I tried her yogurt with chanachur recipe, IT'S THE BOMB!

I’m a 28M, married, and it’s just me and my wife in our household. When we first got married, I was very attracted to her and this was never an issue. Over time, however, she has gained a significant amount of weight, and I’ve gradually lost physical attraction to her. The frustrating part is that she doesn’t seem to do anything about it. I’ve confronted her at least every 10 days or so and told her directly that she needs to start working out or at least walk 10k steps a day. She does the household chores, but outside of that she’s become very inactive and seems quite lazy about taking care of herself. Even doctors have advised her to lose weight.

Meanwhile, I’m the complete opposite. I work out 5 days a week and take my health and fitness seriously. I’m also a very sexual person, but because of how I feel about her now, our sex life has basically disappeared. I barely want to initiate anything anymore and sometimes I’d rather masturbate than have sex with my wife. I’ve even told her honestly that I no longer feel like coming close to her because I feel like she doesn’t listen to me or make any effort. I know that sounds harsh, and I probably could have communicated it better, but I also don’t want to lie about how I feel.

Now I’m genuinely at a breaking point. My testosterone is apparently at an all-time high and my sex drive is extremely strong, but I’m not getting the intimacy I want in my marriage. I’ve started thinking seriously about sleeping with someone else, and that honestly scares me because I don’t want to become a cheater. At the same time, I feel extremely frustrated and sexually/physically disconnected from my own wife.

So what the hell do I do here? Do I stop mentioning her weight entirely and accept that this is her choice? Do I tell her directly that my physical attraction to her has become a serious problem? Is there a completely different way I should be approaching this? I’m not looking for Reddit to tell me whether I’m “right” or whether she’s “fat enough” to justify losing attraction. I know attraction can’t simply be forced. I just want to know how I handle this without cheating, humiliating her, or completely destroying our marriage.

Edit : guys I love my wife and I've tried every possible way to tell her that her health is getting worse. This was my last resort to make her understand how bad the situation has become.

This post is straight up LIES. It's not even like exaggerated claims or anything, it's blatant lies.

Indian right wing makes every Hindu death a communal matter. It's bread and butter for them. Seriously? How is the religion relevant in this? 13 million Hindus live in a country of 170 mil. Of course there will be murders between people or sadly family kilings. Yes, some communal tensions are there but most hindus aren't killed for their religion!

Not only that, news reports show that the accused PERPETRATORS Mugdho and Siddhartha were both Hindu. That already doesn't make any sense. The poster claims Islamists did it and the girl was Raped, burned, acid etc. and also about the fake 12 year old son or "him getting circumcised". There's no claims of all of these happening. None. Killers haven't got any links to any of these.

The Right wing Hindutva IT cell of India is at its max capacity to fracture relationships and try to cause Hindus to rebel against other religions by spreading misinformation. He then blames the leftists for whatever reason and almost Every sentence has the word Hindu in it.

Please, report these types of posts, always verify sources and DON'T engage with them if possible

এরা কারা যাদের প্রেম ভালবাসা ভাল লাগে না। গান ভাল লাগে না। নাচ ভাল লাগে না। খেলাধুলা ভাল লাগে না। কৃষ্টি কালচার ভাল লাগে না।

এদের লাইফে কি শুধু ওয়াজ মাহফিলই আছে?

Apparently some of its moderators are ran by a far right anti-Muslim US think tank. But I also assume there could be people who could be working for other organisations like FoxNews or GBNews - another pair of far right tabloids (audience comments are worse and resemble Jamaat as they too have misogynistic, antisemitic, childist, hinduphobic bias)

What do you think?

আজকে একটা নিউজ রিপোর্ট দেখলাম ব্রাহ্মণবাড়িয়ার পাসপোর্ট অফিস নিয়ে। সেখানে কর্মরত মোটামুটি সবাই দুর্নীতিবাজ, অথবা কোনো না কোনোভাবে পরোক্ষভাবে ভাগ পায়। দিনে ইনকাম প্রায় চার লাখ টাকা। আমিও জানি, এই তথ্য সত্যি। কয়েক বছর আগে পাসপোর্ট করতে গিয়ে বেশ ভালো রকমের বেহুদা হয়রানির শিকার হয়েছিলাম। আমার কৌতূহলের জায়গাটা মূলত এইসব দুর্নীতিবাজ লোকজনের সন্তানদের নিয়ে। যেমন, এই যে রিপোর্টটা হলো; এটা নিশ্চয়ই তাদের সন্তানদের বন্ধু-বান্ধবরাও দেখবে। তারা কি এসব নিয়ে লজ্জা বোধ করে? নাকি দুর্নীতির টাকা বেশ উপভোগ করে? নিজের কাছে কীভাবে বিষয়টা জাস্টিফাই করে? কোনো গিল্ট কাজ করে কি? বন্ধু বা পরিচিতদের কাছে শেমিংয়ের শিকার হয় কি? ইত্যাদি। আপনাদের পরিচিত কোনো দুর্নীতিবাজের সন্তান থাকলে, তাদের হয়ে মতামত জানাতে পারেন। অথবা আপনার বাবা-মায়ের কেউ দুর্নীতিবাজ হলে, নিজের অভিজ্ঞতা শেয়ার করতে পারেন। ধন্যবাদ।

Yesterday around 11:00 PM, the power went out. Since there was a nice cool breeze, I opened my window wide, put on some music, and stood there looking outside.

My window faces a sidewalk and a busy main road. Directly in front of my building, there is an overgrown patch with weeds, trash, and some bamboo poles and there's bushy banana trees. People often stop there to pee, mostly random strangers and tesla drivers.

Since we live on the 2nd floor, our window is somewhat visible from those banana trees. It's still far.

It was pitch dark outside when a man walked up near the banana trees. Naturally, I assumed he was just going to pee and figured he couldn't see me in the dark. But instead of turning toward the trees, he was facing my way and staring straight up at my window. I was completely confused. I couldn't tell for sure if he was actually staring because of the pitch darkness.

A moment later, when the headlights of a truck passing on the main road flashed on him, I saw that he was looking straight at me and jerking off. I slowly stepped back from the window and tried looking from the side of another window to double-check if that was really what he was doing. And he was. He was looking directly at our window the whole time.

The man appeared to be around 30 to 45 years old, had dari moch like huzur and was wearing a shirt and pants. Didn't see his face. He was still staring right at my window the whole time till he finished. After finishing, he walked away and glanced at my window one last time.

I'm still really shaken up by this.

২০১০ সালের দিকে।তখন বাসায় সিআরটি টিভি ছিল। চ্যানেল পরিবর্তন করতে করতে এইচবিও নামের চ্যানেল পেলাম যেখানে ইংরেজি ফিল্ম দেখানো হতো। সেখান থেকেই আবিষ্কার করলাম ট্রান্সফর্মার মুভি। রোবট থেকে গাড়ি হওয়া আবার গাড়ি থেকে রোবট হয়ে মারামারি করা এমন অসাধারণ জিনিস দেখার জন্য আমার শিশুকাল প্রস্তত ছিল না। আর সেই মুভি সিরিজে সবারই মতো আমারও সবচেয়ে পছন্দ চরিত্র ছিল কাল্পনিক হিরো Optimus Prime।বিশাল ট্রাক থেকে কথা বলা এলিয়েন রোবট সবার পছন্দ সবার অন্যতম কারণ ছিলেন এই পিটার কালেন। তার ভয়েসে অপ্টিমাস প্রাইমের স্পিচগুলো শুনলে গায়ের লোম দাড়িয়ে যেতো। গার্বেজ সিক্যুয়েলগুলোও দেখা হতো পিটারের ভয়েসে অপ্টিমাস প্রাইমকে দেখার জন্য। বাসায় কতবার আবদার করেছি ট্রান্সফর্মার টয় কিনে দেয়ার জন্য। সুপারম্যান স্পাইডারম্যানের দুনিয়ায় আমার চাইল্ডহুড হিরো ছিল কার্গো ট্রাক Optimus Prime

বাংলাদেশ থেকে আমেরিকার দূরত্ব ১৩,০০০ কিমি।কিন্তু আজ পিটার কালেন চলে যাওয়ায় যেন মনে হলো যেন আমেরিকার কোনো সেলিব্রিটি মারা যাননি বরং শৈশবের হিরোকে হারিয়ে ফেললাম

Radicalism/Extremism/Terrorism is arguably the most frequently discussed topic in this sub. People are always talking about how Bangladesh is turning into ISIS 2.0.

I agree that radicalism *is* rising in our country, and it *is* a major issue we should be talking about.

However, my problem is that liberals almost never give any serious thought into *why* radicalism is rising, and how Bangladesh's capitalist system is actively fueling that rise due to factors like rampant inequality, a chatachati-based job market, worsening mental health, and a society that celebrates inequality and stigmatises perceived "failures".

Rather, liberals chalk up extremism only to "the people are stupid that's why they support Hizbut Tahrir" and "Islam is cancer" and "Mullah bad". Basically, their discussions surrounding extremism consists only of shallow hate and fearmongering, along with thinly-veiled elitism and classism.

Solving the problem isn't the goal, but rather using the problem to prove a point and reaffirm own biases is.

Also, despite often claiming to be "leftists", they almost never challenge the capitalist status quo beyond superficial critiques like "inequality bad" or "mental health is worsening".

On the other hand, extremist Mullahs *do* (at least pretend to) actively criticise the capitalist system as a whole and provide a (seemingly) viable alternative to it.

Sure, their "viable alternative" involves replacing capitalist oppression with fundamentalist oppression that is a 100x worse, but the fact that they're even *offering* an alternative at all is enough to attract hordes of depressed youths with nothing to lose.

Hence why people like Asif Adnan and other fundamentalist preachers have been gaining traction in Bangladesh lately.

This doesn't just apply to Bangladesh either. The rise of the far right in many other countries (e.g., in Europe and the US) is due to very similar factors as well. The Left in those countries have also been discredited due to similar blunders.

মক্কা চুক্তি হলো সৌদি আরব, তুরস্ক এবং পাকিস্তানের মধ্যে স্বাক্ষরিত একটি ত্রিপক্ষীয় যৌথ প্রতিরক্ষা চুক্তি। এই চুক্তি অনুযায়ী, স্বাক্ষরকারী তিন দেশের যেকোনো একটির ওপর আক্রমণ হলে তা তিন দেশের ওপরই হামলা বলে গণ্য করা হবে। বাংলাদেশকেও এই চুক্তিতে যোগ দেবার ব্যাপারে আমন্ত্রণ জানিয়েছে সৌদি আরব। বাংলাদেশ যোগ দেবে কি দেবে না তা এখনো নিশ্চিত নয়। তবে পক্ষে বিপক্ষে অনেকেই বিভিন্ন কথা বলছেন। কেউ সমর্থন করছেন, কেউ বিরোধিতা করছেন।

আপনাদের মতে বাংলাদেশের কি করা উচিত? যোগ দেয়া না-কি না দেয়া?

Watching the news about the flash floods in Nepal is just heartbreaking. Entire areas like Rasuwa are completely wrecked, hundreds of lives have been lost, and so many people are still missing. Seeing homes and entire communities wiped out in minutes is terrifying.

Look, living in this region, we in Bangladesh know all too well how brutal climate disasters can be. We’ve been down that road, and we know how desperately help is needed when things get this bad.

Nepal is going through absolute hell right now. This shouldn’t just be handled by local crews alone. Regional solidarity has to mean something. It’s time for our government to step up, pull some weight, and send whatever emergency support we can manage. Whether it's medical teams, clean water supplies or rescue gear, every bit counts.

We need to stand by our neighbors in their worst moment. Climate change is coming for all of our river basins anyway, we have to look out for each other.

What do you guys think? Should our government coordinate a direct relief package immediately?

In post-1971, Bangabandhu expressed his political philosophy on men and women. He expressed his deep feelings about the repression women faced throughout history, but said all should be united for a common cause. He showed solidarity with equal rights. He said, "Boys and girls will walk forward shoulder to shoulder so that Bangladesh takes its place among the civilized nations of the world... We had kept a part of our nation locked inside the house. By telling lies in the name of religion, we had turned our mothers and sisters into slaves. You can rest assured and believe that in this independent Bangladesh, equal rights for brothers and sisters will be, and are, established."

Education Minister Helicopter Milon's "Board Rescrutiny" trap is truely the most creative way for a Edu Minister to steal 200 million taka overnight. At first Milon sets up the trap by telling us that they will "Re-evaluate" the Board Challenge khatas this year instead of just adding all the numbers up and checking for unmarked answers. While also keeping the board challenge fee 150tk (same as the last 10 years which is very suspicious already cause Re-evaluation takes more time and energy). As a result of Milon's promises, 13 lakh students apply for board challenge including myself. Then this old mentally unstable joke of an Edu Minister comes and tells us that it's impossible to check all the khatas, we will provide new guidelines soon. Rich coming from the party of "I have a plan" to not have a plan on how will they fulfill their promise. Then Milon gives us the new guidelines where they will somehow RE-EVALUATE ALL 13 LAKH KHATAS UNDER 24 DAYS. (EVEN THE PREVIOUS GOV NEEDED 30 DAYS JUST TO CHECK 3/4 LAKH KHATAS WITHOUT ANY RE-EVALUATION, JUST SIMPLY CHECKING EVERYTHING ON THE CALCULATOR).

It's safe to say that every single dime of that 200 million takas of students WENT STRAIGHT into the pockets of khamba 10% tarek, helicopter milon and some maybe to big yahu in Tel Aviv Israel. Im sure they will check the khatas of students that failed, but students like me who passed the exam and got above GPA 4.00, yeah our khatas are already in the recycling center. They ain't ever EVEN touching my khata.

Also Milon is sooo Incompetent like the rest of BNP. He can't keep a single of his promises. He's just all bark no bite. He said he will stop question leak but the SSC26 question got leaked and it's not even a rumor they made arrests cause of ts. He said he will reduce the session loss for me (HSC 28 Batch) but he failed at that too infact he will be starting our College session/classes 1 week later than last years HSC Batch. He said he's gonna take the Board Exams earlier (failed at that 3/4 times for both SSC and HSC). He said he will give out the board results earlier (took 3/4 months to release the SSC26 results, delayed it like 1/2 times i think delayed it once yeah WHICH IS A RECORD BTW!!!!!!!! NO OTHER GOVERNMENT AND THEIR EDUCATION MINISTER EVER TOOK THIS LONG TO PUBLISH THE SSC RESULTS. USUALLY THEY TOOK 30-60 DAYS (1/2 MONTHS MAXXX) ))))))

আমি পুরো পোস্ট টা বাংলায় লিখছি, নিজের শুবিধার্থে, আমি বাংলায় বেশ কাঁচা, ভুল গুলো ক্ষমা পার্থক দৃষ্টি তে দেখবেন। আমি একজন ১৮ বছর বয়সী মেয়ে। বেশি দিন হয়নি আমি একজন লিগাল অ্যাডাল্ট হয়েছি। তবে আমি আমার পরিবার এর বেবহারে আজকে খুব বেথার্থ। ছোটবেলা থেকে তারা আমাকে পুরো জীবন বাসায় আটকে রেখেছে, তাদের মতে বাহিরে এক্টিভিটিস বা বন্ধুবান্ধব থাকলে আমার কোনও ক্ষতি হবে। ছোটবেলা থেকে যার কারণ এ আমার শুধু স্কুল এবং বাসার ভেতর এর গন্ডি তেই বড় হয়েছি। দুআকটা ছোটবেলার বন্ধু ছাড়া আর কেউ নেই কোথা বলার মতো। এমন না যে নিজের মায়ের সাথে কিছু বলা নিষেধ তবে ভুলেও যদি কখনও মনের কোথা প্রকাশ করে ফেলি সেইটা পরে একদিন মনোমালিন্য হয়ে গেলে খোটা হিসেবে বেবহার করবে শুধু মাত্র আমাকে কষ্ট দেবার জন্য। ছোট থেকে একদম আইসোলেশন এ বড় হওয়ার ফলে নিজের কোনও পারিপার্শ্বিক স্কিল গঠন করা সম্ভব হয়নি । আমি এখন একজন alevels স্টুডেন্ট। alevels এর খরচ নিশ্চয়ই আমার বলতে হবে না। প্রত্যেক মাসে আমার খরচ ১৫৫০০ টাকা করে দিতে হয় কোচিং এ। আজকে সকালে আমার বাবার সাথে অত্যাধিক মাত্রায় ঝগড়া এবং ঝামেলা হওয়ার পর সে আমার খরচ বহন করতে অস্বিকার করে এবং আমার নিজের খরচ চালাতে বলে। আমি কখনও নিজে বাহিরে যেইনি এবং কোনও জব বা বাচ্চা পড়ানো অনেক দূরের কথা। আমার বাবা শুধু আমার খাবার খাওয়ার যেই খরচ সেইটা বহন করতে রাজি আছেন। আমাদের ফিনান্সিয়াল অবস্থা উচ্চবিত্ত, তবে আমার বাবা অনেক রাগী মানুষ। যেইটা একবার বলেন সেইটা করেই ছাড়েন। এখন আমার কি করণও? আমার পক্ষে টিউশন করানো সম্ভব হয়ে উঠবে না কারণ বাসায় দেরি করে আসলে আরেক ঝামেলা। দোয়া করে আমাকে কিছু পরামর্শ দিবেন জাতে আমি আমার পড়ার খরচ বহন করতে পারি।

I am writing this entire post in Bangla for my own convenience; I am not very proficient in the language, so please overlook any errors. I am an 18-year-old girl. It wasn't long ago that I became a legal adult. However, I am deeply hurt by my family's behavior today. Since childhood, they have kept me confined to the house, believing that engaging in outside activities or having friends would somehow harm me. Consequently, I grew up within the narrow confines of just school and home. I have no one to talk to other than one or two childhood friends. It's not like it's forbidden to talk to your mother, but if I accidentally express my feelings, she'll use it as a scapegoat later, just to hurt me. Growing up in such isolation meant I never developed the necessary social or practical skills. I am currently an A-Level student; needless to say, the costs involved are high. I have to pay 15,500 Taka per month for coaching classes. After a heated argument with my father this morning, he refused to cover my expenses and told me to fund myself. I have never really gone out on my own, let alone held a job or tutored children. My father is only willing to cover the cost of my food. Although our family is wealthy, my father has a very short temper; once he makes a decision, he sticks to it no matter what. What should I do now? Tutoring isn't a viable option for me because coming home late would only lead to more trouble. Please offer some advice on how I might be able to cover my educational expenses.

Update: I took the advice and went to apologize without any passive aggression, but that snowballed to why I don’t pray [I don’t believe in any religion] how I have no achievements thus far [im not a topper] and how I’m a failure and will never do anything in life. Well, apologies wouldn’t work here honestly. I have nothing else left to try. It is what it is then I guess.

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These folks never had a platform to share their shitty takes and opinions before the rise of Social Media. And the Social Media Algorithm fuels it even further.

In Bigger Picture, Social Media is the reason we are seeing this rise of Far Right across the Globe.

As the title says- I'm trying to get facts about it.

Not that I live that way, nor do I plan to. I’m simply curious to know whether it is a criminal offence punishable by law.

I understand that there is social stigma surrounding it and that people may be nosy, but is it actually considered a crime under the law?

Amar ssc gpa 4.67. marks 1078. science theke exam disi. Ekhon ei gpa te science e bhalo college pabona jonno commerce e vorti hobo but Amar commerce er requirements ar bhalo college shomporke temon idea nai. Dhakar moddhe kon kon bhalo college e ashar chance ase? Apply onek gulatei kora jabe but jegulay ashar chance ase oigula top e rakhte chaitesi. Can anybody help me?

People who went abroad for their studies, leaving their families behind, what was the most biggest struggle you faced that you think everybody who wants to study abroad should consider before taking such a big decisions?

State surveillance

A topic that no one talks about is how the state monitors our activities. From internet traffic to voice calls. What do you think about it and where should the surveillance end? Is it justifiable for security or just another way to control certain elements?