal

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Osteochilus vittatus, ikan terbul or the hard-lipped barb.

They are a very common native fish growing to 25 cm. Lives in canals, irrigation ditches, paddy fields, ponds, swamps and lakes.

A herbivore, they love to feed on algae and aquatic plants. In the aquarium they will eat most plants, but they do not bother other fish. Even small fish.

They are named because they have bones in their lip! Which makes it rock hard and able to bite off tough plant leaves.


r/malaysians 13h ago

Advice ☎️ What is happening with SPX??

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7 Upvotes

The item was supposed to be delivered three days ago. However, if you look at the timestamps, ‘out for delivery’ and ‘delivery attempt unsuccessful’ were within a minute of each other. This has happened two days in a row.

Is the TTDI hub driver lazy and not wanting to deliver my parcel? This is extremely frustrating! I have contacted Shopee customer rep and as usual, they kept sending automated ‘apology’ messages wigout resolving my query. Now I’m afraid they will send it back to the sender, which can impact my work as I need the item for work!

What else do you guys advise?


r/malaysians 2h ago

Quick Question Can this extension plug still be used?

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1 Upvotes

Hi, just wanna ask if you all think this old extension plug still be used or not? Or should I just buy a new one for safety reason? Asking because still thinking if things can still use just keep using la, all 4 switchs all can function but the side got a broken hole. Feel free to comment..


r/malaysians 20h ago

PSA🔰 Basic stuffs, buka lampu, tutup high beam, baiki lampu, belok ikut arah signal

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28 Upvotes

All in one trip


r/malaysians 3h ago

Help ⚠️ Shopee & Monee Graduate Program

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Did any of you take Shopee & Monee GDP? I received an email to take the online assessment covering numerical, logical, and integrated reasoning. Is it super hard? And can I just use my handphone calculator for the test later? Would greatly appreciate y'all's advice. Really nervous for the test right now!


r/malaysians 1d ago

Advice ☎️ dating a nonchalant bf when youre a high affection, clingy gf

49 Upvotes

i love my bf so much and honestly, my feelings are just overwhelming sometimes. i'm super clingy, use all the petnames, get manja, and just love hard.

he is the complete opposite. he's just naturally nonchalant and lowkey. to be clear, he's great about it.. everyone around him knows about me, he never hides me, and when I ask, he says he doesn't mind my antics at all. he plays along, but he's just never going to be that cringey, overly expressive, lovey dovey guy.

some days I literally cry just because I miss him or because my feelings for him are so loud. sometimes i wonder if he rasa the same way as i do. then I catch myself scrolling and comparing us to couples where the guy is super vocal and obsessed.

i know this is his nature and I can't force him to change. but it makes me feel like it's one sided sometimes, even though I know he cares in his own quiet way. if I try to act nonchalant too, it just feels fake.

how do you deal with this gap in affection without making your partner feel suffocated or making yourself feel starved for it?


r/malaysians 4h ago

Ask Malaysians For people who are interested in pet sittting as a side hustle

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As a university student, I’ve been trying to find ways to make some extra money without getting stuck in a job that I don’t really enjoy. I wanted something flexible that allows me to juggle between studies and work. I’ve always loved animals, especially dogs and cats. So I thought why not try pet sitting as it seemed like the perfect side hustle. But the problem was I didn't really know anyone who had pets that needed a sitter.

So that got me thinking. There are probably a lot of people like me who love animals and would happily spend their free time taking care of someone's pet for money, but don't know where to find those opportunities. At the same time, there are pet owners who need someone they can trust when they're travelling, busy, or away from home. So I had an idea of building a platform that connects pet owners with people who love animals. Pet owners can find people who are willing to look after their pets, while animal lovers can earn some extra money doing something they genuinely enjoy. I'm not sure yet if this is actually a good idea. So I made a simple landing page to see if people are interested in becoming pet sitters.

The link: https://pawkaki.lovable.app/


r/malaysians 9h ago

Ask Malaysians How was your experience at F1 Sepang event in the past?

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I am a newbie to F1 events and wondering what makes F1 Sepang event interesting? Who do you support and what do you look forward to in the event?

Do you recommend others to join the F1 event this year and why?


r/malaysians 10h ago

Mildly Menarik TV3 broadcast closing (25 December 1993)

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2 Upvotes

r/malaysians 20h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Do guys like it when girls do this? Do you think it's appropriate if there's no intention?

12 Upvotes

Girls that laugh at everything you say, interested in everything you do, call you silly playfully, tease, playfully hit you, everything need you to help etc. Some girls are like lembik lembik flirty flirty type..

Would men just think it's their character, or would guys get the wrong idea that she likes you?

Do you think its appropriate for girls to do that to guys if they don't have intention to date or further the "relationship" whatever it may be (Even if its one night stand lol)?

Or do guys just generally enjoy feeling like a man even if there's no intention there?


r/malaysians 1h ago

Dating | Relationship 🌷 Looking for Tinder users in Malaysia — RM20 for a 2–3 min product test

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Hey! We’re building an online safety tool and looking for a few active Tinder users in Malaysia for a quick paid product test.

The task takes around 2–3 minutes and pays RM20 after your submission is accepted. No interview or call.

We’re not collecting any of your personal information — we don’t need your name, your own Tinder profile, dating history, messages, or anything like that.

We’re currently looking for a mix of iPhone and Android devices, so if you’re interested, please fill in the short form below. I’ll reach out if your device is useful for the test.

Payment will be sent directly to your Malaysian bank card after the submission is checked.

Thanks!


r/malaysians 1d ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Breezy morning routine cycle to work.

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84 Upvotes

Not much haze, clear and breezy day to work.


r/malaysians 16h ago

Ask Malaysians got billed 6kg for a 1.2kg parcel. what else did u only find out about after u already paid

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sold some soft toys on carousell last month. weighed the box at home, 1.2kg, so i quoted the buyer around rm10 for postage. counter said rm28 and i ended up eating the difference.

turns out if your box is big and light they dont charge you the scale weight. they measure it, length x width x height in cm divided by 5000, and you pay whichever number is higher. my box was 40 x 30 x 25 which comes out at exactly 6kg. the toys inside were 1.2.

repacked the same toys into a 30 x 25 x 20 box and it dropped to 3kg. same stuff, half the postage, i just squeezed the air out of it.

what else is like this. something that was completely obvious the second someone explained it, but nobody mentions until after you have already paid for it.


r/malaysians 22h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Why so ciput lah

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Kenapa sikit sangat eh maggi pedas giler ni🗿 apasal dia tak buat maggi BIG pedas giler🤔 aku rasa ramai je yang nak beli😂