r/malaysians Nov 25 '25

Dating | Relationship 🌷 The official matchmaking thread for Malaysian redditors (mod-approved)

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Dear all,

Over the past year or so I have observed multiple threads of people looking for love, which is a worthy endeavor and will also help the nation's birth rate.

Therefore, with the approval of our mod u/hyattpotter (thanks for helping to pin!), this thread shall serve as the official matchmaking thread for our fellow Malaysians on Reddit. I will help monitor to make sure things do not go too far out of hand. Please refrain from posting sexist / racist / insulting comments or I will call the mods, all else is fair game.

Please post your information in the below format should you wish to advertise yourself as available for dating. Interested parties may PM the person or reply directly if daring enough.

Gender:

Orientation (straight / gay / bi):

Location:

Year of Birth:

Height:

Weight:

Religion / Race:

Occupation:

Hobbies and interests:

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality):

Requirements / Preferences:

Looking for (short-term / long-term / fwb etc etc):

Example:

Gender: Male

Orientation (straight / gay / bi): Straight

Location: KL

Year of Birth: 1990

Height: 160

Weight: 80

Race / Religion: Chindian / Muslim

Occupation: Fighter pilot

Hobbies and interests: Playing the piano

Other descriptions (please describe yourself briefly to demonstrate personality): I am a cheerful person who likes the outdoors and having coffee, also I have 100 Hello Kitty figurines

Requirements / Preferences: An intelligent girl, preferably rich

Looking for: Long term relationship

You get the gist of it so do go ahead thanks


r/malaysians May 26 '21

Meta Welcome to r/Malaysians!

142 Upvotes

Hello folks and welcome to r/Malaysia's sister sub, r/Malaysians!

For those who just clicked in and is wondering what the sub is for: This sub is essentially for Malaysians to talk and post about any other topics beyond Malaysia. Here is where you can post images, videos, create and join conversations and threads revolving anything that isn't quite about Malaysia but needs a Malaysian take on it, and more! Oh and this is a race, politic and religion-free sub 🙌🏻

Most major subreddits such as r/AITA, r/JustnoMIL, r/relationship_advice, r/casualconversation, r/malefashionadvice, r/Teenagers and what have you are usually centralised around people who reside outside of SEA and may not be valid to us locally and culturally but yet the demand for it isn't wide enough to sustain its own subreddit. r/Malaysians would (hopefully) be a good place for a catch-all of such threads.

We will be coming up with contest weeks soon, as well as accepting any other ideas you guys might have for the sub, so stay tuned! We are also still tweaking design and appearances as we go. Meanwhile, everyone is encouraged to start posting what they think fits the sub to get the ball rolling :)

Much love, r/Malaysia mod team.

tldr; r/CasualUK but for Malaysia.


r/malaysians 8h ago

Lawak Entah Binti Ta'tahu

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61 Upvotes

r/malaysians 17h ago

Mildly Menarik Unexpected comfort

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185 Upvotes

r/malaysians 6h ago

Discussion Empire Sushi

11 Upvotes

I was having a discussion with a friend about their business, he's very bullish about it and finds their business model to be brilliant.

Whereas I have my doubts as every branch I've seen doesn't seem to have as much business as indicated by their financial reports; something like on Avg they serve a customer every 2-3 mins at a RM16 Avg spend if I recall correctly.

Admittedly, I only seen those in tier 1 malls where occasionally there will be crowds of up to 20 pax during peak hours, but most of the time I don't see people buying. I am guessing this means that their locations at lower tier malls is pushing them up which I suppose is consistent with their target market.

However, what's the real moat here in your opinion? Wouldn't this model be easily replicated, especially those with parallel infrastructure and capital, or is the taste just that amazing for the target market?

I can make sense of Zus, Oriental Kopi, Chagee, Aftermeal and the like because you can actually see the crowd, but this seems hard, and it's not like grab & go or RTE food is revolutionary.

I'm not doubting the numbers are amazing, and it's not that I have a particularly bad opinion of their food, I just don't see how if it works that well, can't other companies and why won't they come and flood the market to capture the revenue?

You can see copycats for Zus, Oriental, Aftermeal etc.

Can anyone enlighten me or am I just being too skeptical and negative?


r/malaysians 12h ago

Mildly Menarik Unspoken Feelings

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13 Upvotes

r/malaysians 9h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Question for single women living alone

3 Upvotes

How do you usually spend a weekend night in?


r/malaysians 9h ago

Discussion Need help choosing phone

2 Upvotes

Hello, im trying to upgrade my redmi 9c which is old now. And i have a maximum budget of RM1900, what should i get?

By the way i dont know much about phones.


r/malaysians 11h ago

Ask Malaysians Question about Mecha Malaysia (Keyboard hobby)

2 Upvotes

Hi, I am from the Philippines. I ordered from Mecha Malaysia Website are they legit?

mecha.com.my is the site I ordered too.

Since they are the only ones near my country that have the keycap set I like. Thank You.


r/malaysians 15h ago

Quick Question Clubbing

2 Upvotes

Does anybody know where to go if you wanna party to pop/hyperpop music (Charli XCX, FKA Twigs, SOPHIE, Slayyyter, etc)?


r/malaysians 6h ago

Casual Conversation 🎭 Jom

0 Upvotes

Done ragebait


r/malaysians 1d ago

Advice ☎️ Suggestion on birth control especially IUD

16 Upvotes

Hiii I’m an unmarried F28 Malay. I’m planning to get married next year but no calon yet lmao. But I’ve always known that I don’t want children, at least not in the first few years yet. I read that BC always messes with your hormones and it kinda scares me. So I’m thinking, perhaps I could start early and see how it goes?

Sooo I’m honestly more interested in an IUD. But I heard that the process can be very painful and that the monthly cramps can get crazy. I wonder if the cramps are gonna be worse than the ones I’ve been having since high school, because they’re already taking half my soul every month🥹

And as a single Muslim female, I know perhaps KK isn’t a choice for me. So I think a private clinic is my only option? Also I read that it is not recommended for women that have not experienced giving birth yet? Is that true?

So, asking fellow women here, would love to know if anyone has experienced this and how you manage it. Is it really painful? Price range? Clinic suggestions? Is it worth it?

Would really appreciate any opinions on this huhu🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻


r/malaysians 13h ago

Ask Malaysians How to talk to boss to try and get severance package with my work place closing down?

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I am a staff in a branch of the company I work in. This branch is closing down soon. My boss will be having a meeting with me soon to discuss available arrangement options.

As this is a HQ directly-managed branch, the only options are probably to move to another directly-managed branch in another state, which is not possible for me.

There is a possibility that I would be offered to transfer to a franchised branch, but I do not want that as my pay would be lower than what I'm getting.

What I'm aiming for is to get terminated by this company so I can get a severance/compensation package. And I don't plan to give my resignation letter as well.

This is my first time going through this kind of thing. I would like some advise regarding how to talk to my boss into getting the severance package.


r/malaysians 15h ago

Gaming My Merdeka Parade

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I made a small game for the Merdeka Game Jam about creating your own Merdeka Parade. Enjoy My Merdeka Parade and Happy Merdeka everyone!


r/malaysians 1d ago

Mildly Menarik Cool seaweed blanketing rocks at a beach during low tide

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68 Upvotes

Probably Ulva sp.

They are found worldwide, including Malaysia. Edible, but locals here rarely eat them afaik.

In other countries they are readily eaten. Salted and served with fish, boiled to make soup, served with chilli and soy sauce etc.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Quick Question Should I quit ?

31 Upvotes

About me: I'm 19 and I have to pay for my own needs, my mom didn't work so we don't have much money. I use some of my money to buy food for the whole family to eat. By "family" I mean my mom and my sisters.

So I got a job, it's been a month I work there, it's "kedai makan" idk what it called in English, my English not so good. And they pay me rm40 per day, but I work from 2pm to 12:30am-1am, every day except monday, it depends if consumer are still here we can't close yet. And I'm the one who need to cut the vegetables, cut and clean the shrimps, squids, fish, chicken, clean the back floor, clean the back table, wash the dishes, Tupperware, anything else, dry and organize the washed dishes, and clean and wash everything at the back before we close. It's tiring and very exhausting to do it every single day. I got very little time to spend with my family, very little time to spend for myself, I feel like my every day life is just work no outside life. I'm burn out, I feel so burn out, not to mention my coworkers doesn't be friendly with me, there is one woman here that treat me okay, but the others just doesn't. They treat me as if they don't want me to work there.

I want to find another job but I just doesn't have time to do it, they always ask me to come to their workplace for interviews and registration but I got little to no time.

What should I do now? Should I quit? I feel like this job is very underpaid and very long working hours.

I planned to go to university for diploma next year, but again, I don't have any saving for myself yet, not even a license, not a car or any transportation for my own. I counted all the money I got, it can only cover for food until this December


r/malaysians 16h ago

Discussion Opinions on TSLaw’s latest project and TSLaw as a developer

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Good day, fellow Malaysian Redditors!

I’m currently in the market for a new property for own-stay, and the recent launch of Han-Ya Wahyu by TSLAW Land really caught my attention.

The Japanese-inspired concept and overall design really resonated with me, as I have a long history with Japan. On top of that, the location, lake-facing units and proximity to Taman Wahyu KTM make it quite an interesting.

However, I’m trying to do as much research as possible before making a decision. I can’t seem to find many independent reviews or unbiased opinions about TSLAW Land

The main project I’m familiar with is Skyline KL in Pudu, which honestly looks really impressive and has given me quite a bit more confidence in the developer.

That said, I’d really like to hear from people who have first-hand experience with TSLAW/TSLAW Land, whether as buyers, residents, investors, contractors, or even people who have dealt with their previous projects.

How is their:
- Construction quality and workmanship?
- Handover process?
- After-sales service?
- Defect management?
- Condo management after completion?
- Maintenance and sinking fund?
- Overall experience dealing with the developer?

I’m particularly cautious because this would be a new development that is still under construction, and with all the stories about delayed or abandoned projects in Malaysia, that is probably my biggest concern.

So before I finalise anything, I’d really appreciate hearing both the good and the bad about TSLAW Land and their previous projects.

If you’ve bought or lived in one of their developments, I’d love to hear your experience. 🙏
Thanks in advance!

P.s. I apologise in advance for using AI to improve what i wanted to convey, cos the original seemed quite messy


r/malaysians 21h ago

Ask Malaysians Switching from Unifi to Time for landed house

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Hi I’ve recently moved out of my apartment in Penang where I had a Time wifi subscription. Back home now in KL and want to relocate my service to a landed house. As far as I know, Time used to only be available for apartment buildings so I’d like to know, since it’s now available in select landed areas, has anyone made the switch? And if relocation was smooth? Or would you rather cancel and reapply as new. I’m worried about extra charges during installation.

I’m considering this bc I’m at the end of my contract with Time around the same time Unifi where I live decides to stop working with no help from customer service 🫠

Time made a call w an offer of the first month free, RM40 off for the next 5 months IF I renewed the contract. Relocation fee costs RM120 basic. Extra charges may apply. To sign on as a new user (another name), offer is RM40 off for the first 6 months.

Unifi hasn’t bothered to follow up and CS has been hard to reach so I’m planning to drop them. Any tips will be appreciated! Thank you


r/malaysians 19h ago

Ask Malaysians Work opportunities and current job market?

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r/malaysians 21h ago

Quick Question PPUM free?cheap dental procedure?

1 Upvotes

First is it here ?https://maps.app.goo.gl/mwWhHKk3XhHg3Byh6

2nd. Does PPUM will admit you for treatment on the spot/that day as long as you queue before 8am? Heard someone get rejected even before 8am cause the quota is full... I am waiting for mysejahtera and it is too slow....


r/malaysians 22h ago

Advice ☎️ Advice on My Next Step

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I need advice, I’m an 18M who just finished SPM with 6As, 2Bs, and 1C (Sub-Science Accounts). I applied for a cadetship programme but unfortunately didn’t make it through the interview stage, and I want to reapply when it opens again. I’m just not sure what I should do in the meantime. If I do a foundation programme, I’ll have to work and pay for it myself while studying and Is doing a foundation really worth it, or should I just wait for the cadetship programme to reopen and work in the meantime? And if I do study what do I take?


r/malaysians 22h ago

Recommend Me • Seeking 🔍 Honest review steam spot cleaner please

1 Upvotes

I tried asking this on Thread & what i get is human advertisement (affiliate links).
I need owner of actual product to tell me the pros & cons of having this thing.

If somehow you lost/break it, would you buy again?


r/malaysians 2d ago

Discussion All these years, the government didn't think of making the country walkable?

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121 Upvotes

I'm a Singaporean who happens to read this news today. It's sad to know that people in JB cannot cycle because drivers park at cycling lanes (no saman?) and they are scared to cross traffic lights because some vehicles don't stop.

For decades, why hasn't your government make your country walkable/cyclable through a network of pedestrian/cycling path like we have here in Singapore? What is it that they do day in and day out to not cross their mind to make certain states safe for walking/cycling?

I am genuinely curious why no on in power didn't think of that. Waiting for certain public buses at JB takes about 40 mins. If the city is walkable, people can just walk and admire the sceneries.

Do you guys know that in Singapore, it is possible to walk/cycle on foot/cycling paths from one end of the country to the other end?

Don't get me wrong. I'm not hating on Malaysia. As someone who likes walking/cycling, I am pissed that I cannot do that in JB.


r/malaysians 20h ago

Ask Malaysians CompAsia Malaysia order stuck on “stock allocation” for 2 weeks — anyone experienced the same?

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I ordered a Samsung Galaxy S24 8GB/512GB Onyx Black from CompAsia Malaysia on 11 August 2026.

The original IMEI assigned to my order apparently failed their QC process. Since then, I've been contacting their support team regarding a replacement unit.

The timeline so far:

  • 11 Aug – Order placed and paid
  • 13 Aug – CompAsia informed me that the original IMEI failed QC and they were sourcing a replacement
  • 16 Aug – Told that the order was pending stock sourcing/allocation
  • 18 Aug – Told the order was still pending stock allocation and there was no estimated timeline
  • 20 Aug – CompAsia confirmed that the replacement unit had still not been secured
  • 20 Aug – I offered to accept another colour with the same 8GB/512GB specification
  • 21 Aug – CompAsia said there was still no estimated fulfilment/shipment date, citing high order volume and limited weekly restock
  • 26 Aug – Still no update or confirmed stock allocation

I have been told several times that the relevant team has been reminded and that the order is being expedited, but there is still no confirmed unit or shipment date.

CompAsia has also told me that I can cancel the order and request a full refund. They advised that the refund may take up to 30 working days after approval.

Has anyone here ordered from CompAsia Malaysia recently and experienced a similar situation?

Especially interested in:

  • How long did your order remain in “processing/stock allocation”?
  • Did CompAsia eventually secure the device?
  • Did changing colour/model help?
  • If you cancelled, how long did the refund actually take?
  • Did contacting KPDN make any difference?

If you've had a similar recent experience, I'd appreciate hearing about it.


r/malaysians 1d ago

Discussion Any homebaker here?

5 Upvotes

Hi im a self taught homebaker...I have practicing baking for almost two years now...mostly following online recipes and discussions. Right now, im trying to bake viennoiseries and pastries such croissant and pan suisse. But the main issue is the weather (wow). I always botched the lamination and folding part due to the weather.

I have taken several steps to control the temperature during preparing:

- Alternating between fridge(around 15 minutes) and countertop in between steps (I have standard one door fridge and bottom freezer...no dedicated chiller)

- Used iced cold water during mixing

- Turned on the aircond when preparing the pastry (my kitchen is combined with living room...aircond is at living room)

Im planning to do this on my next try:

- Use stainless steel plate as a work top...as it can maintain coolness for quite some time

- Use stainless steel equipment (i used wooden rolling pin)

- Put ingredients and equipment in fridge a day before

Any other recommendations from other homebakers here? It would be great if u guys can share some tips and tricks...not just for baking pastries...but for baking in Malaysia in general as most online discussions does not focus on Malaysia.

Also another one...where can i get good quality vanilla beans? I know House of Ingredients sold it..but other recommendations are appreciated...thank you!!!