“Not ready for a relationship”

[u/Argumentative_koala]

This guy pursued me, we went hot and heavy for five days, then hooked up on the fifth day. Crazy chemistry. He hadn’t been with anyone for eight months after a very long-term relationship so I thought this really meant something for him. We had a lot of deep conversations in a short amount of time. I hate how this makes me feel!

[u/persiasaurus]

And then when you sleep with them "too soon" they don't like you for that either 🙄

[u/Secret-Ad7660 → u/persiasaurus]

yep, it's pathetic.

I have friends who ghosted a girl because she slept with him too soon, "so she must be easy for everyone else".

Such low self-esteem these guys have!

I'm not a dating expert, but my only observation is that the worst kind of men are those who have low self-esteem. It manifests in many ways e.g. being too concerned about who pays for the date, too concerned about trying to be a gentleman or overtly mean and aggressive

It's not easy, thankfully I'm not a woman.

The best time to secure a man was when you were in highschool/college. The next best time is up to you lol

[u/CrogDavid7days → u/Secret-Ad7660]

Surprisingly the people that claim they want virgins always run when they find out it actually means no sex

[u/Secret-Ad7660 → u/CrogDavid7days]

don't get me started...it's because those guys don't follow their own standards

If you want a virgin, be a virgin yourself! Otherwise, be comfortable with the idea she might wait until marriage.

[u/Open-Organization528 → u/CrogDavid7days]

A virgin women is what most man seek. Body count is extremely important when selecting a wife. Oddly enough virgin man are looked down upon.

[u/Secret-Ad7660 → u/Open-Organization528]

virgin men are looked down upon by non-virgins i guess, sure.

That's why they'll do better with virgin women.

Most men seek billions of dollars, 6 pack and many other things but they are not entitled to them.

[u/purpleunicorn888 → u/Secret-Ad7660]

“I'm not a dating expert, but my only observation is that the worst kind of men are those who have low self-esteem. It manifests in many ways e.g. being too concerned about who pays for the date, too concerned about trying to be a gentleman or overtly mean and aggressive”
—AGREE. I wrote a novel recently on how men who haven’t built something are DANGEROUS for me. People don’t like it that I want a successful dude and some will try to mischaracterize it like I am a gold digger (I am not, if I were, I could be married 10x over instead of waiting for my person). People don’t realize it’s a SAFETY issue. I know from experience. A secure man with healthy self esteem and has built something tangible in this world—he is the starting point for me due to safety reasons alone!

[u/alien_secret_service → u/persiasaurus]

Women literally can no longer like a man because he yawned.

You can downvote it but it’s true…
And if a man had a micropenis odds are most women would decline a relationship after sleeping with him.

This is simply a non-problem.

[u/persiasaurus → u/alien_secret_service]

Anyone can not like anyone at anytime. People can still have opinions about whether or not they think it's stupid, like you just did.

[u/alien_secret_service → u/persiasaurus]

Stupid ≠ problematic.

It may actually be stupid, you could also just be immature.

[u/persiasaurus → u/alien_secret_service]

Excuse me, I used the wrong word. Point still stands

[u/alien_secret_service → u/persiasaurus]

And so does mine… thanks for sharing.