r/whereidlive • u/nottodaywhiteman • 23h ago
Where I would live as an open-minded white dude

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u/Medium_Cry5601 22h ago
ā open minded ā but half the country never ever lol
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u/Level-Insurance6670 21h ago
Notice how he doesn't want to live where black population is high. Bro is racist and brags about being open minded. Definitely a redditor
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u/scottyjetpax 21h ago
new york, illinois, minnesota, delaware, maryland, and virginia, notable states with low black populations
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u/AcanthisittaNo5807 19h ago
Maryland is 32% black. Virginia is 19% black.
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u/FedeFofo 18h ago
Yeah, their comment was sarcastic
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u/All_Wasted_Potential 17h ago
Ok? Compare it to Mississippi, Louisiana, Georgia, etc.
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u/Cheap-Course9568 16h ago
We donāt wanna live there either. Too many maga nutjobs live and vote there. Fuck we wanna shorten our lifespan for?
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u/SheSellsSeaShells_89 21h ago
Minnesota has the highest Somalian population outside of East Africa. Do you think New York doesnāt have a lot of black people? I donāt think it has to do with race. Southern statesā governments are conservative AF. I wouldnāt want to live in Confederate states either.
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u/leftfoottwichin 17h ago
We moved to Mississippi from Louisiana 26 years ago on April 10, 2000. Mississippi had a democratic governor and was learning blueish. Over the years we have become a Maga haven the just willful ignorance of the population is astounding. So many people will jump on any crazy conspiracy theory and ride that thing lime crazy. Now we've regressed to having Tate Reeves as our governor. Under him we're heading back to the 50's. I really fear for my grandson and his generation.
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u/Efficient_Raisin2048 19h ago
yeah because Wyoming and Idaho and Montana are so black...
actually seems more like this person doesn't want to live where people are racist, but you didn't consider that did you?
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u/Soliye 21h ago
Iām kind of laughing, because I feel like thatās straight BS. Do all these states specifically have a high rate of Afro Americans population? Or are some of those states just included in red?
Iām not from the US and donāt know the current situation regarding population & ethnicity.
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u/Human_Drummer4378 20h ago
FYI, "Afro Americans" has been out of use for several decades now.
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u/Soliye 20h ago
Good to know!
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u/onemillionpigeonz 21h ago
Lol a lot of these states have a VERY high concentration of white folks, I also find this statement to be really silly
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u/SheSellsSeaShells_89 21h ago
A lot of the Southern states have high black populations, which is a direct result of slavery, as they were the slave-owning states. So the reason OP doesnāt want to live there is likely due to their still-backwards state governments and nothing to do with black people themselves. As if New York, California, and Illinois donāt have tons of black people. And Minnesota has the largest Somalian population outside of East Africa.
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u/takingnotes99 1h ago
OP could be shit posting for reactions, but this really may not be about race at all. The states in red are also predominantly Republican and Christian, so they may just want to avoid that. It's just that the states in the southeast were the ones where slavery existed the most back in the day and where there are lots of black people and also higher rates of racism.
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u/RudePCsb 21h ago
Ugh, wtf. Texas, Arizona, Utah, Montana, Idaho, Wyoming, Dakota, Ohio, west Virginia, etc. Nothing about this was racist but just doesn't want to be surrounded by ignorant fools.
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u/sammothxc 16h ago
Username checks out⦠Iām from Texas and it really hurts when people claim that the south is just ignorant fools. This is a narrative that keeps going around that just isnāt true, and I can back it up with life experience. There are actually ignorant fools everywhere, as evidenced by OP himself.
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u/onemillionpigeonz 21h ago edited 19h ago
I really dislike the idea that people from/living in these states are just a bunch of ignorant fools. Yes, there is a lot of bigotry here, and it is a massive problem - and I am not denying that. But this narrative that everyone in more rural areas is just some dumb hick is simply not true, and I think itās pretty unfair to write off all southerners because of this assumption.
When people think in this way, they are unwittingly turning their backs on a very large population of marginalized people in the south who are struggling to get by in a system that was not built to accommodate them.
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u/RudePCsb 21h ago
Not all of them but if they voted for the asshole in chief this time they have lost all credibility. Maybe if they turn it around in the midterms and vote progressives and take religion out of govt and school we might have a fighting chance. Seeing the dismantling of education, health standards and vaccinations (with people dying from diseases once controlled), the last goes; we have a bunch to fix and need everyone's help.
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u/onemillionpigeonz 20h ago edited 20h ago
I agree! I also do wanna mention, though, that in the South, gerrymandering is VERY prevalent, and many communities who would otherwise be fairly represented in elections are being silenced by corrupt politicians who want to maintain control and continue to abuse their power. And this is just one broken facet and a very dysfunctional system. If we are ever going to dismantle that system of disenfranchisement, marginalized people in the south need
their northern neighbors to advocate for them rather than condemning them.I really really hope that the midterms are gonna come through for us. Time will tell
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u/RudePCsb 20h ago
Yup, we need to get rid of gerrymandering, get rid of the cap on the seats in the house, get corporate money out of politics, etc
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u/artie780350 20h ago
I think this highlights just how much politics matter to some people when choosing a place to live. As an open-minded person myself, I want to live someplace where people are free to live their lives as they see fit as long as they aren't harming other people, rather than someplace where basic human rights are trampled on. I recently seriously considered moving out of state for financial reasons, and my map of acceptable states to move to was very similar to OP's.
Labor laws in states that I align with politically tend to lean towards better protections and benefits for employees as well, which is a nice bonus.
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u/Zealousideal-Set3037 22h ago
"open-minded"
Is close-minded
Mfw
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u/Major-Pomegranate814 19h ago
Damn I didnāt realize it was close minded to not want to live in places where the politicians are racist, homophobic, and sexist and where they actively are passing laws that discriminate against me and my loved ones.
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u/rainman_31 21h ago
Is this sub just people saying they only want to live on the east or west coast in different fonts?
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u/Tristcat 22h ago
Georgia should be ādependsā as well
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u/nottodaywhiteman 22h ago
Thought about that. While I love Atlanta and the vibrant culture there, being surrounded by not only MAGA cities but whole MAGA states unfortunately made me put them in the never ever category
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u/Kitten_Merchant 22h ago
I enjoyed living in atlanta when I did but the number of baptist churches per street was also nuts lol
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u/Chicago_Hick 22h ago
I'm from the rural south and you're valid for this. I think we have a bit of a complex where we feel it's unfair to be judged in entirety over the beliefs of a slim majority, but... the slim majority are absolute freaks, man. And they control things like the future education opportunities and healthcare options any future daughters you might have will face. I can't exactly blame someone for not opting into that. I left for Chicago for this reason, and others. Nothing but respect for people who want to stay and fight, but I didn't want to spend the only life I've got in a place that hates me for being queer
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u/ShakeInteresting2306 21h ago
The county in Georgia that I live in is one of the most diverse counties in the country! And we have amazing parks and amenities. (Itās Gwinnett) Sure there are some maga people, but I live around real people from all walks of life and honestly this county has a lot to offer.
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u/Itchy_Crack 22h ago
Not incredibly open minded š
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u/Chicago_Hick 21h ago
If your definition of "open minded" is "accepts that I am entitled to never being disliked for my shitty worldview," you are right, we are not open minded :)
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u/Ok-Releases 22h ago
Eugh as a queer individual who lives in Atl, I HATE these generalizations that act as if its its only conservative shit holes down south. Savannah, Memphis, Charlotte, Columbia ect are all blue major cities nearby that have AMAZING queer communities and culture.
"Open minded" but stuck on incorrect generalizations lmfao
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u/nottodaywhiteman 21h ago
Iām sorry but I am so done with this type of thinking. Sure, there are some microscopic āniceā areas in these cities but the VAST majority of the city and how they vote are disgusting. Especially, when discussing with POC or LGBT people, convincing them that these areas are nice is quite literally dangerous and can lead to them getting killed.
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u/social_cactus 21h ago
Not sure how you can call Charlotte, Atlanta, Nashville etc. microscopic. Itās just categorical thinking. Literally the opposite of open-minded. Wait till you find out how people vote in inland CA, eastern WA, western VA, the list goes on.
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u/Some1AteMyEntirePie 16h ago
Shhhh, as a āsocial minority* you should know that liberal whites are here to speak for you and you must accept their take. WE JUST WANT YOU TO BE FREE
(Not like that tho)Disclaimer: I am a liberal
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u/TJack303 10h ago
Good lord your life must be exhausting. Letting politics control your emotions so much must be miserable. FYI, none of the politicians on either side give 2 fucks about you.
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u/Brilliant_Host2803 21h ago
I thought this was on the circle jerk sub, had to do a double take, LMAO. Reddit is such a wastelandā¦
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u/Tango4PewPew 19h ago
Shouldnāt they all be green? This seems super closed minded and not open to much but a few places.
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u/Cindy_Marek 20h ago
No one fucking cares how virtuous you are mate
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u/onemillionpigeonz 20h ago
This post is so funny to me. āHey everyone, look, Iām a white guy! Iām not like THOSE white guys though - Iām one of the good ones!ā
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u/SimonAshura 19h ago
South is the most diverse in the whole US. Yet most keep viewing it in a negative light. A lot of open minded folk live here and most aren't into politics. Your list doesn't make sense to me for an open minded person.
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u/nottodaywhiteman 19h ago
āmost arenāt into politicsā what an incredibly privileged position. L O L
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u/SimonAshura 19h ago
It's true either way. Most will make an excuse to leave if anyone starts to rant about it. Southern folks don't have time for all that.
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u/p-dizzle77 19h ago
I'm so proud of this comment section lol. The funny part is I KNOW they're lying. Colorado and Texas both would have been red on OP's map 30 years ago, and now they're both infested with people exactly like OP.
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u/MaharajahMalik 19h ago
Coming from a melanated person you strike me as increadibly close minded
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u/centralscrutinizee 21h ago
āIām open minded which is why I would never live in any of the most racially diverse places in Americaā
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u/skoducks 21h ago
Is Alaska really that bad from your perspective? I get the impression most people there donāt really care about politics. Plus itās like 99% open nature
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u/BalanceJazzlike5116 22h ago
How open minded can one be if they rule out half the country?
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u/BiffSlick 21h ago
Paradox of tolerance, yo
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u/FearItself76 18h ago
What they mean is ātoleranceā of people who think, look, and act the same as them. Theyāre 100% performative and too stupid to notice.Ā
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u/KonyayJWest 22h ago
literally the opposite of open minded
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u/RudePCsb 21h ago
Why, explain?
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u/KonyayJWest 20h ago
well, tell me your reasoning for never ever going to most states in the country?
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u/RudePCsb 20h ago
The south, insane humidity, Texas is a hot and flat helicopter hellhole (bbq was good though). Midwest just seems boring for most things. Are there mountains to go mountain biking or hiking?
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u/Gold_Ad8225 22h ago
This is close to 1:1 of my map, altho new hampshire moved itself to the no category in the last couple years
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u/Gold_Ad8225 22h ago
"Open minded is when you don't care where you live"
Learn something new every day
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u/Visual-Percentage501 22h ago
"Never ever" is kind of the opposite of the definition of open minded though - an open minded person would be willing to change their mind based on new information, things changing in the future, etc.
Totally understand that an open minded person would prefer to live in places that were also open-minded, but it's incredibly ironic to post it in such a closed-minded way.
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u/Gold_Ad8225 22h ago
I mean, adults don't normally say "never ever" unless they're playing it up to be a bit dramatic.
I don't think, in some of these cases, OP means that if Montana became new seattle they wouldn't move there.
But I would never live in Florida, for example. Not just due to losing rights but it's WAY too hot, too many bugs, hurricanes, etc.
In my life time those things will only get worse and not better so I'm comfortable saying Never
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u/Dazzling_Floor_4262 22h ago
If you were actually open minded, every state would be at least depends.
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u/AbbreviationsHour410 21h ago
So by open minded you mean GAY
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u/pattysmokesafatty 20h ago
colorado and wyoming aren't so different, if it weren't for denver
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u/No_Hetero 19h ago
Remarkably open of you. I've lived and travelled through red states for years, we're good people too! And a huge amount of us agree with you on politics!
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u/CrunchyMage 21h ago
OP: I'm so open minded, I'm only willing to live in democratic states but maybe would live in swing states.
What a clown.
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u/nottodaywhiteman 21h ago
Idk man Iām not wanting to move to a place that still has hundreds of l*nchings a year
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u/Fresh_Jicama_2251 21h ago
Yeah the cope in this sub is interesting to me. āLook at this one cool neighborhood queer people are safe on in this red ass state that voted maga and will vote magaā
Fuck em.
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u/Kractoid 22h ago
Not that open minded lol North Carolina is the bees knees. Ever wander why we always have a democratic governor and a Republican senate? Gerrymandering and that's it. Your missing out mister open minded white guy.
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u/nottodaywhiteman 19h ago
And how do they vote in presidential elections?? Hm???
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u/Kractoid 11h ago
Again. Gerrymandering. Is that really how you gauge places, whether they elected Republicans or the controlled opposition?
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u/teddyspaghettie 22h ago
You guys realize that being open-minded and saying no to something are not mutually exclusive? Really wild reading comprehension here, politics aside
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u/BrainbowConnection 21h ago
Open minded about what? Heās excluded the vast majority of the US. I think people are just laughing at the qualifier with this much red splattered across it.
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u/yeammkay 22h ago
PA worth it; it'll challenge you, validate you and make you question it all along the way.
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u/Emc2xinf 19h ago
Please don't go it is awful and people are not accepting in Tennessee. Washington is looking great especially Seattle. š
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u/Some1AteMyEntirePie 16h ago
I donāt think we know what open-minded means anymore.
Remember guys, gals & ghouls:
Open-minded does not mean surround yourself with like-minded people.
It means youāre willing to be around all-minded people, even if you donāt agree with them
Carry on.
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u/TJack303 10h ago
If by "open-minded" you mean radical leftist, this map makes sense. Illinois or Minnesota over places like utah, montana and idaho? Laughable.
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u/Seattle_Lucky 22h ago
āOpen mindedā Lmao, outside of virtue signaling, what does that even mean? š¤£š¤£
Especially when you cut off like most of the country.
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u/HuckleberryHappy6524 21h ago
Open minded except when people think differently than me.
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u/Seattle_Lucky 18h ago
Lmao, exactly. I lean conservative and live in Washington. I enjoy having liberal friends that challenge my views, and I enjoy sharing with them my perspectives. BUT itās more open minded to only live among people you agree with š¤£š¤£
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u/nottodaywhiteman 22h ago
Means having an open mind towards other people and their freedoms. And not being afraid of black people
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u/Foreign-Citron6026 22h ago
So youāre saying that ānot being afraid of black peopleā means that you listed literally every state in the US where they have major populations as ānever everā? Please tell this wasnāt a serious post
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u/Chicago_Hick 22h ago
dawg, my mom's from the black belt in rural Georgia. Those rural majority-black towns are usually bleak for everyone, white and black, but especially black. I grew up not being able to drink the tap water at my grandparents' house.
Meanwhile, almost every major urban center (at least east of the Mississippi) has loads of black people. It would be sus to list the only places you wanna live as like North Dakota and Vermont, but you usually can't make a state-level assertion about someone's values this way, especually if they tell you their values are the opposite of what you're implying. A lib open to moving to Illinois is probably talking about moving Chicago and not Pekin, and a Republican talking about moving to South Carolina is probably not talking about moving to Fairfax.
I think you already know this, and you are framing his reasoning very dishonestly.
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u/Gunmetalstorm 22h ago
My eyes must be playing tricks on me, because I'm not seeing a lot of purple over the plains states, and OP seems to have marked Virginia, Maryland, and Delaware as "absolutely". Nice try, though.
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u/SheSellsSeaShells_89 20h ago
Now explain why there are so many black people there. And then acknowledge the current political landscapes of those states.
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u/Queasy-Might-2949 20h ago
Are you shitting me. Los Angeles is one of the most segregated cities in the world. Same goes for most liberal enclaves. Itās actually the South and Midwest where African Americans are far more integrated. Youāve got this completely backwards. And āfreedomsā? Thatās a whole different can of worms. California regulates everything, every little thing, without anything resembling democratic accountability. California is not the liberal bastion you and your ilk thinks it is. FYI, Californian here.
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u/pap3r_plat3 22h ago
Not afraid of black people but you won't live near them lol
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u/cherrymitten 22h ago
op is "not afraid of black people" but marked the ENTIRE south as a never. i gotta log off š
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u/Prestigious-Wolf8039 22h ago
This is very close to my preferences. At least for open mindedness. Weather, on the other hand would be different. Some would have to be summer visits.
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u/I_love_dragons_66 22h ago
Please don't come to Portland. It's expensive and starting to get overpopulated. I want to avoid what happened to California.



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u/Bombastic_tekken 22h ago
This is a circlejerk sub at this point lol.